What's the general decorum for talking to women about marriage? It is often much more sacred than it is for men. I've seen many women plan their marriage since secondary school or before while for we men, who are usually commitmentophobes, don't even thinkabout it until past 25 (not to say ALL women or men are this way though, just trends). Some women, I could imagine, would want it to be a surprise and not know what the guy is thinking about while others may want to know and start planning before the question is popped. What's your experience?

hmm
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mirexxx:
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cc: Enegod

Enegod:

say something

this land looks fertile.. I think I'll plant my weed here

mirexxx:
say something

my brain is out of service

lame.....

alberto2k:
this land looks fertile.. I think I'll plant my weed here

:oknow God and make more than Jay z that's all

bros if u neva ready no reason marriage o



when I say ready, I mean both
mentally
physically
spiritually
financially
etc


if not na die u dey

Lemme pass d night here.











I will continue my journey in the morning

jamex93:
bros if u neva ready no reason marriage o



when I say ready, I mean both
mentally
physically
spiritually
financially
etc


if not na die u dey

when you get ready in these you listed here, how to you go about the marriage talk with the potential babe? How do you drop the bomb on her?

braine:
when you get ready in these you listed here, how to you go about the marriage talk with the potential babe? How do you drop the bomb on her?

The spirit will lead you


But u have to b sure of the lady

N b sure she really wants to be with u




If u r not sure she that she wants to b with u, then u have works to do

jamex93:
bros if u neva ready no reason marriage o



when I say ready, I mean both
mentally
physically
spiritually
financially
etc


if not na die u dey

Hmmm, my dear, no matter hw u wnt 2 put it, marriage is scaaaarrrryyyyyyy!!! Sm peeps myt b ready in all d ways u mentioned bu still scared 2 commit, especially guys. Wch reminds me, wn I tnk of hw scared guys r of commitments, I really wonder wr their balls r, n it mks me wnt 2 bliv Chimamanda's TED talk abt feminism. She said and I quote: #BUT WHY DO WE TEACH GIRLS TO ASPIRE TO MARRIAGE AND WE DON'T TEACH BOYS THE SAME?#

braine:
when you get ready in these you listed here, how to you go about the marriage talk with the potential babe? How do you drop the bomb on her?

Braine language, I sense 2 tyns. 1) U hv a girl u wnt 2 propose 2. 2) Ur scared. #LOL# "be a man" or so dey say.

yhusiee:

Hmmm, my dear, no matter hw u wnt 2 put it, marriage is scaaaarrrryyyyyyy!!! Sm peeps myt b ready in all d ways u mentioned bu still scared 2 commit, especially guys. Wch reminds me, wn I tnk of hw scared guys r of commitments, I really wonder wr their balls r, n it mks me wnt 2 bliv Chimamanda's TED talk abt feminism. She said and I quote: #BUT WHY DO WE TEACH GIRLS TO ASPIRE TO MARRIAGE AND WE DON'T TEACH BOYS THE SAME?#

The truth is keeping a lady under your care for ever, really needs a serious rethink......u know better, u know how ladies act, ladies are moved by wat dey see and feel, 4geting about the next moment to come...... And if eventually the next moment is not favorable to ha, she change totally, so keeping a lady is a serious issue for many guys

jamex93:





The truth is keeping a lady under your care for ever, really needs a serious rethink......u know better, u know how ladies act, ladies are moved by wat dey see and feel, 4geting about the next moment to come...... And if eventually the next moment is not favorable to ha, she change totally, so keeping a lady is a serious issue for many guys

If ur a well adjusted bachelor den u need 2 man up joor!! Tell me 1 single tyn in life dtz nt a srs ish? Everytyn is srs, nt 2 mention settling down.

yhusiee:

If ur a well adjusted bachelor den u need 2 man up joor!! Tell me 1 single tyn in life dtz nt a srs ish? Everytyn is srs, nt 2 mention settling down.

So many things are involve jor



Every body get him own

Well as for me I still have more years ahead,


I no time to dull

Plan well, and get it all fixed at the ryt time