Crisis can come upon couples unexpectedly
and rattle even the most solid of
relationships. No matter how smitten you are
with your honey, doubt may creep into your
mind, clouding your vision of a perfect
match. So how do you really know if this
relationship is right for you? Here are a few
ways to find out:

1. Moral support
When your friends and family want to see
you and your partner together, there is
something to savor. Sometimes outside
perspective is needed to see things you are
too close and emotionally invested in to
appreciate or view clearly. Don’t base the
value of your relationship on the opinion of
others, but listen to the voices you love and
respect.

2. Fair fights
When a fight does break out, it’s a clean
one. Your arguments work toward resolving
issues and solving problems while still
appreciating each other’s feelings and needs.

3. New issues
Your issues are new issues. Past problems
actually get worked out and don’t come back
up to bite you. Old resentments don’t get
brought up in new arguments, and old dirt
doesn’t get thrown around in current
conversations.

4. Hard work
You’re both willing to put in the work. You
jump into action without skipping a beat, and
you work on an issue until it’s over. No
hesitations.

5. Growing together
You and your partner are evolving together
emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Growing
closer is easy and a natural course of your
relationship.

6. Major change
You are both naturally changing for the
better because you are happier being who
you are this new way. Not because he asked
you to change, and certainly not to keep him.
Maybe you never wanted children, and now
you can’t wait to be a parent with your
partner. Or maybe he always needed his
space, and now being away from you feels
incomplete.

7. Life partners
You don’t see yourself or your life without
him. And you know he feels the same way.

8. The L-word
“Love” rolls off the tongue effortlessly. You
can’t imagine not saying it; that would hurt
too much. You need to say it, you want to
say it and it brings you joy. And it’s the
same for him.

9. Spiritual connection
There’s just something cosmic that pulls you
two back together when you drift apart. It’s
unexplainable. But it’s there. And it’s always
for the better for both of you.

10. Love is blind
You don’t see anyone else as a potential
partner, and you’re not interested in building
any kind of connection with another. No one
comes close to the amazing person you
have. Physical attraction may pop in and
surprise you, but the desire for intimacy or
emotional connection doesn’t develop.
Knowing when you are right where you
should be can be difficult in the midst of it.
Hindsight may be 20/20, and if you’re the
type that doesn’t know what you’ve got until
it’s gone, keep your eyes open and see what
blessings you have in your love. Let this list
encourage you to keep going and keep the
faith when the road gets rough and blue
skies go gray. You can build a beautiful
home for yourself and your family when you
appreciate everything and everyone in it.


Tested and trusted by Juliaann

Right relationship?


Where you see that one?

Ok, I'll check to confirm.

Wow, so am in a right relationship....

Naija babes be like, "if he doesn't spend enough for you; you are not in the right relationship..

Nigerian Girls Be Like "I Don't Care As Long As He Has Money...."



*Owo Ni Koko*

Juliaann:


10. Love is blind
You don’t see anyone else as a potential
partner, and you’re not interested in building
any kind of connection with another. No one
comes close to the amazing person you
have. Physical attraction may pop in and
surprise you, but the desire for intimacy or
emotional connection doesn’t develop.
Knowing when you are right where you
should be can be difficult in the midst of it.
Hindsight may be 20/20, and if you’re the
type that doesn’t know what you’ve got until
it’s gone, keep your eyes open and see what
blessings you have in your love. Let this list
encourage you to keep going and keep the
faith when the road gets rough and blue
skies go gray. You can build a beautiful
home for yourself and your family when you
appreciate everything and everyone in it.


Tested and trusted by Juliaann

The context contradict the outline... Couldn't agree less with the context but the outline is misleading - love is not blind. Blindness can make you ignore the warning signals (as in red flags); you must shine your eyes like an eagle and shield your heart like a Samurai. Truth is if you think love is blind, marriage will open your eyes.