“Am a girl aged 22 turning 23 next month. I’ve been dating this guy for over 9yrs, our relationship is an on and off thing. He left me to date other girls like twice. He dated the 1st one for about a year, in that year he would tell me he is not seeing her any more so we would get back then I’ll later find out that they are still together and yeah, we would break up again, then they eventually they broke up and we got back and we were happy.

He promised he will never repeat what he did but he did it again because we had some misunderstanding because of his insecurities that gets him upset every time I don’t pick up his call or when I go out with my friend, so that led to us breaking up. He started dating another girl and we had been on and off with him because he was still with this other girl and was lying to me, I called the girl and asked how long they’ve been together and she told me they’ve been together for almost 3years that it’s been an on and off thing for them as well.

So it’s like he would go to her when he argues with me and vice versa but now he says he’s changed and has made up his mind he wants to be with me. I’ve confirmed that they are officially done with the other girl, he seems serious this time, but am scared it just might be one of his old habits or maybe he is realized that he really loves me because he dumped the other girl for no reason and I asked him why he did that he told me that he did that because he realized that he can’t do without me…

Should I take him back and give him another chance? Am so confused please help me ASAP before I make a mistake”

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Once bitten, twice shy, thrice...what?

He is playing with your emotions girl. And even if he claims he is serious with u now and the relationship leads to marriage, whenever u two have issues, how sure are u that he wouldn't repeat the same mistake of seeking solace outside in the arms of another woman, probably an old flame...

Love aint meant to be this way Let him go.

He must be a good footballer.
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If a persons fails you once shame to him but if twice then shame on you.

Twaci:
Once bitten, twice shy, thrice...what?

He is playing with your emotions girl. And even if he claims he is serious with u now and the relationship leads to marriage, whenever u two have issues, how sure are u that he wouldn't repeat the same mistake of seeking solace outside in the arms of another woman, probably an old flame...

Love aint meant to be this way Let him go.

lov makes us do stewpid tins.. Dats why its love..

Ladies are just so easy to deal with when it get to love but when money get involves na #die ooo

Cutehector:
lov makes us do stewpid tins.. Dats why its love..

That's true. That's why I love with ma head not heart.

agarawu23:
you are 22 and u av dated him for 9years


22-9 =13

I have no advice for u

Yeeeee! U mean that young lady upstairs start dating right from 13......meeen!

eem op...d guy isnt serious nd doesnt knw wat he wants...I advice u move on..

Holatunde007:

Yeeeee! U mean that young lady upstairs start dating right from 13......meeen!

yes na. child abuse relationship

Twaci:
That's true. That's why I love with ma head not heart.

I tot u love wit both

iz he a fan of Chris Brown

Chaii! Who go help me tell dis babe say na wash

Cutehector:
I tot u love wit both

Continue with him jare..the devil u knw is......




But Op, u've been dating since 13yrs, u should av garnered experience nau.





U dey 1 class since 9yrs, u no pass, u no fail...ur brain need to be sundried

Any woman built and willing to accept these inconsistency in a relationship needs no advise at all.



It's a crazy world I tell yah.

agarawu23:
you are 22 and u av dated him for 9years


22-9 =13

I have no advice for u

u get sense joor.

Old habits die hard.

Princecalm:
He must be a good footballer.
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If a persons fails you once shame to him but if twice then shame on you.

hmmm... When I was young, that quote used to be "If a person fools you once..."

How things change.

Jeez!!!!!!
From my calculation u have never been dating him since u were 13 years .That guy seems to Be a paedophile, anyways,a leopard cannot change its spot cos its pretty obvious that the dude is just playing with ur emotions.

Oahray:
hmmm... When I was young, that quote used to be "If a person fools you once..."

How things change.

re-branding things.

agarawu23:
you are 22 and u av dated him for 9years


22-9 =13

I have no advice for u

hahahahahahaha

Vikky014:
hahahahahahaha

na so

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Ur lacking brain

agarawu23:
you are 22 and u av dated him for 9years


22-9 =13

I have no advice for u

Lmao

Twaci:
That's true. That's why I love with ma head not heart.

Den it isn't lv

Lisaflex:

Lmao

d Tory tire me o

You've been dating one guy for 9 years Na you suppose dey give advice to some married people sef...