sirp2007:


because u want eat meat u go call cow uncle? abegi d guy jus break free 4rm wud be slavery...Op did well.
4rm bag carrying is bn sent to buy recharge card, then go drop tis tin 4 house, come clean my table, u must attend tis occasion, go buy my lunch . b4 u know it tis same oga will say u re nt good at ur job bt 4 errand. nd she will replace u wth someone tht knows his worth.

Guy 4get d lost job nd move ahead, u hv better tins waiting 4 u in d future.
The biggest lie u will ever be told is tht there is no job. there re lots of job out there.

bukatyne:


I do not like eye service but once in a blue moon, I bend for my boss.

Since his boss asked, he should have helped.

Even people in position of power seemly wait on others for favors.

All these big people even do leg service more than then junior ones.

A little humility helps.

klark3:

Am 28, she will be 30 sept this yr, because she celebrated her 29th birthday sept last year.

andykay:
does his job description and specification includes bag carrying?

holyokoto:


Because you never jam

Ifeann:


Justfollowit is a st.upid girl who makes a hobby of being rude on nairaland. . Forget her

disloman:
I just laughed when i read comments supporting OP's action n i knw most of do worst things.U guys should analyse issue 1st b4 commenting.OP!u were wrong.She didn't call u frm ur office 2 do that.She is ur BOSS.Had she ever ask u 4 such?bro!in as much u r still working in one's company,u will av 2 do their bidding inasmuch it doesn't affect u negatively

Ifeann:


Justfollowit is a st.upid girl who makes a hobby of being rude on nairaland. . Forget her

Justfollowit:


Missy, what's up na?

Have you finally gotten a life? If no, holla when you finally do

magicfingers009:
I can't believe some people are telling you you're wrong. What da hell? Is it in the company's handbook that you should carry your boss handbag? What's wrong with her own hand? You're an architect not an office assistant. What about the driver?

Gosh I'm so pissed at some people's slave mentality. You did the right thing. And if your work is second to none, her father would come looking for you. Then you can set ground rules.

Hold your head high

duni04:

Oh! OK noted. I'll just ignore her stupidity next time. Thanks for the heads up

duni04:
I think the word "contemporary" totally obliterates the gender cause you're trying to push. Its wrong for someone, anyone(male or female) that is about the same age and probably has the same qualificatioins as you to push you around. The OP and the "Boss" are both architects. The only edge she has over him is that its her fathers company. Gives her no right to turn an architect like herself into an errand boy.

Viciyus:


You won bring slavery come Nigeria by.

Why are you like this.
There is no agreement that said carry her bag.

duni04:

People like you don't go far. Nobody likes someone who everyone can trample on, someone that has no dignity and self worth. If you find nothing wrong with carrying the handbag of your contemporary, and a woman! Then you ain't going far in life. Gbagbe!

holyokoto:


Because you never jam

Ifeann:


U funny...
Have u found someone to marry u on the romance section of nairaland. . U need some home training and deliverance from that jihadist spirit of mohammed possessing you..

Have a nice evening.

chidexy:
@OP, there's what is called "kissing the right ar.ses". Go and learn how to climb the corporate ladder

duni04:

Honestly the Arabs are the only sane men in the world today. They've put women in their place. Men elsewhere have really fumbled

Justfollowit:


You must be a really smart guy

Good move

FrancisTony:

Lmao! Well, OP was right for protecting his masculine quality and he paid dearly for it.

The lady was also right for flexing her feminism skills.

By the way, are you a graduate or an undergraduate?

klark3:
I was employed as an architect in a medium size architectural firm, my boss happens to be a lady.

I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare.

I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason.

I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project.

Was I wrong?

Justfollowit:


Mtcheww

Ilaje44:


And that's the reason the Arabs are running the world and calling the short today ain't it?

kaboninc:


Lol at head service.

Well, it could be a test but to me, a silly one oh. Carry her hand bag wey contain Mary K and mascara? Mbanu

Well, he pretended sha...

Maybe she felt threatened by his rising profile and wants to reiterate that she's the boss.

And now, na for the guy to go beg....chai

I think he'll go an beg sha....

Well like you said, humility somehow can take you places.

WOMEN sha.....

jaykaylegend:
sure, bt the guy said his boss ooooo, not his co-worker.. I mean this person pays his salary..
what of if the boss was a much more older woman, won't he have carried it??



Na nigeria we dey oooo.. Remember!!

Seun:
If your boss was a man, and you were a woman, there would be no controversy whatsoever.

"He asked me to carry his suitcase and I refused." "Serves you right, proud bitch, you ought to respect your boss"