I've been giving this thing some serious thought. and i need some advice from you guys, please.
I live abroad currently and i met this lady online in 2006. We've been calling and seeing each other since then. She's divorced with a son who is 12years old, a good kid.
Dont think i date her for money. I'm way richer than she is. what i make in a month, she doesnt even earn it in year.
we've not even slept together. i've been trying very hard to be a gentleman where she is.
I've moved to another country now but we still chat every now and then but i want to invite her over and ask her to marry me.
the thing is that she told me last night that she's scared my family will not accept her because of her age and the fact she's divorced with a kid and i'm the rich one.
i know my family will not accept her, thats why i'm kind of confused.
Please, feel free to tell me what you think

It is ok, if that is what you want.

Age is just number.U know what u want,go fo it.U are the one involved nt ur family.

if you really love her and she loves you too then go for it

If you both love eachother then go ahead. Its a wonderful thing to find someone you love. Goodluck.

If all you mention is not a problem to you,go ahead and marry her if you love her . It's your life,and your happiness comes first;i know with time your family will get over it and they'll respect your decision.

Question for you. Does it bother you?

You reside abroad, the family could at least stay out of this but there are some few questions for you.
Your family is afraid loosing you as to the white woman ,if you are not careful
Would she make you happy
Would she allow you to still become the same person your family know?
Is she ready to give you ,your own child or maybe 2? You mama also wan carry her Grandchild according to african tradition!
Age is not a problem,if you are okay with it.
How about marrying a home girl your family would like and it end up here,giving you problems? i don see and hear plenty
Your happiness is the most important thing, not marrying someone from your country or villa.

As for a naija guy, we like football and don't mind inviting the whole crew to watch and shout with us on any match, Is she comfortable with that?
As long as she like the smell of naija food (stockfish) and maybe eat them,men you are feel to go for her but don't let her marriage to you become a sort of criteria of choosing or living your normal naija life.

Don't forget to follow your heart and remember she must like naija culture cos if she fake am, na she go run, believe me.

According to what u said bro i must tell you the honest truth these lady loves you and age is nothing if u truely love her, Is it her that u are marring or ur family just let go of your family ok or better still am online 08063221234

na today?
urs is not the first case and it will not be the last