slowice:
One can't underestimate the benefit of getting married to a born again girl. The spiritual support she'll give her husband and family is priceless, but sometimes I kinda wonder if her very spiritual side won't end up creating less affection and make the marriage less fun(romance-less) in the long run.

Which could be part of reason why guys are not very comfortable with marrying born again girls...

Your thoughts will be very much appreciated.

Songs of Solomon

re they Nt humans? they re very romantic forget the other aspect meet them in bed after due payments on them, na you go run because all dey hv missed will be recovered on u.

**In M.I's voice** Dem sef dem be Human being oo...

Folks ve said theIr mind...not satisfied though-get me the priest!!!! I need more answers

goofyone:
On a serious note, is being romantic all about sex and sexual positions?

My xact thoughts,i thought romance was all about showing care in an innovative way that wows ur spouse ?,moreover bro i dn't tnk i ever saw romance in my bible,IT WAS NEVER RECORDED THAT JESUS ROMANCED,WILL ROMANCE OR IS PRESENTLY ROMANCING HIS CHURCH,
i stand however to be corrected...

slowice:
One can't underestimate the benefit of getting married to a born again girl. The spiritual support she'll give her husband and family is priceless, but sometimes I kinda wonder if her very spiritual side won't end up creating less affection and make the marriage less fun(romance-less) in the long run.

Which could be part of reason why guys are not very comfortable with marrying born again girls...

Your thoughts will be very much appreciated.

Op na those born twice babe the bleep pass ooo go figure Jare

Yes naah y nt

kilokeys:
hmm

we don see many fanatics forming innocent born pikin come get belle by mistake born again

Bro u no lie one issue like Dis just happened recently for my hood everybody dey surprised... no sure game

paulolee:
from my own point of view, i tink d reasons why Peps avoid dem is bcoz deY ar sinners n deY wud consider d born again gal too holy for dem to date or marry maybe bcoz deY ar scared of d thier guilty conscience...
some wud say d born again gals ar too boring wt dier way of life, character, chats n even d waY deY dress..
one of my old ex girlfriend bk den in skul visited mi last month after wi exchanged contact,
was very disappointed wen she visited wt two of her jehova witness friends...
tot it was a joke or prank n nT until deY bought out dier Bible n awake magazines n started wt dier sermons, God knows dt all deY said fell on deaf ears coz even d Bible says deY is tym for every fvckin tin

looolssss.....smh

Alphafrank:

i thought romance was all about showing care in an innovative way that wows ur spouse

This is more like what i thought too.

From the point of view....we seems to misconstru-opined who a born again is nd prayer warrior.. I must say that every Christian is a born again nd there is nothing like prayer warrior in Christianity.

Yes!!! it affects one romance life from the perspective you see it ...... Those who are spiritual will understand me...There is restrictions to what you can do in the Spirit..

Permit me to make things clearer a little here......The way a Christian live his romance life which you guys segregate to mean born again is totally different from the way a worldly person will live it.

From the World view Yes!! from Christian view No!!.

I AM born again and very romantic

achinaboy:
who is a bornagain?

COSY ORJIAKOR and Amber Rose

slowice:
One can't underestimate the benefit of getting married to a born again girl. The spiritual support she'll give her husband and family is priceless, but sometimes I kinda wonder if her very spiritual side won't end up creating less affection and make the marriage less fun(romance-less) in the long run.

Which could be part of reason why guys are not very comfortable with marrying born again girls...

Your thoughts will be very much appreciated.

how old are you exactly?
just curious.

to be honest, real born again gals can neva be romantic. i had an experience with one. to handshake u gan, na problem for dis gal. some self acclaimed born again christian r porn professional. @op, marry a normal gal & 4get about any born again xtian

nothin like born again in marriage

slowice:
One can't underestimate the benefit of getting married to a born again girl. The spiritual support she'll give her husband and family is priceless, but sometimes I kinda wonder if her very spiritual side won't end up creating less affection and make the marriage less fun(romance-less) in the long run.

Which could be part of reason why guys are not very comfortable with marrying born again girls...

Your thoughts will be very much appreciated.

Born again my a*ss. Religion is a hoax.

Born again tag is only for d spiritual realm. Romance and passion is on another level. U will be surprised what these so called born again women (and men) get up to beneath d sheets. Even d most renowned pastors.
Don't let their looks fool ya!
My humble submission

Firefire:
Elucidate

To emancipate

slowice:

How market?

Na your hand e day o. Safety vest when I don buy to sell i come discover say nna men Dem don change their names from chinwendu to Wendy
Obinna to Bin
Chimobi to mobi
Tobenna to tobi
Adaora to adeola
Afamefuna to Funa
Ndidi to didi
Amaka to Amy
Ngozi to zizi


Market don tire me I no no where I won carry am go again

Alphafrank:

My xact thoughts,i thought romance was all about showing care in an innovative way that wows ur spouse ?,moreover bro i dn't tnk i ever saw romance in my bible,IT WAS NEVER RECORDED THAT JESUS ROMANCED,WILL ROMANCE OR IS PRESENTLY ROMANCING HIS CHURCH,
i stand however to be corrected...

It's not everything Jesus did that was recorded in d bible......John 20:30
My humble submission

Let me share this...
Our sisters need it..

