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The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by lalasticlala(m): 2:12pm On Apr 04, 2015
Even though no one wants to admit it, we all know that some women are prolific liars. These type are so skillful in the act that they almost never get caught at it which invariably makes them good cheaters (that’s a story for another day). From lying about their age to their relationship status, they completely leave men behind when it comes to lying and getting away with it. It is my hope that this list and article in its entirety will help you understand some of the common lies told by women, why they tell those lies and how stupid they are.

Age
This perhaps is the commonest lie told by women and the reason why they do is not that far-fetched. I have dated girls from different age groups ranging from the 18-22 year old group and 24-29 year old group. I got to discover that those that fell within the 24-29 year old group lied more about their age. They always took off 2 to three years out of their original age.
Obviously, women lie about their age because they feel men are mostly attracted to younger women and would perceive older women as controlling. Despite the facade the media tries to create by trying to alter the perception of age. It’s a natural biological instinct for women to know when men are most attracted to them and once they are above the age when men swoon over them, they naturally try to remain attractive and lie about their real age which unfortunately, doesn’t work.

Being Single
This is another common lie women tell. A very obvious one is claiming to have a boyfriend when a guy they don’t like is making a move on them. However, the opposite of this is more common as women will pointedly tell a guy they like that they are single when it is actually the opposite. If they fail to tell you they are single when they like you, they might just feign ignorance and avoid talking about the man in their life which happens to be as good as lying about it.
I have been with two girls who were actually in serious relationships before we got hooked and both never mentioned their boyfriends while we were together. Perhaps it was because I never asked because I avoid complications that way. I never got to know they were in relationships until an awkward message or call comes into their phones.
Of cause, some ladies try to juggle two relationships at a time, just as other would dump the old guy for the new one. Other ones basically want to cheat on their boyfriends of many years for the thrill and excitement the new guy they barely know brings. The scary thing about this is that the men they end up cheating with are mostly douche bags and they are barely honest about it with their boyfriends. A recent study says that 50% of women admitted that they would give their boyfriend another man’s child while 42% of women said they would lie about taking birth control so they could get pregnant.

We are just friends, he’s not interested
“We are just friends, he’s not interested in me.” is another common lie women tell. One would be dumb to believe that the women actually believe this given the “I miss you,” “You look so sexy in that picture,” etc that the supposed friends constantly bombard them with. The messages were clear indications that these girls know that these guys wanted more as some of them even reply with the same. The reason why women do this can be adduced to their crave for validation, interest in a future relationship or pure boredom. Women keep some guys around as a backup plan who they continue to chat, flirt and keep around in case their ongoing relationship fails to work or someone whose shoulders can be available to cry on when they have problems in their relationships.

More so, women will keep some other guys whom they previously had an interest around so that they may ignite a spark. And as a guy, always bear in mind that women will leave you behind the moment they find someone that’s more valuable than you are. This sounds somewhat scary given that a wide array of opportunists can easily get to sleep with her but the bright side is that you could also find yourself on the other side.

I don’t flirt with other guys
Women often tell this lie given how ambiguous the definition of flirting is. I see flirting as talking and acting in a way that could lead a normal man to believe that you are sexually interested in him. Women are very good at reading body language and can easily deduce if they are flirting or someone is flirting with them. They also do know when a guy wants much more from them. Most women flirt just to kill boredom and have backup plans in case their present relationship fails to work.

I’ve never done this before
If you haven’t heard this a couple of times, then you are probably lacking in experience. It is common to hear a lady say “I’ve never done this” when you bring her home from an outing. They believe saying this will help you believe they are good girls and will never follow a guy they barely know home but you’d be a fool to believe this as you are one in a long list who has passed the same routine. Ladies try to appear innocent so as not to lose an opportunity of being in a relationship with you. Every one knows “ a hoe can’t be made a housewife” and for this reason, they try to create a positive perception, hoping you get to fall for it and a lot of men actually do fall for it.
Another study recently alluded that the higher the number of sexual partners a a man or woman has had between age 18 and the time of first marriage or cohabitation, the more likely he or she is to be unfaithful.

Last time she had sex
I enjoy asking this question because of the fun of knowing how much girls lie about it. For reasons unknown, most girls tend to say the last time they had sex was 6 to 8 months back. Unfortunately, even though it seems to sound right to them, it is a lie 4 out of 5 times. The fact that women know guys don’t want to date or marry a slut makes them pretend to be innocent in the hope that it will give them a positive perception.

Number of Sexual Partners
A lot of girls lie about their body count or how many guys they have been with. This can be adduced to the fact that they want to be seen as innocent. They know if they tell the truth, most guys would just want to smash and leave.

These lies tell us that we have been lied to all through life. However, one good thing about her telling you all these lies is that she has a serious interest in you. This however doesn’t make it right for you to be duped into a relationship. Women tend to use the fact that we crave good girls and have become good in the act of deception. Nonetheless, if they want a good guy, they have to work for it not by getting it through the shortcut.


