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Fashion / Braid-spiration: Get Inspired With These Braids For Your Next Hairstyle by 21stcenturygirl(f): 2:07am On Jul 23, 2016
Hair Braiding was made populous by the black community and it has grown to be a highly rated hairstyle with a force to reckon with worldwide. It is one style that never goes out of season; different variations in colour, texture, method and size of braids keep popping out ensuring that our love for braids is continuously on fire!

In addition to this, braids are very durable and can be carried for months while you play around with different ways of styling them.

I have compiled a list of the different types of braids, a brief explanation and a pictorial representation for those of us who are stuck on what next to do with our hair.

1. CROTCHET BRAIDS: This is definitely the braid of the season; from havana twists to marley braids to faux locs to naomi boom, the list of the number of crotchet braids out there is endless and this hair is perfect for those of us that are not blessed with the patience to sit down for long amounts of time to braid our hair as this is an easy DIY hair that can be done in under 30 minutes to an hour


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Fashion / Eight Must Haves For Your Handbag by 21stcenturygirl(f): 6:15am On Jul 19, 2016
Most times we leave our houses looking and feeling all fly
only to go through half of the day looking like a mess.
Looking good, decent and clean is something every female
should strive to do and it isn't rocket science.
In other to maintaiin your self confidence both inside and
out throughout the day, I have made a list of 8 things you as
a girl must carry in your handbag.
1. TOILET ROLL/HANDKERCHIEF/BABY WIPES: These all
play similar roles but it is important you carry at least two
of the mentioned items above. They are useful after a meal
or a quick visit to the convenience.
2. HANDCREAM: Your hands need to be moisturized
regularly in order for them to be in good shape. They are
also useful after a visit to the convenience.

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Celebrities / Re: Anna Banner Flaunts Her Bikini Body In All-black Undies by 21stcenturygirl(f): 12:47pm On Jul 11, 2016
rozayx5:
women and misplaced priorities, this undercover Akwa Ibomite who became miss bayelsa should better go back to school or start a business undecided undecided


Must u drag women into this??
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by 21stcenturygirl(f): 12:40pm On Jul 11, 2016
butanep:
Good morning Nairalanders.

I know this forum has been providing vital solutions to problems from time immemorial hence the need to pour-out my worries on this forum to get solutions become inevitable.

I was preparing for the final between Portugal and France yesterday when my girlfriend called me she will be coming, that I should be at home by 5pm. I was like why today of all day now! I told her I won't be around that I will be going to my parents place that evening. She began to act cold via the phone and later told me she will come let's go together. I haven't even seen your parents one on one she said... I was like which kind stubborn babe is this... I replied let's see about it but it will be better we make it another day. Don't worry today is the perfect day she said and cut the calls.

I tried calling no answer. This babe has come again because she don't like hearing football. We have had issues on this football matter severally but I told her she can't dictate what I will do or not, that I started watching football before I meet her. She first stop me from playing my soccer game when she is around. my friend have to call me when coming during the weekend to play games if she is around or not. I had to stop doing it when she is around to avoid problems.


Fast-forward... She came few minutes to 5pm. She was looking superb, probably to impress my parents. The desire for romance and sex came but I have to rebuked it because if it start, then my match is cancelled. How do I tell her I ve changed my mind from seeing my parents to watching football she never like or want to hear when she is around. We talk and talk till about few minutes to 8. She observed I wasn't coming closer to her as usual. She was like, a you expecting another woman. I smiled...

Then I busted it. Baby lets go and watch match. This one is very interesting. It's a final match. Ohhh match again. Aren't you going to your parents place again? I said my mum called to tell me she won't be around. She became relaxed. Please cancel the match... I want to cook something, you need to assist me. I was like baby am not hungry. I ve eaten. I am watching my food intake this period. She said that's my own, she wants to cook and I should be with her. The hatred against her started again. I said if you don't want to follow me to watch the match, eat your food alone. You can't stop me this time. Even my mother can't stop me from watching this final.

I left the kitchen. I called a friend to reserve a seat for me. She was frowning bitterly . I have made up my mind already. Few minutes after Ronaldo was brough -down, I received a text from her. " Dear so your match is more important than me" you can forgo me just because of match you can still watch later...it's a pity you don't love me. All I was thinking is how Ronaldo will come back again. I didn't give the message a second thought.


After the match. I was so happy Portugal won after the heat from France. That is when I read her message again. I quickly ran home. It was almost 11:30pm. She has slept. I send her a romantic message and told her am sorry about it but she should try to let me enjoy my football.

She woke up this morning. She was still frowning that I abandoned her for common football. I try to make her understand how important and interesting the match is to me. She left in anger and said I should either choose my football or her. That when I have made up my mind, I should let her know.


Though decision for me to make. I am not scared of loosing her anyway but I don't want us to break-up just like that... I'm not ready to drop sports again because of her. I told myself the sacrifices is too much, maybe I have to let her go... I have made up my mind not to call her.


