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speak English - no wonder she broke up with yah.

There are certain things you don't need to be adviced on like the one you tabled above. Simply go and make her to reason with you on the need for you and her to come back together. But if it didn't work out you should simply let go while one or two lessons might have been learnt. Good luck.

How can we tell you what to do if we dont know what caused the break up in the begining?

Have you fixed whatever was wrong with you to make her leave you?

@ sistawoman
exactly what i was thinking!
@ poster
i mean, have you figured out what was wrong with you that made her break up?Have you fixed it? Cos even if u apologise and she agrees believe me,if you repeat it she will break up with you again and most likely for the last time.

She told ma friend that I always behave like i got something' wrong with me and i kind of snob her, I did this because she got a whole lotta things wrong, tried to bring her back in line but she was kind of adamant so i kind of stopped doing as if she existed because i was tired of correcting the same thing errtime,  Must think there was some friend influence there , i mean the whole acting up thing.
A whole lotta other things influenced me like friends, rap and me myself, aint tryin to lay any blame on no one because i messed up for being patient
Realized some days ago that i really missed her and still love her when some chick asked me on phone if i stll loved her n i couldn't just bring maself to say a no.
ok i do stuffs like
snob, most principal fault she accused me of

don't call her cos she's always not too polite(knew the rship was heading for the rocks when she started this cos she's always polite and down to listen to me with all attention)
get annoyed if she doesnt pick ma calls which started later in the rship,etcetc
Please drop yo comments and stop dissin

Juvie love. Nawa o!

Seriously Hustla,

WTF are you saying (in a polite way obviously ) i mean i just cant cant understand ur story to the reason y u broke up? its like ure waffling,

NL, pls does nyone understand?, or is it just me?

TIP: next time, make it short and go straight to the point, GEZZZ, i feel ive wasted part of my lunch break!

emm, no offense by the way, just love,

I still dont understand why she left you.

Give examples of what behavior of hers you found yourself correcting over and over again.

And why would you want to be with someone that you have to hound and train?

Dont you want someone who is grown and trained?

Usually only the men need to be trained not the women.

You have been advising her incorrectly for you and her to rightly conclude that you are a snob, so I guess you are largely to blame for this

Why do you have to make up over the phone, can't you take her out on a date somewhere romantic where both of you would be able to do some much-needed soul-searching, before the relationship gets back on track

From what i could pick up from your attempts to sound cool, i think you should basically mention the faults you have mentioned here and let her know what you think she could work on from your point of view and please please stop trying too hard to be cool it makes you seem like an arrogant "A hole".

omega i aint tryin to sound cool, i wrote the stuff exactly the way i talk, thanks for the advice though.
Won't try and makeup on phone again, will choose a nice spot we used to go to before, Thanks y'al