Source: http://www.360nobs.com/2015/04/the-7-best-lies-women-tell-in-relationships/

Disclaimer: I'm not the writer of this article

But the writer couldn't have been wrong with all these assertions.
But a man asking a babe about the last point, shouldn't expect an honest answer.. How could a lady that has been with over 7 guys tell you the truth, she would either say you are the 2nd or the 3rd...


So do you agree with the writer?


I'm expecting a counter thread from the ladies, a well articulated counter thread. Lol

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by missbehave247(m): 2:13pm On Apr 04, 2015
Men are wiser now

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Enegod(m): 2:13pm On Apr 04, 2015
8. I don't date guys for their money.
9. Size does not matter undecided
10. I dont care if you date anyone else undecided

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 04, 2015
Women can lie! A girl once said we were just friends, and I was cool with it. But now she's all over me, and what's worse is she's been calling herself my girlfriend. All because of money. Smh
Abeg, what's this thread about again?

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by 20bc(m): 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2015
VERY TRUE.... THEY LIE MOSTLY ABOUT THEIR AGE, AND HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN ME "na that one day pain me pass" LADIES WHY, MUST YOU LIE ABOUT EVERYTHING

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by kullozone(m): 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2015
wait first!!


well,after reading through the writeup
I can confidently say it's all....





















correct.

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:16pm On Apr 04, 2015
8.Am a virgin....

9.I hate you
cheesy

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by pTomz(m): 2:16pm On Apr 04, 2015
Fakers everywhere angry

u no add....

My dad lives abroad

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by agoadiv(m): 2:17pm On Apr 04, 2015
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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by EverestdeBliu(m): 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2015
All in da bid to entangle the guy in a relationship,as she eyes the alter or to drill deep into his pocket.smh

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:19pm On Apr 04, 2015
some aren't true lala! angry
everyone tells lies, so we must surely lie.
men lie too, more than women. their lies can even kill.
no offense.

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by zadok60: 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2015
sad politics in nairaland..
#smh.. sad

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by MzzTega(f): 2:21pm On Apr 04, 2015
Even guys tell those lies.
Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by showafrica(m): 2:22pm On Apr 04, 2015
Another lie is...they never had money.

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Solowande(m): 2:22pm On Apr 04, 2015
The next tin we go hear naThe 7 Most Common Lies Men Tell In Relationships
Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:26pm On Apr 04, 2015
I don't lie about my age.
Very proud of my age and how far I have come. grin

Why shall I lie?
Why should he even ask gaan?

Instead of lying, I have a habit of saying "that's classified" or jokingly ask "e concern youuu?"

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by falconey(m): 2:26pm On Apr 04, 2015
spoiling their market.....diaris God o.

When you type GIRL just put LIE in bracket.

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 04, 2015
OP, so u expect us 2 tell u guys everything abi? undecided

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by falconey(m): 2:27pm On Apr 04, 2015
Kachisbarbie:
I don't lie about my age.
Very proud of it. grin


experiment; what's your age?

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 04, 2015
Oh the shame grin

Ladies, The truth has been Exposed lmao grin

Chris rock said: Men tell little lies like;

"baby I love you, NO! Your asss doesn't look big in that"

Women tell BIG lies like:

"The baby is yours"

We need a counter thread now @Op cry

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by 20bc(m): 2:28pm On Apr 04, 2015
EroticAngelina:
some aren't true lala! angry
everyone tells lies, so we must surely lie.
men lie too, more than women. their lies can even kill.
no offense.
CAN YOU MENTION FIVE CRAZY LIE GUYS USE TO SAY ALL THE TIME
Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:30pm On Apr 04, 2015
falconey:



experiment; what's your age?

lols.
Approximately 24, by my next birthday I would be 24. tongue

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:30pm On Apr 04, 2015
Dimples192:
Oh the shame grin
my Dimples

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Willit(m): 2:30pm On Apr 04, 2015
I don't eat beans. grin
I don't have airtime. grin

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by falconey(m): 2:31pm On Apr 04, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


lols.
Approximately 24, by my next birthday. tongue


LIE!

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 04, 2015
lalasticlala:


Source: http://www.360nobs.com/2015/04/the-7-best-lies-women-tell-in-relationships/

Disclaimer: I'm not the writer of this article

So do you agree with the writer?



Everything on this list is true...

Good write up lala smiley

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 04, 2015
falconey:


LIE!

hahahahahaha
Kill yourself.

Why do you think I am lying?
Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by DuchessLily(f): 2:34pm On Apr 04, 2015
Hmmm... OP d play boy! See all d age ranges u've dated... Tell me why u won't meet the liars...

Chai! See CV experience grin

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by lilmax(m): 2:34pm On Apr 04, 2015
They can lie
Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by 20bc(m): 2:35pm On Apr 04, 2015
Lala247:


Everything on this list is true...

Good write up lala smiley
So which one are you guilty of. ⌛
Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Nobody: 2:37pm On Apr 04, 2015
20bc:
So which one are you guilty of. ⌛

Last time having sex .. Guilty grin

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Re: The 7 Most Common Lies Women Tell In Relationships by falconey(m): 2:38pm On Apr 04, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


hahahahahaha
Kill yourself.

Why do you think I am lying?


after I read what OP said , girls lie about AGE you want me to believe you?

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