hello please i would like to ask could this be true or not,  can someone tells you he/she does have feeling for you but both of you are kind of intimate when i mean intimate not that closed to Sex, but closed to almost everything about her,and somewhat you guys cuddle when ever you guys are alone to an extent of kissing each other but you overheard from her friend that she said she doesn't have feeling for ya. and note she is your girlfriend

Can this be true ?

Ask her. If she admits to not having feelings for you, then, well, I don' know. Just ask!

Just shut up and enjoy it whilst it lasts

Seun:

Ask her. If she admits to not having feelings for you, then, well, I don' know. Just ask!

Again I'll go with Seun on this one.Why not just ask her?
It's obviously either of 2 things here:
1. Your worst fears're confirmed.U're just a transient thrill for her.An interlude.Somethn to excite her(a Love Machine of sorts[sorry] )till the alpha male comes along
2. Her so-called "friend" is envious of what Ur girlfriend has(U!) and is just hating. What makes U think U can take her word to the bank?
Whatever the case,treat Ur girl with respect cos there sure was something 'bout her that attracted U to her in the first place.

yeah, ask her come back here and tell us for your next move

awwwwwwww. thanks seun i can see u have change my subject for this post we yarned and all i could gather was that she is kinda scared to commit all her heart, due to the way we guys do behave she said she has learnt alotta from her hommies how guys treat them well i treat her well but the point is that a friend of hers got pregnated by a guy and the guy ran and she is kinda afraid that somewhat i might do same and run away but i try to tell her that guys ain't same something like that

What else should i do now she said she got feelings

bery true, ujust dey use u exercis her body and satisfy her urges.

Hi

Some gals just like sex, no harm done ladies but might not have feelings as long as they have their regular dose of it.

But as they say "Good sex leads to love" sit tight

smartsoft, you know that you are the kind of guy she is afraid of, right?

Tell her that if she doesn't want to be "pregnated" she can just insist on a condom or avoid sex.

smartsoft, i dnt think u shld count on it dat shes really got feelins 4 u, only just after u guyz talked. she cld be d cunning kind who is only lookin for some physical stuff and nothing more. on the other hand, she cld be an over-cautious girl and wants to be careful wit relationships so nobody messes her around. i advise u to leave things d way dey r and as raymand sed, enjoy urself while this lasts. dont go disturbin her again and again whether she really has feelins for u or not. besides, if u keep on bein trustworthy, u'l know later on whether her feelins for u r genuine.

yes it is very possible tha tshe migh tnot have feelings for u, sorry bro

are u rich or very well to do? does she depend on you for something? these are some of the reasons that can make her be with you without being interested in you. by and large, i think her friend that told you was probably telling the truth. dont confront her, she will only lie to you. simply test her to see if it is true.

@Poster,
Ever Heard Of Friendship with ''Benefits''?

enjoy d intimacy while it lasts home boi!

about three years after, how far with una relationship?

All u have 2 know is dat, there is nothing hidden under the sun. If she has no feelings for u and pretends she has, all u need to do is to exercise some patience one day the whole truth will show up. Or who knows; ur girlfriend's friend might be telling lies or saying the truth. Or ur girlfriend might have lied to her either pretended she feels nothing for u while she has a deep and strong feelings for u. So my brother be wise and take it easy wit her. Thanks

i saw this article, I think it applies to all question on commitment:
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yeah it does exist

it happens guy. and im talking out of experience.