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Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by callola: 7:16pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
my cousin will put to birth soon, since it is her first child and also her mom first grandchild. Should her mother come for omugwo considering the fact that she is living with her husband, mil and sil in the same house. Can the two women stay in the house for three months? When a woman comes for omugwo she is expected to take over the entire house. Though, i told her mom not to go but its like i want to put sand in her garri. Pls nlers ur opinon |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by buygala(m): 7:20pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
of course it's very advisable. ... that's if you want to watch World War 3 2 mothers battling for supremacy over one household..... me sef go like to observe that calamity 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by crackhaus: 7:25pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
One after the other. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by Beamborla(f): 7:57pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
It's not advisable for one to stay not to talk of two 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by steppins: 8:02pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
They should take turns. No use having two old mama dragging their feet around the house. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by realdee44(f): 8:16pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
There is nothing wrong with the two mother in-laws staying together with the couple but again it also has to do wiith the relationship between the two mother. That this I mean how close the two mothers are. I have seen a family were the both mothers stay with the couple & they are leaving in peace. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by Vision4God: 10:50pm On Mar 12, 2015 |
It depends on d r/ship btw dem both.even then, its advisable one mil stay for mayb a week & leave d oda der to spend d longer tym or do it in turns. Buh its not easy, d joy of bn a granny no b beans. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by veave(f): 12:06am On Mar 13, 2015 |
Why will a man live with his mother, sister and wife in the same house for Goodness' sake. Since camping extended family members is the norm in that house, Mama could as well join them too. I see no wrong in it... Let me not see them on nairaland with wahala for us to advice oh... my koboko is waiting for them. Mtchwww... 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by veave(f): 12:09am On Mar 13, 2015 |
buygala: Honestly, i don't know why a man would want to subject his wife to such kind of mental stress. If his mother and sister do not have a place to stay, he should rent an apartment for them abeg. Somebody will marry and cannot enjoy her husband. Na wa oh! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by amokeme(f): 1:34am On Mar 13, 2015 |
veave:the thing tire me o.. I wont be comfortable in the house sef |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by callola: 5:47am On Mar 13, 2015 |
veave:imo, i will advice my mum to stay for one or two weeks to avoid wahala. Having two women in one house and in one kitchen is not advisable |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by callola: 6:01am On Mar 13, 2015 |
amokeme:that is where the problem is coming from. She told me that she is not comfortable living in the same house with her in laws but her hubby sees nothing wrong with it. That they are the only family he have and can't do without them that i should try and convince her mom not to come but mama refused |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by sisisioge: 6:04am On Mar 13, 2015 |
Enee ohhhh; NO! One is one too many let alone two. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by pickabeau1: 6:09am On Mar 13, 2015 |
veave: Have you considered he may not be able to afford alternative accommodation |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by veave(f): 8:59am On Mar 13, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I'm sure there are other existing family members. They can rotate abeg. If you must get married, then provisions should be made for such instances. If mama is sick and needs special attention, I can understand. But packing your things and comfortable living with a newly married couple is what I do not understand. Let the girls mother come and join them. Let her even stay the whole year 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by veave(f): 9:02am On Mar 13, 2015 |
callola: that's a selfish man. You better advice him to invite his wife's mother by himself. It is her right to do omugo for her daughter while she is still alife. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by SAMBARRY: 9:32am On Mar 13, 2015 |
buygala: |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by pickabeau1: 11:45am On Mar 13, 2015 |
veave: Without knowing the specificities of this case, all you can do is make assumptions |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by amokeme(f): 12:02pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
callola:i really feel for her. As it is now, i don't think there is anything she can do than to get used to the situation. Some mothers should be reasonable enough not to stay in their sons house when he is married. Since he can't do without them, renting a house in the same city would have been the best. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by LaRoyalHighness(f): 12:23pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Hell no! *no explanations. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by veave(f): 1:11pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I'm not living with them. Even op doesn't know the whole truth. People tell you only what they want you to hear. My assumptions are based on what op heard and shared with us. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by EfemenaXY: 8:54pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
The four grannies should also be brought on board too. Afterall, all's fair in love and war. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by klark3: 9:08pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
It's advisable. But with a referee, at least it will avail d occupants d opportunity of watching royal rumble, live! |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by callola: 9:52am On Mar 14, 2015 |
amokeme:they were all living together before he met and married my cousin |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by callola: 9:54am On Mar 14, 2015 |
klark3:lol. My take is that my cousin mom should not go to avoid stories |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by fflamingo(m): 10:48pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
World world 2 ended in the early 19th. World war 3 is about to begin. But op is it compulsory for any of the grand mothers to take care of the new baby-sitter |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by Nobody: 5:57am On Mar 15, 2015 |
callola:Your cousin sef try sha! I can't live under such arrangement abeg. He should have arranged an alternative accommodation for mama and SIL before bringing a wife home. So much for privacy in marriage! Since she agreed to the arrangement in the first place, let the MIL do the omugwo because there will be heavy beefing and the SIL will support her mum. As for your cousin, she may have to choose between her mum and her marriage in the long run. Best of luck to her. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by Nobody: 8:41am On Apr 22, 2017 |
callola:Dear plz reply my pm. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by Nobody: 9:09am On Apr 22, 2017 |
It's not advisable. It's all good.. |
Re: Is It Advisable For Two Mother-in-laws To Stay In The Same House? by AimingIncognito(f): 9:57am On Apr 22, 2017 |
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