I couldn't
A recent one was two days ago at a seminar
A colleague of mine stood up and and there it was,he hadn't zipped up
I was battling within me

Should I tell him?
Should I not?
What will he think?
Will he wonder how and why my eyes went down there?
We chatted briefly and I quietly walked away because I just couldn't say it



So ladies what will you do
Would you point it out or just walk away leaving the man in a room of people with an open zipper to go around socializing

I'm not a lady so I won't comment

I won't tell o , if there's any male friend around i'll just tell him to pass the message.

ifex370:
I'm not a lady so I won't comment

Please do
Women also wear trousers and forget to zip up
Would you bring it to her attention?
Of if you saw someone with some fake pads in her bra sticking out or shirt button open below the top one or thongs sticking above her jeans at the back with her blouse raised
Will you point it out to her of just allow her to walk on by

**spreads mat**

I don't see anything bad in that...have been told several times but I for once never imagine how the person notice ....all I say is thanks..zip up and never think abt it again


I think it's all abt ur reasoning and dirty thoughts

I will tell him

Watin concern me with watin wey no concern me.

toecyne:
**spreads mat**

Dumps sand with soldier ants on that mat

He or She must be informed in a friendly manner without any sinister motive attached.

I don't see it as a big deal, if I see a lady or a guy dat din zip up, I will let the person know, it is now left to the person to start wondering wat my eyes was looking for over there..

Babymama1:



Dumps sand with soldier ants on that mat

*gets up and warns*
dnt look for my trouble young lady, i dnt like fightin.. bt i enjoy physical fights with ladies on my mat

JOKE
A lady once tell a man that his garage was opened, the man look down on his zipper, smiles and asked the lady if he saw his black jeep pack inside. The lady smiled back and said, actually I saw a keke-na-pepe with 2 flat tires!

@Op, there's no big deal in letting man know his garage is open...except if u have ulterior thing in mind

Babymama1:


Please do
Women also wear trousers and forget to zip up
Would you bring it to her attention?
Of if you saw someone with some fake pads in her bra sticking out or shirt button open below the top one or thongs sticking above her jeans at the back with her blouse raised


Will you point it out to her of just allow her to walk on by

the bolded is where I lost you

I've had a situation where a lady panties was on display cos she didn't sit well. I had to jokingly told her to sit well. Its embarrassing but its better than to prolong the embarrassment for her

Babymama1:
I couldn't
A recent one was two days ago at a seminar
A colleague of mine stood up and and there it was,he hadn't zipped up
I was battling within me

Should I tell him?
Should I not?
What will he think?
Will he wonder how and why my eyes went down there?
We chatted briefly and I quietly walked away because I just couldn't say it



So ladies what will you do
Would you point it out or just walk away leaving the man in a room of people with an open zipper to go around socializing

Appearances are everything.

If he looks and comes across like a decent guy who unfortunately had a wardrobe "malfunction", I'll ask another guy to tell him. (I'll be too embarrassed to say it to his face myself)

If on the other hand he looks like a tout, then what's my own? I'll jejely mind my business and face my front o!

depends on my mood.
there is nothing bad in telling him, in fact telling him makes you a nice person at the moment

I will surely walk up to them and whisper "excuse me, I think your zip is down" and walk away. There's no reason for me to be embarrassed unless I have negative thoughts on my mind. If I were in the same situation, say zip down, hand bag wide open, stain on my clothes or food on my chin, I would prefer someone was decent enough to tell me especially if we are colleagues.

Of course, alongside a grin that could not be helped. No biggie imo.

Babymama1:


Please do
Women also wear trousers and forget to zip up
Would you bring it to her attention?
Of if you saw someone with some fake pads in her bra sticking out or shirt button open below the top one or thongs sticking above her jeans at the back with her blouse raised
Will you point it out to her of just allow her to walk on by

I want to encourage you to please alert your male colleague or any male with his fly down. Just a whisper in his eyes about it or a written note to him should be enough. Alerting him may save him from further embarrassment.

A lady told me once in the office that my fly was undone. I quickly looked at it, did the needful and told her thank you.

If it were the other way round I may just decide not to tell depending on the circumstance and how busy my thoughts are at the time.

It depends on how close I am with the person.

But I can't remember doing that except to my brother, dad or ex.

If he's a colleague I'm not familiar with I will mind my business and pretend I didn't see it but if he's a padi I will say it jokingly for only his ears to zip up or write a small note and pass it to him



THAT IS IF HE IS MY PERSON O.if he's not if he likes let the zip fall of and let him not wear boxers sef sotey the something go escape for trousers na so I go dey pretend like I no see anything. Maybe if I no get work I will form like I'm playing with my phone. Turn off the camera flash and sound so he won't know I'm snapping him

SAMBARRY:
If he's a colleague I'm not familiar with I will mind my business and pretend I didn't see it but if he's a padi I will say it jokingly for only his ears to zip up or write a small note and pass it to him



THAT IS IF HE IS MY PERSON O.if he's not if he likes let the zip fall of and let him not wear boxers sef sotey the something go escape for trousers na so I go dey pretend like I no see anything. Maybe if I no get work I will form like I'm playing with my phone. Turn off the camera flash and sound so he won't know I'm snapping him

Kia!

This is Sunday o! Madam, you need to repent!!

But er...what will you do with the pics? Post them on nland?

EfemenaXY:


Kia!

This is Sunday o! Madam, you need to repent!!

But er...what will you do with the pics? Post them on nland?

lol . of course not. I will just keep it for record purposes noni

I planned to open a thread like this kx am always in this situation. In the market and other places, I will c a woman or girl either with her zip unclosed or she is sitting on a short skirt with laps wide open and anytime I bring it to the persons notice she will do as if embarrassed or her pride stepped on. people arround will ask how my eyes got there. I will start regretting my kindnx.

I won't feel offended or embarrassed if a lady tells me that. Tho it depends on how open the zip is

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As a man, you should always zip up. When you adjust you trousers, check your zip, when you go to urinate, check your zip. Its kind of irresponsible to leave you fly open especially when you are in a work environment. The only excusable excuse is when your zip malfunctions. Most women feel embarrassed when you talk to them and your fly is open but there is nothing wrong as a woman to inform a man about is fly, most men don't pick offense, in fact some men take it as a kind of way to flirt (I won't go further than this make I no spoil market for some pipu )

bennyrazz:
As a man, you should always zip up. When you adjust you trousers, check your zip, when you go to urinate, check your zip. Its kind of irresponsible to leave you fly open especially when you are in a work environment. The only excusable excuse is when your zip malfunctions. Most women feel embarrassed when you talk to them and your fly is open but there is nothing wrong as a woman to inform a man about is fly, most men don't pick offense, in fact some men take it as a kind of way to flirt (I won't go further than this make I no spoil market for some pipu )

And it's for that very reason most women would ignore the dude and let him move around with his zippers undone. For all we know, such men probably do it on purpose as per, "hey baby, come 'n get me".

Mtcheew.