lasstropinky:
A Lady complain of her husband way of doing things. Her husband is a Teacher in a nearby school so whenever he is free in school he comes home for sex...though they had rounds in the morning and unlimited still to come at night he still find time to have sex in the afternoon. It continues like this till she couldn't take it more...it led to fight and the pastor had to intervene.

The Lady open up to the pastor that her husband want to kill her with sex; morning,afternoon and night even when she is overworked. Pastor asked husband and husband said all i know is The word of God says "Wife be submissive to your husband" and God never lie.

If You are the pastor how will you settle this matter.

Abuamam:



Simple; tell him to marry a second wife.

lasstropinky:
the door is open sir we don't need you here

Abuamam:


I humbly apologise. Next time, perhaps you might indicate the specific responders you wish...
Exit

HARDDON:
Very Dicey situation!

if the pastor takes side with the wify, husby might use that as a ground for assuming Bible can be bent and start playing away matches.

if he supports the husby by quoting that verse too, the wify might lose hope in the church too and the pastor's conscience would not let him rest from giving such advise.

best way is to give an indirect answer using questions.

wano know?

swaggzo:
ALL THIS HAPPENS WHEN THERE'S NO LOVE + MUTUALITY IN THE MARRIAGE.
WHEN THERE'S NO UNDERSTANDING AND PRESENCE OF PROPER COMMUNICATION, SHIIT WILL NEVER CEASE TO GO WRONG IN A RELATIONSHIP.

lasstropinky:
A marriage not relationship

swaggzo:


MY DEAR

YOU CANNOT HAVE A MARRIED WITHOUT HAVING A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN YOU BOTH

LIKE. ..
THERE'S A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN I AND MY SISTER = SIBLINGS
THERE'S A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN I SEUN = FRIENDS
THERE'S A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN I AND MY WIFE = MARRIAGE

THATS THE TYPE OF STUFF I MEANT.

Allureoftheseas:
Bleep the bitch till she tap out

Abuamam:


I humbly apologise. Next time, perhaps you might indicate the specific responders you wish...
Exit

lasstropinky:
A Lady complain of her husband way of doing things. Her husband is a Teacher in a nearby school so whenever he is free in school he comes home for sex...though they had rounds in the morning and unlimited still to come at night he still find time to have sex in the afternoon. It continues like this till she couldn't take it more...it led to fight and the pastor had to intervene.

The Lady open up to the pastor that her husband want to kill her with sex; morning,afternoon and night even when she is overworked. Pastor asked husband and husband said all i know is The word of God says "Wife be submissive to your husband" and God never lie.

If You are the pastor how will you settle this matter.

KillerBeauty:
So d man comes home in the afternoon to have sex.
That means d woman is a full time house wife with no where to go all through the day
She should get herself a job and the afternoon sex will end
Simple

johnydon22:


the bolded is one of the archaic ideology people should drop in this 21st century.
I mean this is the 21st century and people shouldn't base their thinking on a primitive outdated ideology.

Marriage is a union between 2 [size=20]consenting[/size] adults and not between a superior and inferior. Men should stop seeing women as inferiors but as equals and deserve equal right and respect.

Sex in marriages should be at the consent and convenience of both party. .we should all consider each other's feeling before doing things in a relationship.

That man really needs to be upgraded and the wife should run for her life.. we have a maniac here..

lasstropinky:
This is the word of God not ideololgy

johnydon22:

The word of what? then that damn word needs upgrading, its archaic and primitive..

lasstropinky:
Sorry it can't be upgraded nd if you don't mind the door is open for you to leave.

Abuamam:



Simple; tell him to marry a second wife.

johnydon22:

this is nairaland .. Have you ever wondered why your so called word of god is exactly the ideology of the society it's found in. . . A bunch of ancient primitive men wreaking of sexism wrote down a bunch of crap and a 21st century homo sapiens is buying it with so much reverence. Thats disappointing...

lasstropinky:
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OREMUSSANCTUS:
sowie he asked ya to leave, our religion doesn't encourage one to take a second wife, so datz not an option.
Cc: lalasticlala cum seun

davien:
It's amazing how the alleged christian all-knowing deity would write a book that anyone could spin in his/her own favour...

Pastors use it to molest,steal and manipulate politics..

Husbands use it as an excuse to subdue wives...

Homophobes use it to bash gays...

Bigots use it to bash atheists...

Children use it to read porn(songs of Solomon)

Christians claim it's the ultimate standard but each pick and choose what it means...

Creationists use it to claim the earth is 6000 years old and adam lived with dinosaurs...

The wealthy use it to mellow poor folk into submission...

The poor use it to warn the wealthy into obedience...

Plus it's sponsored a lot of genocide, infanticide, suicide(jim jones cult,heavens gate),etc


And the ridiculous part is that it's managed to convince millions that what it says is true with absolutely nothing to show for it but weak reasons and fallacies...

lasstropinky:

The Lady open up to the pastor that her husband want to kill her with sex; morning,afternoon and night even when she is overworked. Pastor asked husband and husband said all i know is The word of God says "Wife be submissive to your husband" and God never lie.

If You are the pastor how will you settle this matter.

johnydon22:
lol typical... why dont you come up with something better to defend ur holy book.. i think its clear enough who needs the sense..

davien:
It's amazing how the alleged christian all-knowing deity would write a book that anyone could spin in his/her own favour...

Pastors use it to molest,steal and manipulate politics..

Husbands use it as an excuse to subdue wives...

Homophobes use it to bash gays...

Bigots use it to bash atheists...

Children use it to read porn(songs of Solomon)

Christians claim it's the ultimate standard but each pick and choose what it means...

Creationists use it to claim the earth is 6000 years old and adam lived with dinosaurs...

The wealthy use it to mellow poor folk into submission...

The poor use it to warn the wealthy into obedience...

Plus it's sponsored a lot of genocide, infanticide, suicide(jim jones cult,heavens gate),etc


And the ridiculous part is that it's managed to convince millions that what it says is true with absolutely nothing to show for it but weak reasons and fallacies...