missjenna:
Op first of all, are you sure she was self-servicing?
What was her facial expression?
Did she notice your presence? If she did, what was her reaction?

If you actually believe she was self-servicing, I think the best thing is to talk to her mum
Her mum should explain these things to her.

Parents should endeavor to teach their children these things early. Mothers should not shy away from sex related discussions with their daughters. It helps these girls to be aware of themselves.

Its really a pity that these days we can't curb the kind of things our this kids are being exposed to on a daily bases, both by media and by peers.

What of the useless musical videos and lyrics produced by our useless artistes, sponsored by our useless corporate organizations, shown on our useless TV stations. An ss1 girl listening and watching Caro, WA fe ku laleyi, oga nla (Lil kesh part) etc can do and undo.

Useless society. Useless system.

ISpiksDaTroof:
She's experimenting with her body and whats happening is only a natural occurrence. What you as an adult have to do (or encourage her parents to do) is explain to her that you understand what is going on and that she's starting to discover herself as a woman. Then go ahead to teach her about se.x, stds and pregnancies. Do not shame her.

Good luck.


P.S: Next time be polite enough to knock before entering her room. She's a young woman and she deserves her privacy.

Thanks for this

Ipledge:
is there anything you read ystd that the kid is 4 or 5.but if that the age range...I th the guy should be killed,but nothing like that

Can you check your dictionary for the definitions of A ‘child' and a ‘teenager’ and the elder brother of a teenager

falconey:
thankz .....thatz what I want to do, I bet she will hate me for it, and I pray her mum won't take offence( she doesn't like her husband siblings that much)

Then it's best u keep it to yourself cos Nothing You Or her mum says will stop her from self-servicing... No need embarrassing the poor geh

Justfollowit:


Can you check your dictionary for the definitikns of A ‘child' and a ‘teenager’ and the elder brother of a teenager

i don't have a dictionary with me now,how are u sure the op know what a child is

The girl is 12 She old jor. I start Bleep when I am 9 year and my gfs is 7 and 8

Mhizizzy:


She is 13 for chrissake..Itz perfectly normal for her to touch her thing ...her hormones r just comn out nd she is fascinated bout d feelings..

Yes that's my point. She should be left alone and if this person does tell on her I hope he gets into trouble for his spying! Read my previous posts and you will see what I mean.

Maximus85:


What of the useless musical videos and lyrics produced by our useless artistes, sponsored by our useless corporate organizations, shown on our useless TV stations. An ss1 girl listening and watching Caro, WA fe ku laleyi, oga nla (Lil kesh part) etc can do and undo.

Useless society. Useless system.

You forgot to mention romance novels.

You are surprised As you don't know that's part of puberty in female, is natural but they kept hiding it. Do you think any girl can come out plainly to tell you what she use to do/ almost all Girls in the world practiced it during their teens otherwise we kept deceiving ourselves

Aprime:


There are a lot of stupíd people here.

If you try to make sense from what they're saying, you'll go crazy.

I mean can you imagine that? Seriously?

Yet they are the first to claim 'intelligent', they are just more hypocritical than they are ignorant, it's not as if they didn't go through what the said girl is passing through,but they'd rather claim "holy"

Yeye.

AndreRose:

I think you should read the post again, and this time slowly.

Is that an insult or what?

Do not report to her mother, a typical african mother is clueless about handling such situations, i can bet the only way the mother will handle the situation is a physical attack on the girl , harassment and threats.

At 14yrs, the chemicalls and hormones are raging her in to confusion and placing her under severe tensions. Your duty as a more enlightened fellow is to sit her down and make her speak to you of her sexual frustuations, and reassuring she is perfectly normal, and the ways to handle , overcome or prevent such sexual tensions.

Ipledge:
i don't have a dictionary with me now,how are u sure the op know what a child is

She could have said one small girl and a boy or guy

But her writing showed that she deliberately distinguished the boy and the girl with the terminologies. For goodness sake, it was SO specific

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

How is it your concern na?? Did she use your hand and service herself? How can you enter someone's room without even knocking 1st sef

Before you start judging you better look at when you started your own and just leave the girl alone jare.

tyconcepts:
Were you not suppose to knock and wait to be invited into her room before barging in??

What happen to respecting people's privacy??

so, you'll knock and wait for your little nephew/sister/brother to respond before the room and if she doesn't respond you'll probably go right?

Didn't you read the where he said he knocked and she didn't respond??

hensben:
Is that an insult or what?

No

Op bro! U don collect feb salary wey make no mind ur biznes again abi

prettythicksme:
if she is not okay again self servicing then what do u think she will do?

Is that it:

You think she will start having sex because she now sex-service? This is simply ridiculous honestly. Damn.

You of all people should know self-serving is a normal trend by teenagers and most Adults.

It's something that's inevitable when growing up.
But sex is very much evitable ma'am.

Justfollowit:



She could have said one small girl and a boy or guy

But her writing showed that she deliberately distinguished the boy and the girl with the terminologies. For goodness sake, it was SO specific

ok sorry then if I have hurt you.am not s pervert,was just talking through what I observe

MrCork:



....You shud be registered Peterfile....How dare u loookat yor 9yer old Nice Self servicing,..and then u had the odercity to say u waz watching.....SHAME ON YOU!!!! (no ofeinse)

The 9 year old is her younger brother the one self.... is the OPS niece ni na!

Ipledge:
ok sorry then if I have hurt you.am not s pervert,was just talking through what I observe

Apology accepted. I am also sorry for all I wrote yesterday.

when she's alone in the privacy of her room, her thoughts will stray back to that awesome feeling of climaxx and she will lock d door(incase of intruders) and service herself ;Dwhen she's alone in the privacy of her room, her thoughts will stray back to that awesome feeling of climaxx and she will lock d door(incase of intruders) and service herself

Justfollowit:


Apology accepted. I am also sorry for all I said to you yesterday. I am very personal about issues like this.

i noticed,after your 3rd comment

nma24:
when she's alone in the privacy of her room, her thoughts will stray back to that awesome feeling of climaxx and she will lock d door(incase of intruders) and service herself ;Dwhen she's alone in the privacy of her room, her thoughts will stray back to that awesome feeling of climaxx and she will lock d door(incase of intruders) and service herself

Talking from experience here i guess?

Aprime:


Is that it:

You think she will start having sex because she now sex-service? This is simply ridiculous honestly. Damn.

You of all people should know self-serving is a normal trend by teenagers and most Adults.

It's something that's inevitable when growing up.
But sex is very much evitable ma'am.

oh ok!

Can u imagine what he said: "I can still remember that incident" bros na her fresh p***y wey dey for ur memory that u saw na him no wan make u forget dat incident oo. After all na ur niece, she may need ur service na.

Abeg mke una leave the girl jo,body no be furniture

falconey:
you want me to video or snap my niece masturbating? Thatz clever

Nairaland comics, so soothingly relaxing!

kene05:

Talking from experience here i guess?

yea

AndreRose:
You can't just conclude. Her facial expression and reaction when she noticed you matters. Maybe something was itching her down their and she was scratching it.

Okkk,so that thing dey itch them

AndreRose:
You can't just conclude. Her facial expression and reaction when she noticed you matters. Maybe something was itching her down their and she was scratching it.

Okkk,so that thing do itch them.