OBAGADAFFI:


So you prefare to go clubbing separately.

that's not the original question, is it?

The question is, is it right for a married couple to go TOGETHER.

If it had been, Is it right for Married couples to go clubbing together or separately, I would have answered differently.

Since you asked anyway..... Clubbing is not something I'm into anymore, so whether going with my husband or separately, it's not anywhere on my hanging out list.

wacoj:
THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG THERE! This is Africa for crying out loud.
What on earth would a married couple be looking for at the club?
Whether they are together or not, it is wrong.
When you are married, the best you can do to have a wonderful relationship
is to go to church together, sit together in church, pray together, hang out together like the beach etc.
Clubbing would NEVER add any spice to ur marriage.
[/b]Especially, a married woman has NOTHING doing in d club when she should be thinking of raising her kids.
If a married man decides to club even if he is alone, well, it is quite understandable[b] though not advisable but CERTAINLY NOT the woman.

This is a ridiculous statement.

Moreover, what makes it "quite understandable" for a man to go a club? The kid(s) the wife will take of, is she the ONLY parent? Is a man not also responsible FOR taking care of the kids(assuming the woman got pregnant by herself) ?

which legacy are they instillin in their children or will they instill when they give birth. when u are married clubbing is a vomit u dont go back to after marriage.

Bamz:
They should take their kids along too. That way it would be a perfect family gathering!

Infact The Extended Family Should Be Included,You Know,Grandpa N Grandma Gats Rock As Well.

Ha!...shey it's just clubbing...they can even go with the children sef...how about going to the office with ur clubbing gear...& calling the missus to meet you at the club with the kids...ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEMS AT ALL!

rosebase:

and nothing wrong if d man go alone?

Yes... He is a man, tendency of him meeting another lady is slimmer than the wife alone.

Absolutely nothing wrong. I call it spice

Married couples clubbing together is allowing the devil into ur midst. Its fun but what if you leave your wife's presence and before you come back some guy is already trying to molest your wife it will lead to a fight in the club or ur wife goes to the ladies and some lady gives you a seductive dance and passes u a paper with her number on it, isnt dat temptation. There are other decent ways to have fun as a married couple like going to the cinema, beach, bowling, eatery, parties etc but not clubbing

That is why there is so much abominations in these dispensation, how can a man be in the house sleeping while the woman is out there clubbing. When you go to the desert what do you go there to see ? a dry grass ? or a prophet ? what do you go to the desert to see ? It is in the same arena that so many evils crop up. There are better things to do to keep you away from being bored.

personally i think it wrong because men are asily tempted than ladies and they day they decide to go seperately to cool their neres maybe after a rough day or misunderstanding, then the man may find a lady more sexy than his wife. Then the whole drama starts. besides Naija clubs are far fom just drinking and dancing

habsydiamond:
which legacy are they instillin in their children or will they instill when they give birth. when u are married clubbing is a vomit u dont go back to after marriage.

This is exactly my point.. I am very sure most people here saying ''There is nothing there'' are not married.
Wait till u are married then you will know the difference.

I am married and i can not take it. It is absolutely nonsense.

I have been to the club with my hubby twice and I can't say its right or wrong.it all depends on the couple.but for me, i'd rather not go again.the loud music, crowd, skimply dressed ladies and cigarette smoke pissed me off.i 'd rather go to a cool spot to relax with my hubby
I remember a simply dressed lady trying to do erotic dance with my hubby Lol.Noooo.I won't do it again

timilinda:
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And when d man goes alone??

that's quite acceptable

Can't wait for children to grow a little older so that I can continue my Friday night out. #responsible or not.. E no concern me.

There is no biggie with going to the club, especially with one's partner.
Can even improve your sex life if you guys know exactly what youre doing

Me and my wife will go clubbing till death do us part..


God punish responsible...

spartoo:


that's quite acceptable

Lol! U try!

Shey na only the 'MAN' won go NI, there is no Biggie, the 'WOMAN' sef can go alone if there is 'TRUTH' in there relationship, Going to club it jst all about to catch fun nothing else to me.

Hmmm... I even club with pregnancy. Hubby got my back. Nothing wrong with that at all. Its fun and adds spice to ur marriage.

spartoo:
noin wrongy if they go 2geda buh erytin wrongy if th femme goz alone

if the man goes alone nko?

spartoo:
noin wrongy if they go 2geda buh erytin wrongy if th femme goz alone

Can you write plain English, please? Thank you in advance.

of cos y not I can so go to the club wif my husband wen am married...

uzoormah:


Then their children would follow them too abi...use it dear, i mean ur sense

Jeez, seriously since last yr..Totally forgotten abt dis..

dins4real:


No, No, No........
That's not two kobo! That's a million dollar advice that u gave.

Tanx.

Chizzy20:
Jeez, seriously since last yr..Totally forgotten abt dis..

sorry 4 d way i spoke to u... last year? are u sure m in 2016?

uzoormah:

sorry 4 d way i spoke to u... last year? are u sure m in 2016?

k.

welly440:
Can you write plain English, please? Thank you in advance.

takey the way u seey or leavey

Chizzy20:
k.

Lol

Blessograo:
personally i think it wrong because men are asily tempted than ladies and they day they decide to go seperately to cool their neres maybe after a rough day or misunderstanding, then the man may find a lady more sexy than his wife. Then the whole drama starts. besides Naija clubs are far fom just drinking and dancing

I get your angle but on the flip side, going with a wife helps one scare of bids from "female vultures" and the likes. I feel every man has His beauty specification in mind and one who will cheat will regardless of the wife's beauty.

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