What about a pat in the back, a squeeze in the hand, a warm, warm hug, a kiss on the forehead, a stroke on her hair? I cannot get over my amusement at preferred postures of prospective ‘couples’ I know. They’ve been announced to the church as about to marry, the brother and sister sit across each other after church service, with such wide space in-between! Oh, could be the church premise restriction!
Delani, a young married man – is not your regular ‘divine brother’. He’s been there, done that and sees life as one huge party! Married for about four years, with a son and awaiting another, he still calls his wife some intriguing names. I must have heard a lot but these ones stuck- Pepperoni, Sweet Yummie, Babe mi, Omoge, My One Billion, Lovey Dovey. I imagine some people already squinting in irritation; ‘na your own be that’! This guy makes a wonder out of his wife!!! I could forgive a man for being overly dramatic in his display of affection to his beau, but I can’t help but seethe in anger at chaps who are too proud, dull or primitive to adorn their women in the robes of noble admiration. Have you heard pet names like ‘Mummy, Iya yi, Madam, Sister Nneka, or Our wife?
I understand that Christian ladies are belaboured by the inclination of their men to make prophetic declarations into their lives, using Bible quotes. So they earn names like ‘Beulah, Hephzibah, Delightsome, My Crown, Righteous Jewel, Pure Diadem…etc. Yes Lord!!! What can we say to these things?
Have you ever seen a picture of a ‘sister’ and a ‘brother’? Particularly the ones they take in the studio? You haven’t? One glance at the shot and many things jump at you. You see bridled dreams, confused expectations, unspoken desires and many invisible boundary lines. His hand is resting uneasily on her shoulder; he tries to lean a bit forward with a nervous grin, the other hand behind his back and he has secrets in his eyes. And then, you have sister Florence, sitting to the edge of the high stool with a shy smile, waiting for the future!
I don’t have all the answers to making a woman happy, but to make her heart sing, you’ve got to bring some zest to the table. A woman thinks a lot about the guy who makes her laugh hard, she grows fond of he who sings her favourite love song and dedicates it to her. She wants to smell your perfume in her blouse, remember the sound of your heartbeat when you said all will be fine and she’d like to be surprised by new things almost every time..
O yes – let godly ladies choose to build a future with men who love God and understand the covenant. At least, no one wants to be a daughter-in-law to the Devil. But we look forward to a new day without the traumas of men unschooled in the affairs of the heart.
We like it when you love Jesus yet get us rocking!!!
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Debola Deji-Kurunmi
President, Deborah Initiative for Women.

slowice:
Folks ve said theIr mind...not satisfied though-get me the priest!!!! I need more answers

You don't need a Priest to be convinced.

The answer is YES!!!

It's you that do not know God nor His word. A born again whether male or female (in marriage) has two duties, first to God and the other to the partner. The Bible says " You do not own your body but your partner owns it and don't deny your partner for you are one flesh.
Any born again dat is neglecting his/her marital duties because of spirituality is living in error and disobedience to God which is capable of destroying the marriage and God does not like separation. Read Ephesians 5:21-25
To be born again is nothing else but living your daily life based on the word of God. To obey God is to keep His word. I am a born again, attend note vigil twice weekly and I appreciate the romantic and sexual aspect of my marriage. I have never turned my wife down, we are romantic, enjoy it together yet we don't joke with God or His service. It is the BEST sexual relationship I have ever had and I intend to keep and maintain it for life. You will not understand when I say that" your sexual life helps your
spiritual life" -BALANCING.
YOU NEED TO BE BORN AGAIN.

you can't eat ur cake and have it.

achinaboy:
who is a bornagain?

born again do not exist in Christianity.
there was no Christianity on earth when Jesus met Nicodemus.

the desire to be romantic is embedded in everyone and should be expressed freely

slowice:
One can't underestimate the benefit of getting married to a born again girl. The spiritual support she'll give her husband and family is priceless, but sometimes I kinda wonder if her very spiritual side won't end up creating less affection and make the marriage less fun(romance-less) in the long run.

Which could be part of reason why guys are not very comfortable with marrying born again girls...

Your thoughts will be very much appreciated.

Wonderful question. The answer is so simple. Yes she will be more romantic than you can imagine because the bible has taught her ;
That her body belongs to her husband
That adultery is sin hence it's you and her all the way
That at no time should she refuse you (her husband). Even when she is waiting on the Lord, it must be an agreement between you two.
That you are her head and king just like Christ is the head of the church
Being married to a born again is a wonderful experience but you should help her by not being a disappointment in bed so as not to frustrate her.
It can equally be rewarding for the Bible says " an unbelieving husband is sanctified by a believing wife and the children thereof are blessed"
Summarily, getting married to a born again Christian is gainful all the way.

Yes you can still be romantic and freaky only to your husband unless you will born against

Sure, "practice makes perfect", so when they eventually get married and start practising, they will definitely get perfect. Every one was a novice at a certain time so I would advise that "Never say Never".

garriboy:

They are never romantic o, even wen they try to be u will notice dat they are trying so hard and it doesn't eva sound real. This is not becos being romantic is sinful but becos they reserve romance for only their husband, hence they don't get to date till their ready for marriage, therefore no prior romatic experience. And u knw wat they say abt practice makes perfect right?

SlimBrawnie:
Proudly born again and so romantic;only to my husband sha.... The guy go enjoy me wella. Spirituality shouldn't act as an impediment to your love life.

Born. Again indeed

Bros please check out the songs of solomon, e dey bible.

Alphafrank:

My xact thoughts,i thought romance was all about showing care in an innovative way that wows ur spouse ?,moreover bro i dn't tnk i ever saw romance in my bible,IT WAS NEVER RECORDED THAT JESUS ROMANCED,WILL ROMANCE OR IS PRESENTLY ROMANCING HIS CHURCH,
i stand however to be corrected...

RaeMystix:


This is the Internet era. ( No reference about me watching porn).

Yea you watched it and I know that. pls give me the links I want to watch some too