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Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by leonardxystus(m): 9:12am On Feb 18, 2015
What would women think if we told them who they should find attractive? What if morbidly obese men in Nigeria declared that they are the male ideal, and then used multiple mainstream media outlets to shame women for not liking men with potbellies, no muscle mass, low monthly incomes,  What if this group of fat male folks would also announce that if women liked the opposite of what they deemed attractive, they were “shallow” and “stupid” with no understanding of what a “real” man is?

If this really did occur, women would rightly call the men insane and delusional, arguing that they are free to choose the type of men they want to be attracted to, a choice made either consciously from their current tastes or subconsciously due to genetics that tell them to land the most resourceful and fit men in order to pass on good genes to their offspring. The fat male folks would be shamed and ostracized.

This scenario has not actually happened because most men are not idiots—they know that most women are attracted to status, money, bad boys, and good looks, but the same can not be said of women. Through a media effort that at times seems conspiratorial, they are trying to brow-beat men into liking unattractive women. Their agenda scolds men for not liking…

single moms (women who made the decision to keep spawn of a bad boy who wanted little or nothing to do with the child)... may not be the case sha 
overweight women (women who are ugly, gluttonous, gelatinous, and lacking in all manner of self control)... it may be hereditary sha
strong women (women who are overbearing, masculine, annoying, irritable, and whiny)
women who have had dozens of prior sexual partners (women who don’t know the word “loyalty” unless it pertains to buying an Apple product)
older women (women who are less fertile and more likely to pass on genetic defects to your child)
Attraction is not a social construct that can be brainwashed into a man. Am a guy, and I feel i have something called a logic module hardwired into my brain. If something am doing is not helping me accomplish a specific goal, i make adjustments to improve my chance of success. Most Naija ladies who lack this module, instead say that the goal they want should become sentient and drawn to her just because. Her existing behaviors and habits should be enough to give her a lifetime of happiness, and if that happiness is not realized, a man or a culture of patriarchy is to blame.

The interesting fact of DNA is that it can’t be persuaded. No matter how many wildebeest and spinsters declare themselves to be worthy of the best men, those men will follow their biological desires. Trying to persuade men what to like will all be for naught, but at least if am with  buddies  we can point and laugh at the broken and ugly girl who suggested it.

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Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by Nobody: 9:14am On Feb 18, 2015
Bless this post.

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Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by iLovePusssy: 9:24am On Feb 18, 2015
Nyc write up.

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Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by fuckshit: 9:35am On Feb 18, 2015
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Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by F22RAPTOR(m): 9:37am On Feb 18, 2015
hmmmm...interesting write up
Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by falconey(m): 9:42am On Feb 18, 2015
OP drop your number let me see what I can do for you
Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by Nobody: 9:43am On Feb 18, 2015
Guy the windows of heaven just opened and I can see blessing pouring on you and I abundantly....


Thanks for this wonderful piece

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Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by leonardxystus(m): 9:49am On Feb 18, 2015
Thank you all, just felt like adressing that issue this morning. @Falconey 08037006978
Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by falconey(m): 10:35am On Feb 18, 2015
leonardxystus:
Thank you all, just felt like adressing that issue this morning. @Falconey 08037006978
no no no.....your car plate number ni, am a mechanic incase I see your plate number in my shop my service will be free
Re: Don’t Tell A Man What Type Of Woman He Should Be Attracted To by leonardxystus(m): 10:39am On Feb 18, 2015
falconey:
no no no.....your car plate number ni, am a mechanic incase I see your plate number in my shop my service will be free
lol

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