Redoil:
I belong to number 2 and i have always thaught that i am the only person with such trait.

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I belong to number 2 and i have always thaught that i am the only person with such trait.

Nneka123:
None of the above


I rather make my own man

ednut1:
d possessive ones are the worst cheats. u neva see anytin

firstEVA:
THE POSESSIVE GUYS.
These type of guys will call you about 10 times a day. He wants to know where you are, what you're doing, what's happening around you etc. If he calls and you don't pick, wahala. He will keep calling as if his life depends on it. I don't know if it's too much love, but this type can choke an average girl. The advantage of having such a guy is the feeling of being overly loved. Every one around will see that he is "madly" in love with you. It gives a kind of feeling of joy that your man is acting like you used jazz on him
Secondly, they are the fateful type. Such a guy will hardly cheat on his girl and very importantly, his husband material can sew you a wedding gown, so yes, he's good for a hubby, but be ready for a cry baby husband. For the disadvantages, the day you decide to end the relationship for whatever reason, you may be in trouble. These type of guys are the ones that will go into depression for weeks and maybe months, he may attempt suicide . He may decide to find a way to deal with you for leaving him, so they can be dangerous.

THE I-DON'T-SEND GUYS.
These type of guys hardly call to check on you, you need to flash them to call you or you do the calling, if atal they call, it would be at night or early in the morning, it may not just be because they are busy, they don't just see the use. They have this preconceived notion that when you call a girl too much, it gets into their head. The disadvantages of dating such guys out weighs the advantages. The advantage is you have some breathing space, you may be able to mingle without too much headache. But the disadvantage is, such a guy can never be trusted, he has very high tendency to lie and cheat. He may act like he doesn't really care about what you're doing but truth is he does. Something trivial can make him end the relationship. He has this I don't take nonsense approach to life. When you decide to leave him, he may not react as badly as the possessive guy, he will move on fast.

Until such a guy formally proposes, you will be making the greatest mistake of you life to assume he will marry you. These are the type of guys that will date a girl for 9 years and marry another (tufaikwa). A lot of them have incurred curses upon their heads for the way they've treated their girls.

Ladies, which do you prefer? Gentlemen, where do you belong?

henryblaze25:
OP what about guys that call twice a day, in d morning to know what's up with u and ur plans 4 d day then in d evening checking on u to know how ur day went and chat up 4 few mins.

ayokellany:
Well i was in a relationship for about 7 years with a girl i helped into university, waited patiently after i graduated till she also graduate to pop the big question n got the shocker of my life. I am a workaholic and do not see why i should call repeatedly but if a girl is really worth it, a max of 3 calls daily should nail it. This days i care less about if i girl would f-up or not i just do my own thing. Living my life one step at a time. If you want to stay you stay if you chose to go God bless you the more.

Redoil:
I belong to number 2 and i have always thaught that i am the only person with such trait.