Someone just asked a very nasty question about parallel relationships. what are your views?

The guy is dumped and fast.

what if you just discovered it some months into marriage and with a pregnancy for the matter?this is no story it happened.

ibkaye:

The guy is dumped and fast.

That easy? U won't take him to MFM first to see if he can be delivered??

berildan:

what if you just discovered it some months into marriage and with a pregnancy for the matter?this is no story it happened.

Fyam! My head at the moment is telling me 'the guy is still dumped' and that's what I'm thinking I would most definately do.

But I guess you can never be too sure until you actually get into such a situation, God forbid bad thing o.

~Sauron~:

That easy? U won't take him to MFM first to see if he can be delivered??

I guess I replied way too fast

Yeah sure, deliverance sessions etc, do all we can do to help him get over his 'gayasity', if all does not go according to plan, THEN I guess he'll be dumped

This is a guy I loved enough to marry, so I guess I would not give up on him that easily

ibkaye:

I guess I replied way too fast

Yeah sure, deliverance sessions etc, do all we can do to help him get over his 'gayasity', if all does not go according to plan, THEN I guess he'll be dumped

This is a guy I loved enough to marry, so I guess I would not give up on him that easily

Noted!!!!

You can't be gay and str8.

It's either you're a banana or an appl

~Sauron~:

That easy? U won't take him to MFM first to see if he can be delivered??

hehehehe  

how would i feel if i find out out my guy likes it from the back
Will be disgusted and dump his ass

sauron honey,u r wanted here


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If it weren't a marriage and if there weren't a child involved, I would say leave the relationship.

I think it would be a difficult situation. I mean is he bisexual? Is that what you mean? Because if it is, then as uncomfortable and disconcerting as the knowledge is of having married someone who has either had same-sex sex or struggles with gay feelings, it might work out if you can get past it as long as he remains faithful.

Obviously at some point he was able to perform with a woman for her to be pregnant. It would be horrible but I think there would need to be a lot of mature conversation and maybe it would be necessary to see what can be done to salvage the situation (if it is at all salvageable) either through counseling or modifications in sex life if both parners are amenable to such.

Of course it would be hard especially if the Mrs. didn't know beforehand and there will be feelings of having been deceived and anger etc but I think for the child's sake, it might be worth trying. I don't think the situation becomes super-critical until there is some (gay) cheating going on or unless either party can't stomach staying in the relationship, then at the point, the situation is hopeless.