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8 Reasons Why Women Remain In An Abusive Relationship by Rotjijatau(m): 5:42pm On Jan 20, 2015
Abuse can be emotional, financial, sexual or physical and can include threat, isolation or intimidation. The following are the ten reasons why women still remain in abusive relationships

1. Inferiority Complex: Some women do not know their worth, they think their worthless and they begin to believe that the abuse is their fault.

2. Money: Most girls remain with the guys who beat them because of the money involved perhaps its the guy's income that gives her certain lifestyle, so she is afraid of loosing the money thinking she can't afford such luxuries.

3. Good Sex: Despite all the abuse they get from their partners, they still remain in the relationship thinking they can't get such sex from anywhere else.

4. Too Much To Loose: some women are forced to stay in abusive relationships because alot has been invested such as marriage, children and property. Some women even think that their children will suffer if they leave the home.

5. Fear: Some men threaten the womenthat they will hunt them if they try to leave the house, there the women will be scared to leave.

6. Embarrassment: Some women are not ready to face the embarrassment that is attached to failed marriage that will make them go back to their parents house.

7. Believe That Abuse Is Normal: Some women grew up in environments where abuse is common, so they grow up thinking that abuse is a normal thing.

8. Love: Some women still remain in an abusive relationship simply because they love their partner and also thinking that he will change...

Add yours if you have any!!!!
Re: 8 Reasons Why Women Remain In An Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 20, 2015
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Re: 8 Reasons Why Women Remain In An Abusive Relationship by Redoil: 5:58pm On Jan 20, 2015
Let us stop encouraging divorce for such things will not be well for our society. Rather let us encourage the men/husband to learn to behave like human and not like bush meat.
Re: 8 Reasons Why Women Remain In An Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jan 20, 2015
hmm
Re: 8 Reasons Why Women Remain In An Abusive Relationship by thiefnubu(m): 6:13pm On Jan 20, 2015
Ok

Table turned....

Why women remain in abusive relationships, WHERE THEY ARE THE ONES ABUSING THE MEN


1- Most women are control freaks... Once they get in the driving seat of a man's life, they would rather 'die in power' than let go. ;'( ..... Give some women a handshake, and before you know it, the handshake has gone beyond the elbow embarassed

2- It massages their ego... Although most women wont admit it, having their man by his balls increases their feeling of self-worth... Beating up or assaulting their husband surely gives some of them that sense of invincibility and gender equality that they so unreasonably crave undecided

3- Bragging Rights- I doubt there are many things that are more gratifying to a woman, than being able to brag to her friends, that her hubby cannot give her nonsense, because he knows that she won't take it. She will then be hailed as being 'correct', and will become her friends' chief relationship adviser.... That's how most ladies land in trouble... By taking advice from these kind of women. angry

4- Freedom of unbridled cheating.... Most 'remote controlled' husbands have
absolutely no say in their wife's life.... So Madam can always bleep anyone,
anywhere, anytime, and the husband will always be like an Arsenal fan... Perpetually praying for the best, but never quite getting it grin

5- Some crazy women get a sexual high from abusing and assaulting their
man.... The same way some women cum when they just have their Tips
squeezed, or get lightly kissed behind their ears, so also some woman achieve an insane sort of orgasm from battering their spouses embarassed_
Re: 8 Reasons Why Women Remain In An Abusive Relationship by thiefnubu(m): 6:55pm On Jan 20, 2015

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