Mynd44:

I apologize and I know men who do. So I dont get the OP

Please can you quote all the people you have apologized to on nairaland? Seeing is believing nwokem

I don't think it is a male thing.

veave:




Please can you quote all the people you have apologized to on nairaland? Seeing is believing nwokem

So you want to judge people by their NL atitude? hilarious

Modesayo:
What they have is too much ego,i think God made them like that....but HE will soften their hearts.

No! People like you in the society gave them that, making them feel like some important beings that are gifts to mankind. If you stop feeding them such lies, about how they are created with big over bloated egos, you will see a massive difference.

Stoooopid ego!!!!!!

I know women who find it hard to apologize. I haven't dealt with this issue personally but I'd like to know how men are so skilled at following a conversation and insert "yes" and "absolutely" when necessary and when you ask them about it a week later they look at you like you just grew an extra eye. Seriously You responded and yet you were not listening?

Don't know why I find it easier to apologize to a female than a male Could it be because I consider females weaker and less a threat? When I offend a fellow guy, I 'd rather we fight or just pretend like nothing happened than apologize, especially if he is the stubborn type.

Mynd44:

So you want to judge people by their NL atitude? hilarious

Its not a laughing matter...

alutacontinua:
They say it's ego!
But I find the attitude really disturbing too
I say sorry to my wife when I have to

And that my brother, makes you a man indeed. Very few men can. May God continue to bless your home.

soulglo:
I know women who find it hard to apologize. I haven't dealt with this issue personally but I'd like to know how men are so skilled at following a conversation and insert "yes" and "absolutely" when necessary and when you ask them about it a week later they look at you like you just grew an extra eye. Seriously You responded and yet you were not listening?

It happens especially when you are not interested in the convo and you wanted it to end ASAP...... or When you think objecting will create a long argument, you just play along and deny the discussion later.... Many reasons sister soulglo

chival:

And that my brother, makes you a man indeed. Very few men can. May God continue to bless your home.

Amen....

bellong:




It happens especially when you are not interested in the convo and you wanted it to end ASAP...... or When you think objecting will create a long argument, you just play along and deny the discussion later.... Many reasons sister soulglo

@OP:

Depends on the man

ileobatojo:

I know a lot of men who apologise easily,infact I only hear that men find it hard to apologise but I have never met one.

bellong:




It happens especially when you are not interested in the convo and you wanted it to end ASAP...... or When you think objecting will create a long argument, you just play along and deny the discussion later.... Many reasons sister soulglo



Amen....

LOL. That's obvious but I will not carry on a conversation I don't want to have so I will not be nodding my head or pretend to be interested. As far as long arguments goes are you trying to say women are trouble makers

soulglo:


LOL. That's obvious but I will not carry on a conversation I don't want to have so I will not be nodding my head or pretend to be interested. As far as long arguments goes are you trying to say women are trouble makers

This is your word not MINE...

For Abroad, men apologize to their wives even when they are right (except dem no want peace )

For Nigeria, men find it difficult to apologize because they know their value

Just change the topic to Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologize in Nigeria?

Demainman1:
For Abroad, men apologize to their wives even when they are right (except dem no want peace )

For Nigeria, men find it difficult to apologize because they know their value

Just change the topic to Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologize in Nigeria?

Actually that does not show value but lack of manners. This idea that apologizing or even saying thank you to your wife or your children is belittling is so backward.

soulglo:


Actually that does not show value but lack of manners. This idea that apologizing or even saying thank you to your wife or your children is belittling is so backward.

You are very correct. maybe i should have used inverted commas for the 'value'.

It's ok to apologize when you are wrong but in the western world Naija women will even demand apology when they are wrong, if not they will kick the man out of the house