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Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 11:26pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
pickabeau1: It's more than an opinion, it's a reality. Alas, it's not something those in the perpetual business of wearing rose-colored glasses can be forced into seeing. Nor do they fathom. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 12:10am On Mar 31, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Our perceptions determine our reality |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 12:42am On Mar 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Nothing more than a psycho-trash catchphrase. Alongside near meaningless perceptions exist verifiable realities. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 12:45am On Mar 31, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Nope Its not trash.....believe you me You filter your reality via your senses n thoughts I'm sure you are savvy enough to know that |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 12:54am On Mar 31, 2015 |
pickabeau1: The bolded is perception, not reality. Your perception can only be reality if & when it succeeds in aligning/corresponding with - wait for it - reality. Otherwise, it remains mere perception. Psycho-trash is as psycho-trash is. Perception =/= Reality. ...believe you me. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by pickabeau1: 6:16am On Mar 31, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul:OK I hear you You call it whatever you want to call it Does not negate it as a fact |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by lastnogood(f): 3:35pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
I think that we are being too extremist here. It's obvious for some, marriage in terms of true partnerships (true partners aren't necessarily 50/50, they work together to compliment each other). For others, celibacy and the single life work better. If I look how my life has played out, if I let myself be subject to marriage just because I had kids, indeed I would be unhappy. However, my children are human beings with emotions and need support and protection from both myself and their father. So, denying them that is abuse. As adults, we can definitely choose how to live out lives in peace, accepting the burden that life costs on our own. As parents, we owe the lives we created peace and security until they are ready to choose the paths of their own lives. That is all 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Lol @ the passive aggressive exchange on this thread. Lets all agree to disagree. If you support and desire single parenthood then by all means pursue it, if you don't support it then get hitched. As far as I am concerned and will always be concerned marriage is a big scam. I can't even think of one single thing I have to gain from it as a female. Scam institution, scamming women since 1603 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by asdfjklhaha(f): 10:20pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
Becos they are greedy and selfish |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Abugab(m): 5:44am On Apr 02, 2016 |
Guy, go and face your life. So because your cousin has paid the house rent this once and has been catering for a couple of things, er husband has become suddenly irresponsible? Who has been handling the upkeep of everyone in the house since? Good that you know a wife is to support the husband and to you just this once is not support to you? Tell your cousin to discuss with her husband and find out what is really the issue and stop creating problem where there is non. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by EfemenaXY: 7:57am On Apr 03, 2016 |
hahn: I love this. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by loshybab(m): 9:12pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Jackeeh:you see why I prioritise a good and down to earth lady as a wife than all these cosmetic good for nothing toothpick-legged ladies. if you have a wife as good as this woman,trust me,you'll have a peace of mind and enjoy yourself than even d president of any country of the world. NB:A GOOD WOMAN IS PRICELESS!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by asdfjklhaha(f): 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2017 |
Some men can be funny sha |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by realtalk19: 11:00pm On Nov 19, 2017 |
mutter:urs id better at least he knows its his responsibility nd hes trying his best. how about a man who doesnt av a job for over a year while d wife works nd get a monthly salary of 25,000. with 2 kids nd stil pays other bills asides sch fees and rent . evry other expenses is handled by d wife even to soap nd little items which in some cases he lies he dosnt av even after seeing some cash in his wallet. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by ladycomfort(f): 4:16am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 1:24am On Jul 03, 2018 |
CrazyMan: This sounds weird. A marriage is a partnership, right? Both partners should provide for the family not the other way round. Things have changed and I'll only agree that a man should provide everything if he's the dominant type that doesn't want to do house chores. You also said irrespective of what your wife earn? Are you for real? What is the wife supposed to do with her money? Your topic literally shows the reason why it's better to marry a financially stable woman. The upkeep of the family is the responsibility of both partners. This is why marriage should be defined from the beginning. A woman paid house rent and she's expecting the money to be reimbursed, sounds funny though. You two live in the same house but you can't spend your money without complaining. Like I just said marriage should be defined from the beginning like they should know what they're signing up for. If they're going to share bills and house chores etc. If you conclude on sharing bills and house chores you can't hide your money because when it's your turn you must provide. I hate deception. The man obviously has been providing everything she complained for but he never complained but she did so in a little period but she's already complaining. Studies have revealed that being the sole provider isn't good for any man's health. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 1:29am On Jul 03, 2018 |
mekybabe1: Of what use is earning a salary of you can't contribute to the well-being of the family? Lol it's good you married a traditional man or alpha male. A civilized man like me will share bills with you even I'm a billionaire because I also share house chores. Taboo, lol ..your tradition will marry you then. |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by CrazyMan(m): 10:24pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Hanseel1:LOL.... Who revived this thread. Read through what I posted. She's complaining not because she's shouldering the responsibilities; her annoyance is that her husband has practically left everything to her. It's not like he isn't working but he's not using his earnings to cater for the home. If he was supporting with whatever he can afford no matter how small, I don't think she'll complain. And the issue of the rent, I believe you misunderstood her point of view. She and her husband discussed about it. He asked her to settle it and she will be repaid. In marriage honesty and truthfulness is what keeps you going. There's nothing wrong if a husband tells his wife to settle the rent if he doesn't have the money to do so. But trying to be cunning about it is what made her annoyed. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Nobody: 12:33am On Jul 04, 2018 |
CrazyMan: .... |
Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by kponkedenge(m): 8:17am On May 22, 2020 |
what a lazy irresponsible man |
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