Please fellow nairalanders, apart from normal picking of tabs(bills) after hanging out,say buying recharge card, and all these other kinda minor bills and maybe on some ocassion he gets her a gift;must a guy give his girlfriend money to say buy clothes,make her hair(human hair tin/brazillian),more like pocket money every month say to say(seems to be female r/ship orientation these days)...as it obviously seems these days that r/ship are no longer based on mutual physical or emotional attraction and keeping a r/shp these days seems to be more expensive than one easing their selves sexually...seems dating's outdated so to say...what y"all think people?

If you don't give her money, another man will. She isn't a Dettol..

Money aint a prove for luv.. U cud give a girl money widout loving her..

Does money buy love?

He can buy u expensive gifts but doesn't luv u.He's just paying u for all d things dat u do for him like Sex,House clean up,or being around him.if a man truly loves u,u'd see it in his actions towards u,he'll always be interested in your affairs like health,career,Christian life,family.That shows committment. To me I prefer a man who's committed to a relationship, than a Father Christmas who tries to impress.

Giving is an act of love, not a prove of love.
When you love, you give wholeheartedly and happily. You can give without loving but can never love without giving.

If you think you love and find it difficult to give, it's really not love.

為什麼總是錢的時候，你可以申請約會規則......有些啥偷看

Op!.......hmmmmmmm, u'r late oo, as in, its bin a norm 4 a long time nw (on a majority scale). Its more like trade by batter things, un knw! Ehen.

beware of dogs!!space at your own risk

johnsonsegxy:
為什麼總是錢的時候，你可以申請約會規則......有些啥偷看

lol.

Why always the money, you can apply some of Rules of Engagement ......
What peek

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Giving is part of love sha buh it is for both sides it is not necessarily money ...

dasanchez1:
lol.

Why always the money, you can apply some of Rules of Engagement ......
What peek

#translated.

您的翻譯可能不正確正確的，因為這是中國的傳統......也許你正在使用簡化中國人。

johnsonsegxy:


您的翻譯可能不正確正確的，因為這是中國的傳統......也許你正在使用簡化中國人。

yes

Yes because u can give without loving but u can't giv without giving all I knw is that the giving must b two sided nt one sided

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
INFACT, MONEY SHOULDNT BE INVOLVED IN RELATIONSHIPS (CALL ME STINGY IDGAF)
I LOOK LIKE HER FINANCIAL INSTITUTION OR ATM?

Mhizizzy:
Giving is part of love sha buh it is for both sides it is not necessarily money ...

WILL U REMAIN IN A 'MONEYLESS' RELATIONSHIP?

hey op,money is very important in a relationship cos without money everything will b bored.

prettythicksme:
hey op,money is very important in a relationship cos without money everything will b bored.

prettythicksme:
hey op,money is very important in a relationship cos without money everything will b bored.

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prettythicksme:
hey op,money is very important in a relationship cos without money everything will b bored.

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prettythicksme:
hey op,money is very important in a relationship cos without money everything will b bored.

Everything will be bored

Lyk seriously..you mean chalk board or what

kevinberry:
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Everything will be bored

Lyk seriously..you mean chalk board or what

yes chalkboard,flanel board,marker board etc!

Just like sex isn't a sign of love money too isn't

Beamborla:
Giving is an act of love, not a prove of love.
When you love, you give wholeheartedly and happily. You can give without loving but can never love without giving.

If you think you love and find it difficult to give, it's really not love.

See ur thief brain

johnsonsegxy:


您的翻譯可能不正確正確的，因為這是中國的傳統......也許你正在使用簡化中國人。

Seconded!!!

NEROSKY:

See ur thief brain

Lol... when I used the word giving, I didn't limit it to one gender. I never specified
But, what I wrote is the truth

paying for services rendered

Babygal4eva:
Just like sex isn't a sign of love money too isn't

and what is the sign of love then? kissing&hugging?

Giving is one of the love languages we must communicate in a relationship but it doesn't necessarily translate to proof of love.

Relationships comes along with enormous responsibilities and we must face them 'cause it was our decision to be in a relationship.

When you're committed to a course, you undertake the obligations they come along with.

So we tend to give out cash 'cause that defines how committed we are to a union that is profitable to us.

So in other words it's proof of committment. A sense of duty.

This is how I see it.

Enegod:
and what is the sign of love then? kissing&hugging?

- Words of affirmation
- Acts of service
- Physical touch
- Quality time
- Gifts
- Trust

AirborneLacer:


- Words of affirmation
- Acts of service
- Physical touch
- Quality time
- Gifts
- Trust

physical touch/sex

Enegod:
physical touch/sex

When it is right, yeah!

ednut1:
paying for services rendered

Wetin u dey do here, go back to your room.... Naughty boy.