OmoAlata1:


How is that an excuse? Are you telling me you have never explored your own body before? most of the hypocrites in here have explored their own body at some point in the life. It is human nature. The girl is very normal.

this is the only truthful nairaland girl *sniff's *now tell me baby,do u use yam or star bottle bottom to self service?

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

and u think telling her mum will solve the matter?

ogunvic41:

Will that stop the act

will not telling her also stop it

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

op please, let her parent know in a mature way, not only for her own seek but also for the seek of her younger brother because im 90% sure one day she will abuse/molest that small boy.

Her mom might react negatively.she might think she has already started having sex.you all know African parents... which might be embarrassing for her..you saw her..you Sud talk to her as an adult Wu undastands all dis tins..

Sarimah:
don't tell her mum yet ...why not talk to her first?wat was her reaction when she saw u?

Datz gonna leave d niqqa n d girl in an awkward position... especially if hez not good in choosing words

Shiifi:


y r u saying dis

u don't need to know dear.

Seriously? People are saying he should have beaten her up? What crime did she commit?

OP what was all the niose and exclamations all about?? Why do you people always want to turn an ant hill into a mole hill??
Were you shocked the first day you saw breast on her chest?
Also how shocked were you when she first saw her menses

[size=8pt][/size]pls can somebdy tell me how to post a story on nairaland? I am new here. Tnx

That girl is already bleeping. Just warn her not to allow the gate man into her room when mummy and daddy is away

delors:
Don't. Please don't.
You can talk to her. Advise her...and take your mind and eyes off it. It's not entirely your biz but if u must make it your biz, then just talk to her and let her be.
Period
If you carry am put for head like gele, it could end up embarrassing you. Her mum could say u were interested in something, the little girl herself could say u were smooching her something, anything could happen. So Woju ko gboju...

and if she is a sharp girl she wil deny it or maybe the mum wont even believe

Lolll

hensben:
Which kind yeye question be this..he told you he saw her scratching it with pleasure abi op Na small pickin wey nor know wetin him see..e be like say u get another meaning to op's claim.

I think you should read the post again, and this time slowly.

Ipledge:
Cc justfollowit come and see yourself,I told you these little kids are not innocent.

@ op assuming u get inside and see someone on top her,what will you do ?

A girl of 12 years is different from a girl of 4/5 years old. Besides it is her body, she can bloody well do whatever she likes with it. It is of no concern any perverted uncle to exploit the fact that she knows a lot about sex.

Stop trying to justify your sick sense of reasoning

KoloOyinbo:


If this untrustworthy person does tell her parents it would serve him right if these allegations were made. This is a natural part of growing up. It should just be ignored. What are some people SO judgemental and interfering.

Perhaps lessons in minding your own business are required?

She is 13 for chrissake..Itz perfectly normal for her to touch her thing ...her hormones r just comn out nd she is fascinated bout d feelings..

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

Don't tell the mother.She is ur niece sit her down n talk to her about the implementation of self service n the need for her to change.I guess with that approach she will everly respect u n see u as someone she can trust.

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

Don't u know childrens of nowadays are spoiling quick quick ni? Next time u close ur eyes jare
Oloshi

I am sure you badged into her room
Next time be sure to knock... It is unacceptable you to go into a female's, who is not your wife, room without knocking.
If you had done that, you won't see.
Let her be. You prolly came over yourself on a regular basis at her age or younger.

Also caught a family friend of same class and I bet same age bracket... I just shook my head n left... Is it a trend 4 them?

When young children are exposed to love songs and wicked music video without parental guidance from the parent.

What do you will happen, it does and that's the purpose of the music video. I need you to take her out to an eatery, speak with her n advice her not to be involved in such again.
Outline the negative effects on her nad her studies .

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

So many deluded minds shouting hypocrites!

Mtchew!! What's wrong is wrong. That you did it at a much earlier age doesn't make it right.

OP, whats your business with what someone does with her body. Guess what, if na America you beat that pikin for the act, you will go to jail.

mirexxx:
ok we fine ur opinion

yeap ma

The op needs to be flogged if he is ignorant of the fact that his niece is sexually mature at that age. Your job is to educate her and not to ridicule and exploit her.

What were you all doing during your Biology, Integerated Science and Home Economics classes? Your cluelessness is astounding.

ElFenomeno1:
I am sure you badged into her room
Next time be sure to knock... It is unacceptable you to go into a female's, who is not your wife, room without knocking.
If you had done that, you won't see.
Let her be. You prolly came over yourself on a regular basis at her age or younger.

is that what you do? She is my niece

Justfollowit:


A girl of 12 years is different from a girl of 4/5 years old. Besides it is her body, she can bloody well do whatever she likes with it. It is of no concern any perverted uncle to exploit the fact that she knows a lot about sex.

Stop trying to justify your sick sense of reasoning

is there anything you read ystd that the kid is 4 or 5.but if that the age range...I th the guy should be killed,but nothing like that

sweetcocoa:
Seriously? People are saying he should have beaten her up? What crime did she commit?

There are a lot of stupíd people here.

If you try to make sense from what they're saying, you'll go crazy.

I mean can you imagine that? Seriously?

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

You better steer clear before the young lady accuse you of attempted rape. They form big brother there non mind your business. You should have checked her fone to see the numbers of pporn video.
Primary six girls nowadays dey bleep married men talk less of ss1. This generation is wasted take it or leave it.

See the OP sef saying he was shocked, what's shocking about a teenager self servicing? OP how old were you when you had your first self-service? Mschew.

Fourwinds:
she will go for d main thing...

and if she is not careful taking the main thing then what will happen?

Were you not suppose to knock and wait to be invited into her room before barging in??

What happen to respecting people's privacy??