Greetings highly esteemed Romancelanders.I would really appreciate a sincere answer concerning an issue of the heart that is presently bugging me.
There is this lady that I have known for almost a year now.I have been calling her once in a while and chatting with her also.I realized I liked her a lot and wanted to be with her.I have been sort of priming her mind about it for some weeks now.I finally took her to a place for drinks and I told her I wasnt gonna beat about the bush and thatshe probably knew my intention already and asked that we start a relationship.She said she wasnt going to give me an answer immediately.I said ok and we continued gisting about some other things.This morning I called her and asked her if she considered my proposal and if she has reached a decision?She said she hasnt made up her mind yet and hasnt been thinking about it.Fellow ramancelanders...do I still have a shot with this lady or I should just move on?Any need to ask her for a response again?I feel having asked formally 2 days ago if she is really interested she would have reached a decision by now.Should I still call her and be friendly?I sent her a text this morning it was like a poem and to wish her a happy new month.she didnt reply but when I called her just to ask what her respomse was about me asking her out she quickly added that she saw my text but hasnt had time to reply cause she was busy with house chores.
So dear friends..please opionins and comments are welcome..Please Lets be sincere and civil...thanks

Give her time, if u think shes worth it, cos she hasnt raised any red flag for u 2quit. Dont pressurize her.

VanLucius:
Greetings highly esteemed Romancelanders.I would really appreciate a sincere answer concerning an issue of the heart that is presently bugging me.
There is this lady that I have known for almost a year now.I have been calling her once in a while and chatting with her also.I realized I liked her a lot and wanted to be with her.I have been sort of priming her mind about it for some weeks now.I finally took her to a place for drinks and I told her I wasnt gonna beat about the bush and thatshe probably knew my intention already and asked that we start a relationship.She said she wasnt going to give me an answer immediately.I said ok and we continued gisting about some other things.This morning I called her and asked her if she considered my proposal and if she has reached a decision?She said she hasnt made up her mind yet and hasnt been thinking about it.Fellow ramancelanders...do I still have a shot with this lady or I should just move on?Any need to ask her for a response again?I feel having asked formally 2 days ago if she is really interested she would have reached a decision by now.Should I still call her and be friendly?I sent her a text this morning it was like a poem and to wish her a happy new month.she didnt reply but when I called her just to ask what her respomse was about me asking her out she quickly added that she saw my text but hasnt had time to reply cause she was busy with house chores.
So dear friends..please opionins and comments are welcome..Please Lets be sincere and civil...thanks

It's too early to move on since you only made it formal two days ago.
Give her time.... Most Ladies love to play hard to get even if they're head over heels for you

a patient dog eats the fattest bone

Dude you've know this girls for a whole year, so she already know if she is going to date you or not, even before you asked, haven said that, i think you should give her sometime, but don't forget to call and text her regularly to know how she is doing even if she doesn't call back or reply don't be discouraged. With time she will come around.

Depends on what you want from her, a serious relationship or just a bleep budy? If its just bleep give her a week and then move the fqxk on to the next prey hoping for an easier kill.

dulux07:
Give her time, if u think shes worth it, cos she hasnt raised any red flag for u 2quit. Dont pressurize her.

I like her a lot so I think she is worth the trouble.

DebbieISP:

It's too early to move on since you only made it formal two days ago.
Give her time.... Most Ladies love to play hard to get even if they're head over heels for you

you do have a point.

zadok60:
a patient dog eats the fattest bone

ok..thanks bro

zadok60:
a patient dog eats the fattest bone

ok..thanks bro

write2obi:
Dude you've know this girls for a whole year, so she already know if she is going to date you or not, even before you asked, haven said that, i think you should give her sometime, but don't forget to call and text her regularly to know how she is doing even if she doesn't call back or reply don't be discouraged. With time she will come around.

Thanks for the words of encouragement

izuch:
Depends on what you want from her, a serious relationship or just a bleep budy? If its just bleep give her a week and then move the fqxk on to the next prey hoping for an easier kill.

i want a serious relationship with her.Not a hit and run kinda thing.

IamOdin:
bros,move on..she don't want to break ur heart,that's why she've been silent..

is it a rule that every girl will say yes at the point u ask them for a relationship

zadok60:
a patient dog eats the fattest bone

lol is all i feel like typing

bro give her time now... just continue calling her,ask about her day and other stuffs like that but don't drool after her just do your thing' after some days or a week ask her about the koko on ground,if by then she still talk say she dey think guy move on to the next on the list.... no time better catch ahead...

Burnnotice:
lol is all i feel like typing

that is just the truth..