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Its normal, but why dont u call her more too.

Yeah it's normal but not good.if u love her go out of ur way to call her. Women appreciate little things like them being thought of her.infact the longer ur relationship the more spontaneous u shud be.

You definately need to call her more often~~~If U really care for someone,You will want to talk with them all the time!!

Well, she ain't complaining or is she? Maybe she likes it the way it is. More calls may start to get on her nerves.
I'll say, let sleeping dogs lie.

This one can go either way. As someone mentioned earlier, calling to say "Hi, how are you doing?" everyday could feed her comfort and show that you care. The other aspect to consider is that the suspense might be what works for your relationship. She feels more at ease because you are not choking her with calls every other secondth of the day, and when she does talk to you she has had enough time to build up or imagine a new fondness of you.

No it is nt normal.One of the two of you is a very boring person.

i dont know oh, wat i know is dat, once i realize my rela is gettin dat bad, i wud work on it by calling on a regular and if he doesnt like calling and meeting without a gud reason, then lets call it quit, comon watz a rela without talking to ur selves bin wid ur selves all d tym and u know , Abeg who doesnt like attention atleast from the ladies side, abegg, i go wid arramyjay, u guyz re boring

From experience, you guys are not going any further with a relationship like that.
You can not but communicate in a true relationship.

Another fact, out of sight is out of mind - abi I lie?

[color=#9900ff]She's not complaining. . .you aren't either, so. . .as long as you are both satisfied with where you are, it's all that matters.[/color]

But it is not healthy!  Healthy relationship are built via constant-continuous communication.

You both seem quite comfortable with yourselves and where your relationship is and thats all you need for now. If/when you feel the need to take things a notch higher, do so - as long as you both still feel the same way. Otherwise, carry on, there's nothing wrong with you o jare!

Bobo, hear me o jare. I dey talk from experience. Maybe in nija, you guys no like communication.

Abi you no sabi that out of sight is out of mind?

I really don't know how you both manage.
I talk with my man via phone more than 4 times a day and I still complain.

Hey missy, you don't call me up to 4 times na

Lol!!
Baby I was referring to Man #5 not you.
Yours is 3 times a day na . . . don't deny that.

spikedcylinder:
You both seem quite comfortable with yourselves and where your relationship is and thats all you need for now. If/when you feel the need to take things a notch higher, do so - as long as you both still feel the same way. Otherwise, carry on, there's nothing wrong with you o jare!

[color=#9900ff]Thank you jare. [/color]

Taken:
But it is not healthy!  Healthy relationship are built via constant-continuous communication.

[color=#9900ff]Actually it depends on the person.
Personally am not a big fan of calls. 5 times a day to shoot the breeze or repeat something. . .abeg [/color]

You guyz appear to me like a different version of "Friends with Benefits" than a dating couple.

iice, spiked and I seem to be the only one thinking u guys are normal.
Anyways, don't stress urself. . .but try asking ur GF if she wants u to increase the call rate.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Thank you jare. [/color]

HorneyChic:
iice, spiked and I seem to be the only one thinking u guys are normal.
Anyways, don't stress urself. . .but try asking ur GF if she wants u to increase the call rate.

It would have been a different case if one person is into a lot of communication and the other person is not, that would just be a disaster! Enjoy the way things are jor.

@poster
you can continue getting yes and no from here and if after the yes & no's you decide to increase d call rate and she's not comfortable,there'll be a problem and if you decide you guys are ok d way you are and she really wants more,there's still going to be problem in the long run so why not talk to her abt it?
@ Missy B
Even if you hear from him 24 times a day,you will still complain because ladies are biologically programmed to complain!

MoneyRule:
@ Missy B
Even if you hear from him 24 times a day,you will still complain because ladies are biologically programmed to complain!

Educate me more please!!

why are you giving a f u c k about any friends. your concern should be how well it works for you guys. even if is a lies that keeps your r/ship nourished, then let it flow! . so it's a normal thing bro

@ Missy B
Educate you?
You are a lady,you complain.
What part of the above do you need education on? That you are a lady?