Garrirevenge:
Because they just a complicated being even to themselves. Just a little issue that guys will laugh over can cause a war between ladies.

Herzumpther:
Op you are correct.

I've been a victim of such before and I swear I still don't get it all.I be like mumu for the whole matter. I tired to make amends even for what I didn't know much about but all effort proved proved negative. It affected me so much that.....chai.... No matter how I explain able't think I will be able to say it like I want to but it was not easy for me. We wey no get mind for wahàla.

I use to care but now no more.I no even dey see anybody. I don park well and face my life. Guys rock I tell you.

Hila12:



The matter tire everybody I swear lol

Herzumpther:
The thing pain me eh. I con be like wan wan kolo. I was wondering.... If at all I committed that much don't I deserve forgiveness and a second Chance? Who is perfect?

Honestly I can't do female BFF again because I don't have the strength

Well maybe because we are different. I get angry o, no matter what it is I go vex for that first 5 minutes and e go end. I don't have space in my heart to store enemies and fight but like I said, that's me and people are different.

Hila12:


Fair enough, but guys are different too yet they make friendships work...why can't the ladies?

Herzumpther:
That's what I don't know. I have this friend I met in my 100 level days, we fought and all and still fight till today but she didn't leave me. With all my flaws she stayed with me even after knowing who I really am. I'm proud of her. She iz all I've got for now till I make new friends....Guys hopefully.

Hila12:


Your last statement sounds like you'll be dumping her soon lol (same thing the topic is all about).

rokiatu:
Man this is so true....I think many times your BFF is just an enemy in disguise. Women can pretend enh. Your biggest enemy is your bf most times.

Yasher:
The thing is, a lot of them don't have their own identity(so they can't feel comfortable under their own skin) that's why they always feel threatened by every other girl.

ronald4lif:
Why won't they when they live a pretense life. When you see them laughing and joking among themselves you'll think it's from their heart. They will start talking all kinds of crap about the person moment later, that you thought was their bestie.

Has anyone noticed that girls hardly want their girlfriends meet their man of late? And when they eventually do they will keep close distance to him at all times thinking the friend might outsmart them by collecting the guys digit.

Tell me about real friends who can't trust each other, living a complicated life with so much hate and envy.

Hila12:


Spot on Ronald! Very true.

Seemingly so, the married ones are hardly in good terms with their mother-in-laws, and sister-in-laws too.

Pathetic!

ronald4lif:


No, it doesn't extend to that level. Mother-and sister in-laws have been come like a family, it's not a family thing but that of friends.

This hate and envious attitude is usually the case to their perceived contemporaries. Like she act like she's more beautiful than her, or that her ass or boobs are more firm than hers, or that she's got a richer boyfriend etc. They envy each other for trivial reasons. Very complicated sets of people.

ronald4lif:


No, it doesn't extend to that level. Mother-and sister in-laws have been come like a family, it's not a family thing but that of friends.

This hate and envious attitude is usually the case to their perceived contemporaries. Like she act like she's more beautiful than her, or that her ass or boobs are more firm than hers, or that she's got a richer boyfriend etc. They envy each other for trivial reasons. Very complicated sets of people. One will never understand women.