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Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by bukatyne(f): 10:23am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Do these husbands help in chores? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by zemaye: 11:11am On Feb 24, 2015 |
greatgod2012:Yes I confirm Any man that shift responsibility to a woman he do himself. True I have similar case in my family I use to tell the woman that she is too good for him. She said omo what do you know can't you see how improved my life has been and will continue to improve. The sorry case is the man in question is not appreciative the woman say she don suffer pass now na enjoyment time, today UK, tomorrow Canada next tomorrow dubai. All to go greet children , do omugwo, baba dey hia dey sukpa!! 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Cutehector(m): 11:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Such men will definitely lose dr respect. I belong to d school of thought that believes dat a man should be able to support his family |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Sarimah(f): 11:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
dear Lord, I don't need such a husband 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by bolubillionaire(m): 11:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Maybe cuz resposibilities should be shared. Wat else are they sayin |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by IamforGod: 11:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
CrazyMan:he might be building a surprise house. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by preshy223(f): 11:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
only lazy and irresponsible men does that 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by chimah3(m): 11:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Lol! Biko how is this our business. Did dey force her to marry him.dint she see all ds behaviours b4 marriage. + why does she insist on paying the bills when he doesn't? I'm sure by d tym d landlord chases dem out or he wakes to go 2 work in d morning n derz no water in dd geepee tank 2 baff or when he sees his children at home cus of school fees matter...The money wud come out! Women shud learn how to handle stupid men! And please all men are not like that! Thank you *drops mic* 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Rhozabeth(m): 11:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Jumping to that conclusion is wrong and unfair. Just becaise u saw a few examples does not give u the impetus to make that general statement! My wife earns more than me, despite this I don't slack in my responsibilities but I allow her to help anytime she offers to do so! So making that general statement is absolutely WRONG! 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 11:28am On Feb 24, 2015 |
missjenna: So what's 'supposed to be so'? Ehn? You want to turn men to camel or donkey? So if your mother is shouldering part of the responsibility, it's a crime abi? Now I see why women spend 50k on Brazilian hair--- it's because they never shoulder responsibilities. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by daveP(m): 11:28am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Hmmm! He recoiled suddenly? Pray against craftiness and subtlety! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by buoye1(m): 11:29am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Just a way to make her feel what it is to be a man!!! Afterall we're meant to help eachother Abi dem swear4 me say na only ma money dem go dey send?? |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by precisionindepth: 11:30am On Feb 24, 2015 |
CrazyMan:irresponsibility, poverty, wanting to wear skirt instead of trousers 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by TDstarr: 11:30am On Feb 24, 2015 |
missjenna:am only asking one question 1. women struggle for equality.. so the man takes care of the house for like 10years and the woman gets money...just for 6days she is complaining....smh so the womans money is for her and the mans money is for all....no wonder men of old die young.... the woman is fucking stingu even the old days you talk about the woman will handout all her salary to the man ...simple 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by fairygeh(f): 11:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Nonsense and ingredients, |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Edusouls(m): 11:33am On Feb 24, 2015 |
greedy and selfish women of so called virtue, in your own home, you are boiling inside,because you bring out money for the up keep of your own husband, ur own kids, for the betterment of your own future.... Pelmet: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by hensben(m): 11:35am On Feb 24, 2015 |
greatgod2012:Akin you are very correct with this statement. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 11:37am On Feb 24, 2015 |
That's a couple that didn't do their homework properly before they got married. Part of the preparation for marriage must include how to earn and manage their finances. This is a very sensitive area that a lot of intending couples shy away from. I can't understand why someone I call a fiance would have no clue with regards to my source of income and the amount I earn. This is very strange to me. The level of distrust seem very high between the couple and if they aren't careful this may lead to something unhealthy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by IamforGod: 11:37am On Feb 24, 2015 |
mutter: |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Vyolet(f): 11:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Men these days leave responsibility to their wives,it still beats my imagination. I have an uncle who works and earns good money,he married his wife as a graduate and never contributed a dime to her success. She got a very good job and since she got that job,she's been the one taking responsibility of the finances for both husband and her kids,she has a government job and yet a shop she manages. She buys food in the house,pays school fees,fuels the car,generator,pays all utility bills. She bought the two cars they own while the man wastes his own money on god knows what. She is already building her own house yet the man feels cool living like this. She does the house chores and even do hand laudry for the man too. She complains but he will never change. The woman raised an issue of school fees for the kids,he said she should withdraw them from school if she can't keep up with the fees. Now what do we call this kinda husband? It is not hidden that men these days are becoming useless,they contribute nothing to the family and leave the burden on the woman. Men want women that help them financially yet they are not ready to help themselves not to even talk of helping the women. This generation of men NAWA!!! 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Edusouls(m): 11:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
from your post, you are a very selfish and unhelpful woman, you aint a woman of virtue at all... greatgod2012: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Missmossy(f): 11:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Such men may feel its very okay if the wife also shoulders some responsibilities. Not all women can really take this though. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by nairaman66(m): 11:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Jackeeh: This is what life is all about! I admire your family.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 11:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
veave:Lol. You don vex o. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Noloss(f): 11:40am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Men with their way of thinking. Tell ur cousin not to be weary of gud doing, her children r watching her and God'll crown her efforts. She'll surely reap it later or sooner. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by bukatyne(f): 11:41am On Feb 24, 2015 |
nairaman66: What is life all about? What do you admire about his family? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by veave(f): 11:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by anthoniaz(f): 11:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
I don't know why.Most men are just like that, it's what most wives go through just that some will pretend everything comes from the man. I know a politician who spends his money outside but refuses to take care of his wife and kids.The woman complains bitterly all the time. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by koyyess: 11:42am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Only childish males do that. Real men that understand their responsibilities and relevance will never have such mind set. Instead, he would team up with his wife as they join forces to carry out family projects that will pay well in the future. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 11:46am On Feb 24, 2015 |
veave:Lol. Oya sorry e don do. But na wa o. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by ttomexy(f): 11:46am On Feb 24, 2015 |
i tire oo, wonder what they are using their money for? |
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