Hermanie:
I been think say na my case bad pass

How many times u self-service

Amusaopeyemi:
Is it very effective?
How much is it?

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I'm so confused right now

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changes1:


its still better than patronizing sex workers .

yes u are ryt but I see it as an addiction and it cud get worse if not properly control soon

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please tell your friend to do pepper friendly whenever the urge come calling. Or Do candle wax bath on the stick head whenever the urge come. The spirit needs violence and by violence the stick will always withdrawn. Congrat as you apply this formulas.

Just tell that your friend say make he lool for one
girl marry vqa

Tell ya friend that his playing wit his life coz na only water water him go dey drop soon ... And tell him to read about Azoospermia coz that where he will end up
And if na u be that ya friend pls STOP SELF SERVICING..

airex:
U could help him by loving him

Love ko loving ni. When my viberator is still working fine.

tdayof:
tell him to

1) make a vow with God - is heart will tell him he is about to Sin against God whenever he feels like self-servicing again.

lol! you think its like porting to etisalat easyblaze . oga u jonzing

Hmmmm. so funny that habits are capable of getting hold of a man to the level of determinning his destiny.
bro. what is happening is not yet your destiny and you can still change it if you really want.
luckily,you have just started taking the right step by sharing it on this forum. but you need to do more of this by identifying those who you know are mature to counsel and guide you.
you also need a very strong determination to abstain from everything you do that leads you to self-servicing.
Moreover,change certain things around you and your routines e.g friends that still engage you in immoral talks,your thought pattern, being

Amusaopeyemi:

Love ko loving ni. When my viberator is still working fine.

God will help you plz

That's nothing I whack up four times daily prescribed by my doctor

iamord:
lol! you think its like porting to etisalat easyblaze . oga u jonzing

its very possible... Have advised like 3 ppl and it worked..

I self service sometimes instead of cheating on my girl. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it but religion is messing with some peoples head in nigeria also my girl does the samething when I'm not around I just have to be on the phone with her.

Yehman:
Fellow nairalanders, a friend of mine complained bitterly to me xterday that he masturbates at least twice on daily basis. He definitely wants to put an end to this stupid act. Pls, how do I handle this issue? What are the problems he is like to face in future? Tnx in anticipation for ur heart-to-heart advice.

Doxie69:

How many times u self-service

69 times a day, but na only one day a week I dey do am

tdayof:
its very possible... Have advised like 3 ppl and it worked..

his case is not spiritual. he needs to find something to keep himself busy. have self control . and socialize more with ladies. he is definitely a shy type when ladies are around

You also need the word of God and consistent praying habit. By the way,something preceeds the above which is giving not just your body but your whole life to Jesus. Surrender the whole of your life to Him and hand over your situations to Him. I can assure you bro, all will end well

alayandekolasam:
Hmmmm. so funny that habits are capable of getting hold of a man to the level of determinning his destiny.
bro. what is happening is not yet your destiny and you can still change it if you really want.
luckily,you have just started taking the right step by sharing it on this forum. but you need to do more of this by identifying those who you know are mature to counsel and guide you.
you also need a very strong determination to abstain from everything you do that leads you to self-servicing.
Moreover,change certain things around you and your routines e.g friends that still engage you in immoral talks,your thought pattern, being

Please explain to us how mastùrbation can change someone's destiny because this is the part i don't get. What has one got to do with the other?What is it with you folks and scaremongering? Someone has to explain this bit to me though

