Monicaa:

well to sum it up, like she said, she just got out of a relationship. Ur spending money or watsoeva u consider a loss isn't. She was genuine when she said if she could force it, she would. She just got out of a relationship so she needs time to clear her head. U should be patient with her or be friends with her, don't force anything or try to create a normal aura, if she wants u or watsoeva, she would at her own time.

Sea~Goddes:

just let her go, she was never into you at the first place according to ur testmony maybe cox she never liked u at the first sight, no real connection or no deep soul feelings for you or u never gave her time, space to really think bout it thoroughly, she felt pressured. anywaxz whatever the real reasons might be leave her to go, she doesnt like u and it is not going to workout. b.t.w did u want to date her cox she got big boobs and u just wanted sex or that u actually really loved her _{wished i really doubt}

knowme:

She actually does not have Big boobs but Beatiful Boobs, I loved her I must confess, and I never pressured her into anything I gave her enough time and I tried treating her as a Lover can, like you said anyway I think so too she does not Love me, but she tries to be a friend, I go to their House the Mom knows me as her friend but then I really did not think I should waste a whole lot of time waiting, I have waited enough.

Sea~Goddes:

just let her go, she was never into you at the first place according to ur testmony maybe cox she never liked u at the first sight, no real connection or no deep soul feelings for you or u never gave her time, space to really think bout it thoroughly, she felt pressured. anywaxz whatever the real reasons might be leave her to go, she doesnt like u and it is not going to workout. b.t.w did u want to date her cox she got big boobs and u just wanted sex or that u actually really loved her  _{whichi really doubt}

I am glad she turned you down. Try find out what her last relationship look like and why it broke up. Then try and help her heal her wounded heart instead of nursing you own selfish desire. Finally, try to convince her that you are real and you will succeed in taking her away from her past.

Magz:

For some reason, I think that you would get along better with the girls here in the States. Maybe you should try and come to New York to find you a shorty.

KarmaMod:

Lol while I agree with you, how can he convince her of being "real" when he actually IS NOT real. He was looking for sex and the smart chic didnt.

OP, leave the girl alone. she doesnt need another heartbreak from a love-vendor like you

iice:

Sorry but rofl. Do you hear yourself? Her tits carried you to her. You consider the money spent a loss. You met and told her 'let's start going out', you love her but keep harping on the point you didn't pressure her. What has one got to do with the other?

I agree with this. There are no signs she was into you.

knowme:

Guy what do you think about this? its a Long story but am going to cut it as short as  I can.

I was going through my friend's phone and I saw this endowed babe, she had nice tits and I liked her, So I asked my friend about her and He gave me her number I called her up and we met She was schooling in Benin and I had to go to Benin for a Job, and when we met I have this Policy of beign straight am not A saint but I have made it a Policy to be straight when am dealing with People, So I was straight with her I told her how I got her Picture and How  I had to collect her Number from my friend and I wanted us to start going out, she did not accept immediately but told me to wait when she gets back from School, when she did got back from school we met and talked again then she told me she just got out of a relationship so she was not going to Jump into a another one, it sounded reasonable, so I decided to give her time, she went back to school and after a few weeks I went to Benin to work as well as to see her when I saw her she told me she was going to tell me her decision when I had gone back to Lag but I insisted she goes ahead and tell me whats up and she told me ok we could go out, so we started dating, but then I noticed something when she accepted to date me the excitement was not there and I told her but she felt I was complaining and told me we have not even started a relationship and I was complainig already? so I felt I shoult still give her some times because she was doing her final exams and she was going to do her Project as well, now I thought after her project we were going to have to start serious dating as per getting more intimate, but everytime I call her and after talking I tell her I love her she does not respond, I endured that for like 4 months until on the 31st Dec 2008 I talked to her and asked her if she had made up her mind to get love me, but she told me that shes been trying to do so but its not just working and because of that we decided to call it quits, Well inside of me am at peace though I loved her but seriously I do not want to force anything out of her, I have spent some money on her already but I consider it a lost because I never got anything in return, as far as am concern when am in a relationship and my woman refuses me sex then am the one on the losing end but I consider a relationship a good one  when we both had inputs that is for me to have gotten something in return for what I have given in those cases I do not actually cry when the relationship stops because we would have agreed on our own to stop it, but when its one sided it becomes painful, am not nursing any pain anyway, all I am concern about is if I had done the right thing or I should have given her some more time, in Her word and I quote'' '' You are a nice person I have tried to get to love you but nothing seems to be working if I could force it out of I would have done it" to me I feel with that statement that there is no hope for the relationship any longer. what do you think?

knowme:

When i said I loved her I meant it that was why I gave her the time I gave her, If you are going to say she was not into me yea I agree to that, What relationship are you going to go in that you would not expect sex? so where then do I get the sex? am a very sexually active Guy I don't imagine myself having a relationship then forcing myself to go Calibate

knowme:

Tope what do you mean i should make up my mind? the point is a woman cannot satisfy me alone so I will need something additional, More over my work takes me out alot, I do alot of travelling, so when am out there am Hot I just call on my shortie in that Geolocation and get some rounds before I go back to my woman , so you can't blame the Bruz would you? and you did not answer me question about what Beyonce is saying.

tobaaro:

@ Olanajim & iice

U two hav bin thrashing posts on Nairaland 4 soo long u've become trite and lost intuition, So quick 2 pounce on som1 weak enough 2 post his situations on Seun's portal! Anyway, keep doing what u kno what 2 do best! Thumbs up!

You are welcome
I'd rather do without many intuitions apparent

omoshobo:

Hi guys and girls, My fiance broke up our relationship on saturday and am feeling really bad because i really loved him.He asked not to step my foot in his house,the problem was he said i raised my voice at him.I need your advice what should i do? am hurting badly he has even proposed to me.

omoshobo:

Yes another thread,why is it so easy for u guys to break up with girls?without consideration?

omoshobo:

Girl that is a first for me for a guy telling me not to step my foot into his house a house that i got for him,even the kitchen utensils i bought them with my money,am trying to give him time wheather he will change if not i will go remove my things from his house.

On the other hand am entittled to go pack the things i bought with my money because he said i shuld go pick every pin i contributed to the house but a friend of mine though she is married said i shuld leave the things for him, i need advice what shuld i do shuld i forgo the things or not?

because it is not proper for another woman to use the things i bought with my money.