1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise, the home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home-placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers lack wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and cosiest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition, it simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de-facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire, if you destroy your home, soon you will become the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wide makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. once he gets that feeling the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to where ever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. but soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shapes, dressing etc, within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. her defence is that if he truly loves her he should love her the way she is. but when looking for a wife, he saw the present you and ignored them and settled for the former you, today you go to bed smelling of onions....you go to bed wearing grandmother's clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? love is not about looks, we know but looks enhances luv and marriage. There is difference btw someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't b complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like the real you when he began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, feeling sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever "not in the mood", you are a joker and a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly becomes more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as a woman only you needs to be pampered and fusses over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart, a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man "a useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls etc. Are you your husband's girlfriend in words and in deeds??
LASTLY, do not inform your parents of your quarrels, they didn't join you together, GOD did! go and inform him and he will sort you both out.
Thanks.