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Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Blitz888(m): 10:23am On Feb 25, 2015 |
pickabeau1:onye na'akpa aku... I just made that up to buttress my point that one doesn't get married to a maiden to live off her.. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by urchbarbie(f): 10:23am On Feb 25, 2015 |
pickabeau1:wealth gatherer .hustler |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Blitz888(m): 10:24am On Feb 25, 2015 |
urchbarbie:thanks for that timely intervention.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by JoeCutie(m): 10:30am On Feb 25, 2015 |
This is a very bad thing to do, for those men who do it. And it's true too, I've seen it before. But look closely, you'd see that women are not helping matters at all. Most times, the women cause this. You'd see a man who earns say, #200,000 monthly salary left with all the responsibilities of the family: feed the family, children's school fees and bills, the wife's bills, his own bills too, etc; while the wife with say, #150,000 monthly salary is solely focused on buying big and elegant bags, shoes, clothes, make up, hairs, etc, and still expects her husband to take care of her as his wife (which of course, the husband is obliged to do as her husband). But who's deceiving who? Men need help. The wives got to help them if they have. It is the joy of every man to see his wife being concerned about the wellbeing of the family. Many a time, women are so selfish about the whole thing. That the man is the head of the family doesn't mean he should kill himself or die because of you; he's not Jesus Christ. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Blitz888(m): 10:35am On Feb 25, 2015 |
fuzzywuzzy:your comments are unladylike... Stop the wrongful generalization, men of honour abound everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 3:25pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
urchbarbie: Blitz888: Thanks..i understand 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by shamota: 5:00pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
bayumyguy: Hello, stop interpreting the Bible upside down. It said 2 shall become 1 and she will be a helper. Men should be responsible and the women should also be open in ll ways including finance. We can achieve more with more. The moral here is that we should show love financially too and not only in bed. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
bukatyne: Absolutely spot on!, men want to have their cake and eat it! They want you to pay for shit, yet do all the housework and bring up the kids pretty much alone, thunder fire dem . The ratio of money bringing and housework and child rearing should be cross proportional. If u pay 70% of expenses the expect to do 30% of house stuff. And vice versa. Very simple formula 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by lastnogood(f): 2:33am On Feb 26, 2015 |
chibic: That was a very uninformed and short sided post. Look carefully, did she complain about sharing the family expense, or by having to single handedly carry them. Knowing how you men operate, he'd still expect her to do all that work that makes you folk grumpy and lazy by day's end, but she'd have to pick up and cook dinner, mind children and ensure the home is well kept. Then, I ask you, what is the use of marriage? If that that's how you expect it to be, hire ashewo for forking, househelp for cleaning, tutor for homework and be happy by yourselves. As for the lady, it's a shame she lives in that society, thank God I don't have to be burdened by a lazy man just to be considered a bonified woman. Chaaaa!!!! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by cococandy(f): 6:02am On Feb 26, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by chibic(m): 9:08pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
lastnogood:which work makes men grump and lazy by the way? Cleaning the house and cooking? Are you naturally lazy? How is it something to tell the public if you look after your kids? Please,I don't see any big deal in it.so stop mentioning them. Like I said, if a woman is making a considerable amount of money,she should also help out her husband.btw,majority of the working working class and business women has maids plenty at home.so what is their job again? To make money and buy make ups,clothes and go out partying abi? lastnogood:all these words you jumbled up there makes no sense! Who cares about the man you have in your life? if he licks your @ss,how's that my biz? |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by adebisicutie: 12:33am On Feb 27, 2015 |
onyichick: Very useless man, probably spending his salary on some little girls outside. A lot of irresponsible lazy men these days see their wives as ATM plus house help. So the woman pays the rent, school fees , bills and takes care of most financial responsibility yet he won't help her with the kids, cooking or chores. If she gets a maid, they will say if the maid serves him food then he is justified for sleeping with the maid If you don't contribute financially or to the household then what is your role in the marriage So many married women these days are basically single mothers only that the world doesn't know. The lazy men these days use that oppournity to waste their money carrying girls around. Don't you wonder how a lot of these guys are able to afford girl friends they won't pay their children's school fees or house rent yet they will pay rent for the mistress and even buy her iPhone 6 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by lastnogood(f): 12:32am On Feb 28, 2015 |
chibic: You really have reading comprehension issues my friend.. I said all the work you (as in you men) do. As in you go to the office/work and come home exhausted, grumpy and lazy. Women are expected to do that and still do all domestic work and not complain of tired back, achy muscles or feeling lazy for one day. Also, I'll repeat in plain words. Original complaint: Footing the entire family expenses. No complaints: About sharing the family expenses. Do you understand, or is my grammar too big for you 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 6:20am On Feb 28, 2015 |
So let me get this straight, we're talking about married women who take care of their kids & home, clean + cook, work, and foot all of the bills? And when/if she ventures to ask for assistance (for school fees for the kids, was it?), she's refused? She does realize she's essentially a single mother paying for a live-in sexmate at this point, no? 'Tis a scenario from the flaming butt-crack 'a hell Laziness is truly a disease 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by yaskarahyelhope(f): 9:53pm On Mar 15, 2015 |
