JustGood:

It's obvious you married him to get papers and to help yourself achieve something in your life. Good ambition but the wrong way to achieve it.

If you have got your papers, better to tell him the truth. If he wants to leave you, you will have your papers and you can live without your conscience pricking you every night.

JustGood:

Your first post says it all. The man who would come into your life was for helping you. . .isn't that what your first post implies?

Ok. congratulations on your French citizenship. If you love him so much and he also loves you, why cant you tell him the truth?

What the mess troe, you killed my querrelling spirit. All the same I think you are the biggest idiot that has ever landed on this forum. All you do is go around molesting poor posters. have you ever wondered why they have no other choice than to seek help from strangers? For goodness sake, be sensible for once. How old are you? 23? Already a lady and yet so stupid.

ahahaha and how does that affect my life
oloshi omo
Stupidity is a disease ohhhhh, so i no blame
if a forum wasn't created, wouldn't she find another alternative to resolve her personal issues, or what are family for.
lol fish brain i no blame u

na so you people dey display ur dirty laundry 4 public

tRoOE:

ahahaha and how does that affect my life
oloshi omo
Stupidity is a disease ohhhhh, so i no blame
if a forum wasn't created, wouldn't she find another alternative to resolve her personal issues, or what are family for.
lol fish brain i no blame u

na so you people dey display ur dirty laundry 4 public

So u still dey talk? shame no dey catch u self, i think say u don go Canada to go marry for paper oo!!

the guy no Insult u reach, u be complete amebo, main reading ur replies, it tells who u are. Una think say na all Nigeria girls dey marry oyibo for paper yeye fowl.

I am not a racist, be it 9ja man or white , what IS important in my life is the fact that we love and care for each other, for ur information, I am A Nigerian by origin and a French citizen also.

So does it look like i give a rattling ass, or how does it affect me

I will not leave my hubby for a Niger man like most girls do all because of i must marry a nigerian man or else, heaven go come down)

I no even get ur time, thank God say pople wen know u here know how to handle u welwel

tRoOE:

Abeg go hide ur face, yeye woman
ahahah poor you, sorry i don't roll that way
Speak for yourself
So does it look like i give a rattling ass, or how does it affect me
whateva rock ur boat
what a fool, so why did you quote me in the 1st place!!!Oloshi
ahahah mumu, u and ur stupid buddies don't know a thing about me

tRoOE:

Abeg go hide ur face, yeye woman
ahahah poor you, sorry i don't roll that way
Speak for yourself
So does it look like i give a rattling ass, or how does it affect me
whateva rock ur boat
what a fool, so why did you quote me in the 1st place!!!Oloshi
ahahah mumu, u and ur stupid buddies don't know a thing about me

Treetop20:

did you tell him?

plappville:

I will tell him, just putting it in prayer first.

davidylan:

which "prayer"? you've been living a marriage of deciet and lies for so long and you claim to be praying? Just who is answering that "prayer"?

davidylan:

which "prayer"? you've been living a marriage of deciet and lies for so long and you claim to be praying? Just who is answering that "prayer"?

Fhemmmy:

hahahahahahaha, that is a good one.
Soon, she will be blaming the devil, na devil made her lied.

plappville:

u are not God, his ways are not our ways, niether his thoughts are our thoughts so u can say what u like with ur mouth.

davidylan:

Frankly you're just living in denial. I am not God but from the little i know in the bible He doesnt tolerate lies and deciet. Repent first, pray later.

plappville:

say it out loud that u have never lied in ur entire life, every1 make mistakes, what is important is when we realise our mistake and correct it, if u know the bible u will know that, i ve asked God to forgive me, he has, now i have to asked my hubby, and i know he will forgive me too.

plappville:

u are not God, his ways are not our ways, niether his thoughts are our thoughts so u can say what u like with ur mouth.
Say what u know, even if u cretizise me, i don't care, if i know the devil as u said, i wont want to tell my husband, God forgives sin, i did not kill anyone, it sounds like some1 is dead to u.

plappville:

say it out loud that u have never lied in ur entire life, every1 make mistakes, what is important is when we realise our mistake and correct it, if u know the bible u will know that, i ve asked God to forgive me, he has, now i have to asked my hubby, and i know he will forgive me too.

Fhemmmy:

have u ever heard of what they said, a lie could take time, but the truth will come out one day, and i pray that when it does, the land will be big enuf to cover you, cos what you have done was total nonesense, how would you feel, if it was you that he lied to like that, if you could do such to someone you said you love and marry, then, you can kill.

God do forgives, however, such lie was not necessary, tell him the truth and give him the choice to decide what he wanna do.

plappville:

Sorry oo, i am not a killer, i am not scared of him leaving me, i just feel petty or myself that he might loss trust in me, i know him well.

davidylan:

God does not condone lies told intentionally meant to decieve and hoodwink someone else. You did not make a mistake like femmy said, you deliberately betrayed your husband, if i were in his shoes i wont take it lightly. For how long have you been refering to your own brothers and sisters as cousins? What if he just made a "mistake" to forget to tell you he had other children by another woman?

plappville:

Thank God u are not in his shoes, God will handle the situation i believe, stop making me feel heaven will come down the day i will tell him.

plappville:

Thank God u are not in his shoes, God will handle the situation i believe, stop making me feel heaven will come down the day i will tell him.

plappville:

Sorry oo, i am not a killer, i am not scared of him leaving me, i just feel petty or myself that he might loss trust in me, i know him well.

Fhemmmy:

I am glad to know u dont mind if he leaves, but the question is do you trust yourself at the moment? cos for someone to trust you, u need to trust yourself.

plappville:

Sorry i mean to say that i am not scared becos i know he won't leave me for this, i was rushing up cos by battery will soon go off that was why this mistake came up. so beinformed that nothing like home break will occure, only sad if he doesn't trust me as he used to.

plappville:

whatever it may be i still put everything in Gods hands, i believe he will help me out, and things will go well on that faithful day. Thank u all for ur contribution good night bye.

Fhemmmy:

If you were in his shoes, will u still trust him like u used to? be honest.