1. Men will rather feel unlove than inadequate and disrespect:-
Husband need to know that their wives respect them both privately and publicly. Men thrive when the know that their wives trust them, admire them, and believe in them. Shaunti feldhahn's research, indicate that men would rather sense the loss of loving feelings from their wives than to be disrespect by them.

2. A man's anger is often a response to feeling disrespected by his wife:-
When a husband becomes angry with his wife, he may not comeout and say "you disrespecting me!" But there's a good likelihood he's feeling stung by something his wife has done which he considers disrespectful and humiliating.;(

3. Men are insecure
Men are afraid that they aren't cutting it in life--not just at work, but at home, in their role as a husband. The may never vocalize this, but inwardly, they are secretly vulnerable. To men, affirmation from their wives is everything! If the dont receive this affirmation from their wives the'll seek it elsewhere. When the receive regular genuine affirmation from their wives, the become more much secure and confident in all areas of their lives.

4. Men feel the burden of being the provider for the family:-
Intelectually, it doesn't matter how much or little a man makes, or whether or not his wife make more or less money in their career. Men simply bears the emotion burden of providing for their family. It's not a burden the have choosen to bear. Men are simply wired with this burden. As such, it is never far from their minds and can result in feelings of being trapped. While wives cannot release their husband from this, the can relieve it through a healthy dose of appreciation, encouragement and support.

5. Men want more sex:
Everyone natural respone to this. But we primary assume that men want more sex with their wives due to their physical wiring. But surprisingly research showed that the reason the want more sex is because of their strong need to be desire by their wives. Men simply needed to be wanted. Regular fulfilling sex is critical to man's sense feeling love and desire.

6. Sex means more than sex:
When men feel their wives desire them sexually, it has a profound effect on the rest of their lives. It gives them an increasing sense of confident. When a man feels rejected sexually, he's not only feels that the wife is rejecting him physically but that she's somehow rejecting his life as a husband. This is why making sex a priority in marriage is so incridibly important.

7. Men struggle with visual temptation:
This means the vast majority of men respond to visual images when it comes to women, and this doesn't just mean the guy with wandering eyes. Even the most godly husband cannot avoid noticing a woman who dress in a way that drives attention to her.

8. Men want their wife to know how much the love them:
This was number one response of men. Men aren't confident in their ability to xpress this, but the love their wives dearly. Men want to show how much they love their wives and long for them to understand this fact.

9. Men care about their wife's appearance:
This isn't that all men want their wives to look like the latest supermodel. What men realy want is to know and see is, their effort to take care of themself. Husband appreciate the effort of their wives to maintain their attractiveness.

Awww

Just incase it make FT, am coming back to comment.

Men wants their wives to know that the character they met them with is unchangeable, so dey should accept it in good faith

Men want to turn all the women arround them and their wife into robots who will authomatically knows what they want and how they want it.

i concur generally wit point no7... If u knw wt i mean.

MzNelly:
Awww

Hopefully ladies will think better of us now

We just need more attention

yup! it all boils down to their untamed ego

10. Men are too selfish..

They cheat on their wives but if women should reciprocate......hmmm! U know what 'll happen na

lanicky:
10. Men are too selfish..

They cheat on their wives but if women should reciprocate......hmmm! U know what 'll happen na

No doubt, majority of men cheat on their wife, but a good numbers of men also are faithful. So dont generalized it.

crazysaint:
No doubt, majority of men cheat on their wife, but a good numbers of men also are faithful. So dont generalized it.

True. There are men who cheat and ones who don't, just like the women.

@ OP nice write up
But most men will be trying to act tough like they are always strong. I have this thing for guys who let me see beyond all that toughness,its really cute.