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Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by Ndukings92(m): 11:21pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
Today being 22nd of march 2015,I have come to d realization that putting my eggs in one basket will be my greatest mistake of life apart from d ones I have already made.yes I know that i love her but i don't think that this will stand d test of time,then why caging myself because of her since this is all I could get?y scaring away all d ones am with and d ones that are willing to play along with me?i don't think it worth it anymore cos even thou she is d one my heart desires should that be d reason why she should b controlling me like a puppet?will I die if I later don't get married to her? It's time I care less about her and her relationship with d opposite sex and mind mine,after all no one will get all that he desires.oh yes I desire her but what if d desire is not available won't d available become d desire?someone begged me to attend her matric today even to d extent of traveling from Omaba down here to okpoko to invite me and I didn't honor it today cos of her but what did i get in return?I canceled an appointment with a friend infront of her today,what did I got in return? am suppose to visit and spend time with my Aunty on Sundays but I don't normally go cos of her,what do I get?am I not her puppet?I think it's time I play my cards my own way and if she don't like it let her bounce,after all in future she is prone to leave me to follow a moneybag if her parents,peers or mates insult her for being with a poor boy from a poor background like me, I think i rushed in too fast cos am just 23 this year,am suppose to focus on what life has to offer.God i need ur intervention cos i don't have control of this heart of mine since evening,can I possibly sleep this night? |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by KanwuliaJara: 11:58pm On Mar 22, 2015 |
You ARE the problem, not her! It is very obvious! Typical BLACK man and emotional instability! Abeg, go cure yasef before you marry o! You are doomed to fail because you lack any sense of direction in your life! *thanks for not posting the yeye blog. lack of originality still smelling in the h-air* . . . . . Logging off! Back to my Netflix jare!!!!! Off for 4 days and loving it!!!!! |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by Richy4(m): 2:13am On Mar 23, 2015 |
Your write up showcases a future nagging husband With a capital letter N The last time I checked, friendship/relationships calls for sacrifice most times. If you don't want to sacrifice, do not be in them. You are young and still got a lot to learn in those department. |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by Ndukings92(m): 6:31am On Mar 23, 2015 |
@Richy.what do u mean when u talk about sacrifice in relationship here, what makes u do sure that I hadn't sacrifice anything here? @Kanwulia,I don't understand it point here. |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by slimyem: 8:54am On Mar 23, 2015 |
You have found a perfect word to describe what you are...naive.I could add immature,unstable to it. All the stuff you've typed up there is just you saying a lot without actually saying anything. It's called ranting-not for real men. Focus on finding yourself a place in life. Live, learn,grow up and then you can figure out the rest. |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by chinnelle(f): 9:05am On Mar 23, 2015 |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by pickabeau1: 9:08am On Mar 23, 2015 |
Move on Make money |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 23, 2015 |
So stop acting like her puppet. |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by stinggy(m): 12:22pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
It is never her problem but yours bro. If at 23 you still do all these things you wrote down, then trouble is looming. You have to man up. |
Re: Maybe Am Naive And Obsess by 5minsmadness: 5:44pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Op sorry oh. Kpele. Is this the first time you are having a broken heart? Don't worry, it will get better OK? All those people above me forming boss, "you are not a real man" group, the same thing has happened to each and every one of them. They too have learned their lesson. I remember when I was a soldier, I travelled from Kwara to port Harcourt all cos of some babe who didn't appreciate it. I was naive then. I am hardened now. Get hardened bro. Pick yourself up and get hardened. . The ladies, they don't like the nice guys. They want domination. A man who will treat them like they are an afterthought. A man who acts with confidence and damns the consequences. Man up bro. MAN UP. |
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