In this jet age,many of us dont really know the main aim or essence of marriage,some of us see it as a do or die affair mostly our beautiful ladies,pressure from parents,society as a whole .While, some men see it as a goal,others think its a duty . Will you believe me if i said that not everyone is really cut out for marriage .it agonizes my heart whenever a friend of mine opens her mouth to say that her husband should come let us bear fine fine children, marriage is much more than bearing beautiful children,a woman is much more than a baby factory,much more than a place where a man dumps his emotional excesses.
They are some homes you visit and you feel like never going back.they are some you visit and you feel like staying there forever,i believe marriage is for companionship..........there is what we call complementary foods which is meant for infants at the age of 6 months, it is advised to introduce complementary foods to your infants diet because it is scientifically proven that breastmilk is no longer enough but needs to be complemented with another diet,so it is for people who are ready for marriage.As a couple you complement each other when one of you is lacking whilst not forgetting that the most important things of life are things we dont see like peace,joy and others,sex is not the basis for a happy marriage ,even nowadays its now the cheapest commodity ,you go out on a date with a guy for a day and the next thing he tells you is lets make love and i ask whose fault is it that it happens this way ? Is it our mindset or has our own generation been brain washed by fantasies i think what our generation lacks is patience in everything we do,we are in a hurry to a place of nowhere,wait for the right person,one who is worth yhe waiting while you busy yourself with your dreams and passion,you can do it and to all my beautiful ladies out there you are beautiful,tell that to yourself always.there is a part of you that makes you stand out.stay beautiful.be you and love you.

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warning: kids are allergic to the aforementioned