Its coz d generation of men in existence on d surface of d earth esp now, are veeeeeeeerrrrrry lazy. Y do U think they are looking for working class lady. A guy once asked that since his wife earns more than 80k which is higher than his, Y shd he still buy food stuff and fend for d house? Anyways, ask Calabar if im wife dey complain as im dey Bleep her well , clean house, come cook join? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by bukatyne(f): 9:37pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Lol@ single mother It is well |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Jahblessme: 11:59pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Marriage on its own is going to be obsolete very soon. There's no real advantage in it for women. Society has decieved us into thinking there's real gain in being married. The only thing is avoiding ur kids being called bastards. Cook clean chores kids,na woman.You go work on top yet come home and continue plus no help? So of what use is a man then?Thankfully the world in general is wisening up.No need to marry,split all bills and yea you can live next door. Cannot see wait for the dawn of an equal world!! Soon and very soon. Muhehehhehehehehe 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 3:46am On Mar 30, 2015 |
bukatyne: She is a single mother, what else? Too bad. Her choice. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 5:32am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Jahblessme:True talk. The only thing they were actually accepting responsibility for has become a problem for them. Might as well live as a single mom instead of slaving away for somebody that's doing nothing but getting free sex from you. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 6:50am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Jahblessme: Your prayer may soon come to pass We shall see who needs marriage more Why bother with responsibility when one single mom will raise my kids. That means I can even be more irresponsible. I pay my steward or stewardess to cook and clean my home So who needs marriage.... PS we need more women like you so we can have less women who want marriage tieing us down Yay Equality |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Jahblessme: 7:40am On Mar 30, 2015 |
And as I said,I do not see the advantages of marriage to any woman. Marriage or no doesn't make anyone responsible. Exactly,who needs marriage its becoming outdated. I ask again what is the advantage to a woman,? Esp when she ends up doing all the chores cooking cleaning washing kids plus work and then should form p orn star for night.. Abegi, the end is nigh.Thank God people are realising that its all been a big scam 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 8:26am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Jahblessme: I am also waiting for this your wish to come true |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 9:50am On Mar 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1:But will your kids want to take care of you in your old age when you were not part of their upbringing? They will rather be with the woman who was there for them don't you think? Even if they do show up to care for you it will be out of pity and not love. I believe the solution for those who don't like marriage is using surrogate mothers for the men and sperm donors for the women. That way you men raise the kids yourself and grow old with them and women can finally have kids that bear their own names. The idea of women discarding their individuality by changing surnames after marriage never sat well with me. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by GL(f): 10:07am On Mar 30, 2015 |
It was the same in my family. My mum was a housewife but did small businesses, which she used to complement my dad's income. People assumed my dad earned much more than he did cos she made us & the house look extra nice. Dad started getting lazy, so she worked even harder sometimes doing 3-4 different businesses. Eventually his laziness cost him his job and she had to carry the family's financial burden alone. She really covered for him though, cos she didn't want people to know. I have seen fathers who would go out of their way to buy clothes, feed their kids, make their wives happy. I pray for such a man. To men, shirking your responsibilities doesn't just affect your wife, it messes up your kids. Especially if it starts when they are young. pickabeau1: I better start planning a massive retirement home for when your crop of 'irresponsible' men grow old. I bet the children you abandon will be glad to have a place to abandon you to. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 12:29pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
fellis: When your wish comes true we shall see |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 12:30pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
GL: No need for retirement home They will be well funded in their old age with their nest egg which was kept away from prying alimonic eyes. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: This: well-said They will be well funded in their old age with their nest egg which was kept away from prying alimonic eyes. This: quite disparaging considering the subject centers around useless inadequacy. Rest assured, your well-hidden nest egg will be of benefit to you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 10:29pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Nope It centres around people who don't provide for their kids since the women say they don't need men. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 10:37pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Come on, this is beyond pathetic. Such people shouldn't be having children, period. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 10:53pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: I don't see what is pathetic If u women want to handle the responsibility of kids and let men be..why not |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: You do not see? I've always been convinced [the vast/overwhelming majority of] people have no idea why, or what they're doing when they bring rugrats into this world. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 11:08pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Its an opinion.. Nothing wrong with that |
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