author=dayodare49o post=32802779]

dayodare49o:
Many innocent young and promising ladies had been raped on account of mischiefs and breach of trust that they have on the rapists. It was reported that the large amount of girls raped are underaged and were raped by trusted guidance.

Rape is illegal process and action performed by a person or group of persons which led to having canal knowledge of a woman/lady or girls against her wishes, awareness or acceptance.

Below are measures that young ladies should put in place to protect themselves from being raped

1. Treat a Man Like a Man: if you have guy around you as a friend, neighbour, uncle, nephew..don't ever forget that they are males joysticks are between their legs so, beware.

2. Change of Dressing: Don't dress in a room where only you and a guy are. No matter what, or whom the person is, try as mush as possible to make sure he lives before you change your dress or dress in mum's room.m

3. Dress Modestly: put on beautiful and neat wears but the ones that cover your body very well. Skirt that covers your kneels, top that free your body to your ankles, the attresses you see wearing spagetti don't forget many of them always have security around them.

4. Visitation of A female Friend: If you are visiting a female friend who has brother(s) don't go alone go with your younger sibling and make sure he/she does not Leave your side.

5 All Night Party: don't go all night party with friends, if these guys bring out their goons in the mid of the night there won't be a place to run to.

6. Avoid Sillence place or Road: it does not matter how long the other side is, it is better to pass through that place than a silence place. Silence places always or roads always occupy people with bad intentions.

7. Avoid Walking in Darkness: No matter what happens avoid to walk in darkness, make sure if the situations warrant it calls s trusted famy who can pick you up from where you are.

8. Night Dress: when sleeping in the night make sure you wear tight and a small top at least. Especially if you are a type that sleeps openly.

9. Male Friends: don't be caught up in a room with male friends. If your female girls are going out of the room make sure you are not left behind.

10. Your Gadgets: make sure your phone or related gadgets are always with you and program some special dialing features on it like One key is your dad's number.

11. Incoming Visitor: if unexpected visitor is visiting your home, don't open the gate let him say whatever he wants before you open it. No matter who the person is don't open until you are very sure of the person .

12. Friend Visitation: don't allow a male friend to visit you when your parents other members of the family are not at home.

Part 2 coming soon

Lala247:
oh ok mayb i do some reading later

Ipledge:
Yea,that gives little knowledge abt em

dayodare49o:


3. Dress Modestly: put on beautiful and neat wears but the ones that cover your body very well. Skirt that covers your kneels, top that free your body to your ankles, the attresses you see wearing spagetti don't forget many of them always have security around them.

ronald4lif:


I'm not totally dismissing or undermining the importance of security or taking those necessary measures that could make a woman fall victim to rape. However, what I'm saying is that a woman shouldn't have to be self conscious to be safe from rape or not fall a victim.

Most of the points you raised, as good as they are, will not stop rapists. They are psychos and will always have their way. A woman, for instance, doesn't get rape because of her mode of dressing like you suggest. Let her dress like mother Mary rapist will rape her if she's a target.

ronald4lif:


I'm not totally dismissing or undermining the importance of security or taking those necessary measures that could make a woman fall victim to rape. However, what I'm saying is that a woman shouldn't have to be self conscious to be safe from rape or not fall a victim.

Most of the points you raised, as good as they are, will not stop rapists. They are psychos and will always have their way. A woman, for instance, doesn't get rape because of her mode of dressing like you suggested. Let her dress like mother Mary rapist will rape her if she's a target.

MuhdG:


What is up with you and encouraging girls to dress stupidly?

ronald4lif:


I'm not totally dismissing or undermining the importance of security or taking those necessary measures that could make a woman fall victim to rape. However, what I'm saying is that a woman shouldn't have to be self conscious to be safe from rape or not fall a victim.

Most of the points you raised, as good as they are, will not stop rapists. They are psychos and will always have their way. A woman, for instance, doesn't get rape because of her mode of dressing like you suggested. Let her dress like mother Mary rapist will rape her if she's a target.

Justfollowit:


You forgot to mention that most rapes are perpetuated by those closest to the victims usually a family member, neighbor or friend

dayodare49o:
it is displacement of fact IG we say a woman should not be self conscious in a country where there is no security they should be
Those that were raped what did govt do about it? Many suffers silently my brother.

ronald4lif:


Same thing. Like rapists thieves are idiotss but rapists are bigger idiotss because they cause emotional, trust and psychological damage whereas thieves often are after material things and causes material damage.

And one shouldn't have to live their lives afraid or scared when thieves might struck. As for the locking doors, any thief that strike and couldn't gain access because doors were locked is not a serious thief. When they want to strike, locking of doors can't stop them. Likewise when a rapists is on a prowl.

ronald4lif:


That's it. Points like those the OP made, even though reasonable are the reasons why rapists go unpunished in Nigeria. Rather than focus on the sickos who rape someone they'll turn to the victim and heap blames on her. How was she dressing? Why did she visit the man and what's their relationship and other irrationalities. Sickening

vislabraye:



There's a lot a lady can do to prevent being raped. I wont say that it's always due to negligence but you will realise that most rape cases could have been prevented...

jobyyjob:
Well, in South Africa, just don't be a girl or you'll get raped.

Lala247:


Lol wonder y they havent started using that ...

dayodare49o:
of cause since I have joystick that works like yours. Anyone that feeds on other human beings weakness can be called a beast do if you say you a beast that is exactly what you are. But why did you call this thread stupid? It disclosed the beast inside you? Oh am sorry brother just want to help someone from beast you.

oloyolo:



Op I wish I had ur time
But av gat some were to be

And I don't argue with illogical thinking people
U ar not on ma plane of reasoning
Go look for ur likes
*peace*

Mojanity:
This is sick instead of teaching young guys not to rape you're teaching how to avoid rape.

dayodare49o:
Now use you brain to teach guys to stop raping you.

Mojanity:
when did you rape me?

ronald4lif:


Well, I understand better where you're coming from now. It's because the government and laws don't protect victims of rape that's what propelled you to come up with this. Good and fine.

I'll love to see the part two, if possible, to focus on rapists not the innocent victims of rape. How can the government help these psychos and protect women from them.

To deal with an epidemic, the focus should be on the predator, not the prey, in this case rape victims. Cheers.

dayodare49o:
Maybe when drank and slept off.

Mojanity:
i can see that you are a professional rapist