How do you explain a man walking out on his wife and 8months old twins, leaving them to fend for themselves?

There's no words here for a man who decides to up and leave he's wife and twins. I guess he wasn't cut out for fatherhood especially with the arrival of twins, double work. He has learnt one thing, its easy to become a father but HARD bein a father. Yup, he deserves the COWARD'S award, for duckin his responsibilities.

lemme guess he walked out on his wife and kids to be with his downfall (another woman), such a man should have his balls cut off, cuz there is no explanation for abandoning your 8 month old kids and your wife who you swore for better for worse in the presence of God, for anything, cuz its a man's duty to take care of his family. don't get married and have kids, infact don't even have sex if you don't want to those responsibilities or will chicken out like an idiot.

Ahhahahah! I love women. Always so sentiimental.

Men are not women. We have 9 months to get used to our new babies, they don't. They start from the first day these kids are born. A kid is already a great challenge for man, not to talk of two. In this case not only does he have to struggle into the kids-mother bond but he has to find his way in between the kids too because we know how twins are.

I don't blame the man but then he should just accept that these things happen and try his best to work things out.

Growing twins can be lovely until you don't try to mold them to be identical people!

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I reserve my comment for the man now My concern is how is the woman handling it? Does she have enough support mechanism in place? Can she cope alone financially?

Some men out there are begging for a child, and one stood twins up. How very very stupid.

The smartest phrase I heard today was "People should be licensed to have children".

I blame women sometimes. If you know he ain't a serious man, unemployed, useless etc, don't have sex with him wihout condom. Condoms are not 100% effective, but abstinence is.

Twins, how precious

chikito1:

How do you explain a man walking out on his wife and 8months old twins, leaving them to fend for themselves?

no one commits to divorce just like that
this is so sad. there are people and there people. something must have led to this i dont think we have all the story here.

HeatFusion:

Some men out there are begging for a child, and one stood twins up. How very very stupid.

The smartest phrase I heard today was "People should be licensed to have a child".

I blame women sometimes. If you know he ain't a serious man, unemployed, useless etc, don't have sex with him wihout condom. Condoms are not 100% effective, but abstinence is.

Twins, how precious

dont have sex at all i say. sadly another woman will count this jerk a man. some people really need licence to create children. God help us.

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Gosh you are so dramatic.

JJYOU:

.dont have sex at all i say. sadly another woman will count this jerk a man. some people really need licence to create children. God help us.

How is a woman not supposed to have sex with her husband? They said she's a "wife"

what kind of a qstion is dis one poster?

amebo no.1:

what kind of a qstion is dis one poster?

Answer the question Sister Amebo, but be gentle, its still the new year, lol

JJYOU:

some people really need licence to create children. God help us.

True that

That's cruel.

Is this just a figment of the poster’s imagination?

Busy_Body:

Apparently, the wife does not work. The guy has got a considerably good job. He just fled with another woman and hardly shows up to help out with the

kids, because he's moved in with the other woman.

Pepeye,

The story is actually true and this girl in question is a friend. Just wondering why and how a man can possibly do that. It makes you think as a woman.

Cruel

This action is truly wrong. But you cant jump to conclusion without knowing what their relationship was truly about.
This run-away guy could claim that the new pregnancy are not his. What if the guy was influenced by dark power?
The ball is in that woman's court now. What that woman need now is not why but how to keep her new house.

A wise woman keepeth her house. Keep the children, keep the pregnancy, live her now-life, and she should be strong.

there must be a reason for his actions so if you dont mind can you expandiate on the story cox i cant really say anything just with that title.


cox then it will be wrong to kind of criticize the man in question without actually knowing the other side of the story

sorry if i'm asking too much

story in-complete, no comments

I do not know the deep end of the story, but he should not have gotten her pregnant if he knew he was not going

to be with her on the long run. I know for sure that they have been together for about 7 years. So if he knew he

was just hanging in there, he should not have gotten her pregnant like i earlier stated. Left her for another woman

and makes it pretty obvious that he belongs to another woman now.

so much for sentiments

What is the REASON he left?

Karma is the case for the woman who made another woman`s husband abandon his kids and wife for her selfish interest,one thing women that does this dont know is that the man will do the same to them if they are in similar situation,the man is heartless if he was atleast paying child support it would have been less complicated.

michelin89: Ahhahahah! I love women. Always so sentiimental.

Men are not women. We have 9 months to get used to our new babies, they don't. They start from the first day these kids are born. A kid is already a great challenge for man, not to talk of two. In this case not only does he have to struggle into the kids-mother bond but he has to find his way in between the kids too because we know how twins are.

I don't blame the man but then he should just accept that these things happen and try his best to work things out.

Growing twins can be lovely until you don't try to mold them to be identical people!

haha

Coward and irresponsible