It was a sweet relationship, everybody knows them to be 5 n 6, everything was going smooth and Nice. They were so close that the parent of the girl knows the guy well. Suddenly, the guy started acting up maybe because he felt so secured in the relationship, that no matter what, the girl will never leave him.

Stupidly, he broke up with the girl to rattle her. The girl wept for days, beg and beg, but they guy was just having fun, I guess!.

Bravely, after 1month the girl move On and dust off the breakup. Now the guy want back, all he simply did is to tell cock and bull story to the girl mum. The girl mum is seriously pressurizing the girl to go back to the guy!

The question is, How much of an influence should the parent have on a relationship? Should the girl go back? How stupid is the guy? ..... Thanks

tell me why are we so blind to see that the ones we hurt is you and me

The mother has no say in the relationship as far as deciding whether the girl should go back that decision is for the girl to make.

[color=#000099]He's learnt his mistakes, she should go bck. BUT LET HER DO HER OWN SHAKARA FIRST, SO IT'LL BE 50/50.
NOT GOING BACK AT ALL MAY BE HER GREATEST MISTAKE./color]

Dimples192:
The mother has no say in the relationship as far as deciding whether the girl should go back that decision is for the girl to make.

Her own mother? I'm surprised I'm hearing this from u.

cozy7:
Her own mother? I'm surprised I'm hearing this from u.

This man is evil and manipulative. He played with the girls emotions and now wants to see if he can control her again. What then once he knows he has full control he will drop her again.
The mother is wrong and should never allow anyone to hurt her child. She should have told him to go and convince the girl himself not do his dirty work for him.

cozy7:
[color=#000099]He's learnt his mistakes, she should go bck. BUT LET HER DO HER OWN SHAKARA FIRST, SO IT'LL BE 50/50.
NOT GOING BACK AT ALL MAY BE HER GREATEST MISTAKE./color]

Love isn't a game where each person gets a turn to play with the other persons emotions. There's no shakara involved in love (whatever that means lol)

Dimples192:


Love isn't a game where each person gets a turn to play with the other persons emotions. There's no shakara involved in love (whatever that means lol)

Well you ought to know that the mum wouldn't interfere unless the daughter is aging

D1ck:
Well you ought to know that the mum wouldn't interfere unless the daughter is aging

Why would I know

If you want to go back then go back

She Sud follow her heart

Not her mothers wishes

D1ck:
Well you ought to know that the mum wouldn't interfere unless the daughter is aging

The girl is still young, A final year student thou

Dimples192:


Love isn't a game where each person gets a turn to play with the other persons emotions. There's no shakara involved in love (whatever that means lol)

Spot On! Love isn't a Game, Things of the heart are not to be played with.

Dimples192:


This man is evil and manipulative. He played with the girls emotions and now wants to see if he can control her again. What then once he knows he has full control he will drop her again.
The mother is wrong and should never allow anyone to hurt her child. She should have told him to go and convince the girl himself not do his dirty work for him.

"He played with the girl emotions" Obviously! "Evil and Manipulative" isn't that harsh, mayb he is just stupid!

Dimples192:


This man is evil and manipulative. He played with the girls emotions and now wants to see if he can control her again. What then once he knows he has full control he will drop her again.
The mother is wrong and should never allow anyone to hurt her child. She should have told him to go and convince the girl himself not do his dirty work for him.

"He played with the girl emotions" Obviously! "Evil and Manipulative" isn't that harsh?, mayb he is just stupid!

Well the mum is not the one to live with the guy