Nairalanders what do you think on this issue? Matured advised only...








Try turning the table on her and tell her DT if she loves u she would try to contain ur excesses, play the victim card and see hw it plays out.
But this ur girlfriend is sha an iron Lady o
Romance / Re: Multiple Dating: To Be Or Not To Be? by 21stcenturygirl(f): 10:06pm On Jul 06, 2016
harrysjones:
can some onetell me the full meaning of d multiple dating... wink wink wink

Lool
Romance / Re: Multiple Dating: To Be Or Not To Be? by 21stcenturygirl(f): 10:06pm On Jul 06, 2016
kunlesufyan:
Your friend shuffles three boyfrnds ,how does she have the time to think of her life,business ,career and her spiritual life...having one partner is enuf problem self talk more of three..hell awaits some people

It baffles me alot
Romance / Re: Multiple Dating: To Be Or Not To Be? by 21stcenturygirl(f): 10:04pm On Jul 06, 2016
PunkyV:
Not to be. Personally, I don't like wasting my time & affections on people I don't really care about. Dating multiple partners would require a bit of faking interest on my part. I can't do that. I'd feel drained.

Some ppl hv mastered the art so perfectly that its almst a talent
Romance / Re: Multiple Dating: To Be Or Not To Be? by 21stcenturygirl(f): 10:03pm On Jul 06, 2016
ajokeade920:
you wouldn't blame them.its now seen as a " career" thing.such people don't need to be advised anymore.only time will tell.

Its so true
Romance / Multiple Dating: To Be Or Not To Be? by 21stcenturygirl(f): 12:25pm On Jul 06, 2016
MULTIPLE DATING: TO BE OR NOT TO BE?
Dating in the 21st century has been completely redefined as opposed to what used to be the norm decades ago- no thanks to technology that has made alot of vices much more easier and discreet. It is safe to say that most people don't date anymore; they just pick interest, work on that interest, get bored and move on to a new one and this trend is slowly creeping in and becoming a norm among guys and girls.

Being cool is now measured by how many of the opposite sex you can "conquer" and juggle all at the same time because apparently keeping all your eggs in one basket is way too risky, this trend has caused an increasing rate of Bleep boys- Bleep boys are basically those guys that always find a way to get sexual with you with every given opportunity and also don't know how to pick up the bills. They want to get all pleasures of a relationship without putting in any work whatsoever. I could go on and on about them but it will be so time draining ( I'll probably write a full article on how to spot and deal with them in the future). Of course the usual excuse is Men are dogs in nature, they are polygamous blah blah blah and we as women are somehow supposed to deal with these excesses? How is it my business that you choose to think with your third leg and not your brains? I don't want to rant but it's really annoying when I hear the sort of rubbish that people spew out from their mouth in favour of men being cheats.
Girls are not left out of this trend either, I'm a girl and I still don't understand how ladies are able to juggle two, three or more men in their lives, It's so much hard work!
I remember having a conversation with one of my girlfriends a few weeks back and I was very curious as to how she does it- dating three guys all at the same time with neither of them having a single clue about it! I was just too amazed and curious that I kept pestering her. She couldnt control her laughter and her reply was "my dear its not easy o, its a job but you know like every job in life you put in your best and look forward to payday" at that point I didn't want to hear anymore. How can someone spend precious time that can be used for something productive to be juggling three men? Hian! As if one is not enough headache and stress not to talk of three?
Girls, it's been scientifically proven that we are smarter than men, go to your secondary schools, the girls are always on top of their classes but in the higher institutions it's a different case. There is a lesson to be learnt here: We engage ourselves in so many of this worthless endeavours that we loose touch with our intellecual selves because of a man.
I have met girls who say that eating a guy's money is 'sweeter' than making your own money. Like people even engage in argurments as to how much a man should give them every month as a girlfriend not even a wife o; this is too outrageous. Nothing is more attractive than an independent woman, you control your time, money etc irrespective of whether a man is giving you money or not. That said true love gives, a man that doesnt give you doesn't love you shikena.
Some might argue that these guys will break your hearts if you let them, they will destroy you if you give your all to them but them again who says that you have to give your all to a guy just because you're dating him, why not keep the other half to yourself and use it for something productive. There is nothing I admire more in a woman than independence, it gives me so much joy when I think of the likes of Hilary Clinton, Oprah Winfrey, Mrs Aladkija, Chimamanda Adichie, Viola Davis, Taraji Henson and so much more. These are women that have defied all odds with a combination of beauty and brains and made history! That is what I call hot!
For those that have let heartbreak define their standards, that is too shameful! You let a man define who you are? and how your dating life will be while depriving that good guy in your life all the love and attention he deserves all because you don't want to risk it again? Newsflash Sister: the three of them can equally break your heart all at the same time. Do the math 3 heartbreaks at the same time = A shattering of the heart.
So yes, I vote no to multiple dating because with this true love can then be gauged and won't go into extinction.
What is your vote?

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