There are many bizarre claims about mastùrbation, for example that it causes blindness, insanity, acne and even hair growth.
We sort fact from myth and answer your questions on what is arguably one of the most commonly practiced sexual activities on the planet.
What is mastůrbation?
Mastůrbation involves sexually arousing yourself by touching your genitals. Both men and women can mastùrbate, and you can mastùrbate yourself or someone else.
Is mastùrbation normal?
Yes. Apart from the pleasure it gives, mastùrbating can help you learn what you like and don't like sexually. Men can also use mastùrbation to learn how to control their orgasms, while women can find out what helps them to achieve an orgasm. Many couples mastùrbate together and find it a very enjoyable part of their relationship. Other people don't and that's fine: it's a personal choice.
How do you mastùrbate?
There's no right or wrong way to mastùrbate. Men usually do it by rubbing their penìs. Women usually touch and stroke their clitorìs and the area around the vaģina. The clitoŕis is a small soft bump in front of the entrance to the vagïna. It's very sensitive, and touching and stimulating it can give strong feelings of sexual pleasure. Most women need the clitoŕis to be stimulated in order to have an orgasm during sex or mastuŕbation.
What is ejaćulation?
Ejaćulation occurs when semèn shoots out from the peñis when a man has an orgasm. There is usually about 5ml of liquid, but there may be more, especially if a man hasn't ejaculated for some time. Women can also ejaculate fluid, but this is far less common than for men.
Is mastùrbation safe?
Yes. For the record, mastuŕbating doesn't cause blindness, insanity, or acne and won't make hair grow on your palms. Joking aside, there's no risk of pregnancy or catching a sexually transmitted infection (STI) from mastùrbating, although there is a risk of infection if you touch someone else's genitals and then touch your own. This is because STIs can be passed on through infected semen or vaginal fluid.
There is a risk of infection if you use intimacy gadgets during mastùrbation and someone else with an STI has used them before you. Any object used in sex can be called a intimacy gadget, whether it's designed for this use or not. It's important to keep intimacy gadgets clean. If you're sharing intimacy gadgets, wash them between each use and, where possible, put a new condom on them each time.
Can you injure yourself when mastuŕbating?
You're unlikely to do yourself any harm, although there is a risk of soreness, cuts or bruising if you mastuŕbate too roughly or too hard, or use an object that could hurt you or cause damage. Men sometimes worry about whether they could break the peñis. This is rare and only happens when an erect penìs is violently twisted, usually by somebody else.
Does masťurbation affect spèrm count?
Mastùrbating will not affect a man's ability to produce spèrm. Men will not run out of sperm, as they produce it continuously. After a man has ejaculated, it will take some time before he can ejaćulate again. This is normal and doesn't mean there is anything wrong with his sperm.
Can you mastùrbate too much?
Mastùrbation is harmless, but if you do it a lot your geniťals may feel sore. If men do it a lot in a short space of time, they can get a slightly alarming looking swelling of the pènis, called oedema, caused by fluid in the tissues. However, the swelling disappears within a day or two
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Doxie69:

How many times u self-service

I don tell you my own what of you

Ekywisez:

Please tell him to
Please tell him to try n stop it...its a very bad habit and its not right in the sight of God...tell him to confess it to his pastor who will tell him the steps to breaking the habit.I hope it helps....

Before you advise someone to take such an issue to the pastor, please alway find out if the pastor is matured spiritually enough to handled it.

Ekywisez:

Please tell him to
Please tell him to try n stop it...its a very bad habit and its not right in the sight of God...tell him to confess it to his pastor who will tell him the steps to breaking the habit.I hope it helps....

What part of your bible tells you to confess to your pastor SMH

iamord:
his case is not spiritual. he needs to find something to keep himself busy. have self control . and socialize more with ladies. he is definitely a shy type when ladies are around

how can someone overcome this?

Avoid looking yourself in the mirror. Remove all the mirror in your house. Stop Eating plantains and avoid drinking juice. And lastly, stop eating akara and bread in the morning.

[/b]@ op and others, Masturbation ia very common to both Male and female but it personal secret eachother keep
follow this

Steps in overcoming masturbation

Be assured that you can be cured of your
difficulty. Many have been, both male and
female. And you can also be cured if you
determine that it must be so. If you want to
give it up, you need will power and
determination.

This determination is the first step. That is
where we begin. Firstly, you must decide that
you will end this practice and when you make
that decision, the problem will be greatly
reduced at once. But it must be more than a
hope or a wish more than knowing that it is
good for you. You must realize that this is a
great evil and you have to want to give it up.
It must be actually a decision. If you truly
make up your mind that you will be cured,
then you will have the strength to resist any
tendencies which you may have and any
temptations which may come to you.

After you have made this decision then observe
the following specific guidelines.
Guidelines:
1. First step is to realize that you are violating
God's command and you are bringing upon
yourself a life long destruction and harm.
2. Never touch the intimate parts of your body
unnecessarily.
3 . Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find
good company and stay in this good company.
Remember, an idle mind is the devil's workshop.
4. When you bath, do so as quick as possible
5. When in bed, if that is where you have your
problem for the most part, dress yourself for
the night so securely that you cannot easily
touch your vital parts so that it would be
difficult and time consuming for you to
remove those clothes. By the time you started
to remove protective clothing, you would have
sufficiently controlled your thinking and the
temptation would leave you.
If the temptation seems overpowering while
you are in bed, engage in something useful.
The purpose behind this suggestion is that you
focus your mind on something else. You are
the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.
6. Never look at pornographic material.

every body does, 99% of men do it. do not be dismayed

lymelyte:
Why u dey lie? You the one in particular.. .

he agree with u. d remedy is that he should go and marry faster

Ebig22:
guy am in that lane too, but not as chronic as yours. have a girlfriend now so mine have stopped. advice go and look for a girlfriend that will love you, and u will stop

just have a girlfriend or have a girlfriend to sleep with?

pls translate this joke.....I wan't to laff too

jerflakes:
[size=14pt]Haha

I n'agbo ncha.

Ezigbo ncha.

Aha gi bu :
"GBONCHUS PILATE".

More ncha to your Amu. [/size]