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Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 11:24am On May 11, 2015
Now I know why God insist we keep our body till marriage... Its for our own good,its to protect us


Now am here,wishing I have waited,wishing I could turn back the hands of time,hoping to get a second chance,wishing I could erase all my past relationships and sexual experiences which brings nothing but pain guilt and heartbreak


I wish I have waited,I wish someone told me to wait...that's why am here to tell you to wait...pls wait, if you wait, u will always be grateful you waited, but if you don't, you will probably regret it till you die...


Let's do the math... How many people marry their first? Just few, very few..

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The pressure to do it? Hmmm I don't know what else to say,but one thing is for sure,if you wait you will understand me in future and if you don't wait you will understand me even more as you will be in my shoes or worse....
WAIT!!!!
Yours forever
Jay.

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by Nobody: 11:29am On May 11, 2015
Seconded

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by obiak4(m): 12:12pm On May 11, 2015
IS THIS POETRY SECTION BEST POEM SO FAR
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by sweetjulie(f): 1:41pm On May 11, 2015
Hmmmm... Every non virgin girl secretly wish they waited... Nice one namesake

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by achinaboy(m): 1:58pm On May 11, 2015
single virgins would want to wait,but not when their crush,decided to give them a chance,and its not easy to listen to any advice at that age,,but I my own opinion,there is always a regret whereby at 30,u are still single,and no sign of serious husband material
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by An2elect2(f): 2:05pm On May 11, 2015
I don't care what any one sees me as. Am a new creature in Christ. Old things gone!!! passed away!!! everything is new now.

Okay if you are a virgin, please wait but seek God first!!! cos your virginity is worthless when it comes to acceptance before God. smiley

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 3:24pm On May 11, 2015
An2elect2:
I don't care what any one sees me as. Am a new creature in Christ. Old things gone!!! passed away!!! everything is new now.

Okay if you are a virgin, please wait but seek God first!!! cos your virginity is worthless when it comes to acceptance before God. smiley

I don't know why the too much hype on virginity... Virgin or no virgin, changes nothing to the value of a woman.. woman is woman.... Buh na so u come deh preach for virginity thread sowink

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 3:49pm On May 11, 2015
Indeed its true... Am a new creature in christ too but the regret is still comes once in a while... Trust me when I say this, Its better to wait.

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 3:52pm On May 11, 2015
johnydon22:


I don't know why the too much hype on virginity... Virgin or no virgin, changes nothing to the value of a woman.. woman is woman.... Buh na so u come deh preach for virginity thread sowink
. Its easy to say cos you are a guy... Tell that to a 30yrs old lady with no serious guy, all wanting to sleep with her... Tell that to guys who won't marry a lady with several body count...
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 3:58pm On May 11, 2015
brownjulie:
. Its easy to say cos you are a guy... Tell that to a 30yrs old lady with no serious guy, all wanting to sleep with her... Tell that to guys who won't marry a lady with several body count...

My dear, i have a very different view of the world from most guys you will see.

I am an advocate of gender equality. women and men are equal.

if their is no virginity value tagged to a man then why tag it to a woman.
If men are free to embrace their sexuality but women are expected to hold theirs in, is that not injustice?

Women should be given as much right as a man because they are both homo sapiens.
Virginity means nothing to me... i for one can marry a renowned prostitute if i fall in love with her..

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by An2elect2(f): 4:22pm On May 11, 2015
johnydon22:


I don't know why the too much hype on virginity... Virgin or no virgin, changes nothing to the value of a woman.. woman is woman.... Buh na so u come deh preach for virginity thread sowink

LOL Marriage is honourable the bed undefiled.

The more virginity is hyped, the more abstinence from pre marital sex is encouraged, indirectly. It is all good at the end. And i agree with that.

However, that is not what makes a woman worthy or a wife material. smiley

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by An2elect2(f): 4:26pm On May 11, 2015
brownjulie:
Indeed its true... Am a new creature in christ too but the regret is still comes once in a while... Trust me when I say this, Its better to wait.

I agree with your last statement. It is indeed better to wait.
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 4:53pm On May 11, 2015
An2elect2:


LOL Marriage is honourable the bed undefiled.

The more virginity is hyped, the more abstinence from pre marital sex is encouraged, indirectly. It is all good at the end. And i agree with that.

However, that is not what makes a woman worthy or a wife material. smiley


The more virginity is hyped the more girls dig it... their is nothing like defiled bed, marriage is marriage... sex is sex as long as its great sex..

why should i even waste my time with a dummy in bed when i can get an exciting partner .. virginity can fvcking go to hell.. I marry who ever i want and who ever makes me happy n is good in bed... simple..
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by An2elect2(f): 5:05pm On May 11, 2015
johnydon22:


The more virginity is hyped the more girls dig it... their is nothing like defiled bed, marriage is marriage... sex is sex as long as its great sex..

why should i even waste my time with a dummy in bed when i can get an exciting partner .. virginity cab fvcking go to hell.. I marry who ever i want and who ever makes me happy n is good in bed... simple..

OK. Am not buying your view point cos not only is it flawed on so many levels it is not at par with the scriptures: the only authority i bow to.

"virginity cab fvcking go to hell" ?? you forgot you don't believe in hell and it doesn't exist in your book. LOL

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 5:27pm On May 11, 2015
An2elect2:


OK. Am not buying your view point cos not only is it flawed on so many levels it is not at par with the scriptures: the only authority i bow to.

"virginity cab fvcking go to hell" ?? you forgot you don't believe in hell and it doesn't exist in your book. LOL


Am sure you understand what that language means when someone says something can go to hell.. means "I dont care" are you purposely acting dumb for religious purposes .

#sighs... nairaland sef..
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by AtheistD(m): 6:35pm On May 11, 2015
An2elect2:


OK. Am not buying your view point cos not only is it flawed on so many levels it is not at par with the scriptures: the only authority i bow to.

"virginity cab fvcking go to hell" ?? you forgot you don't believe in hell and it doesn't exist in your book. LOL


Virginity is not so important. Why is there no focus on male virginity?
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 7:04pm On May 11, 2015
AtheistD:


Virginity is not so important. Why is there no focus on male virginity?
. May I ask you, did you marry the person that disvirgned you? Y give your body to someone that will end up hurting you and marry someone someone else?
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by AtheistD(m): 8:07pm On May 11, 2015
brownjulie:
. May I ask you, did you marry the person that disvirgned you? Y give your body to someone that will end up hurting you and marry someone someone else?

What if the person marries you and then still hurts you? If it has to do with being treated appropriately, virginity will not shield you from such experiences.
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 9:03pm On May 11, 2015
Well like I said earlier, the choice is us my dear virgin... Choose to wait and enjoy marital bliss and fulfillment choose NOT to wait and end up regretting for the end of ur days

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by Lanadelrey: 11:30pm On May 11, 2015
brownjulie:
Well like I said earlier, the choice is us my dear virgin... Choose to wait and enjoy marital bliss and fulfillment choose NOT to wait and end up regretting for the end of ur days
No hun, most non-virgin females don't want to be virgins. Sex is natural and healthy and fun and should be enjoyed as long as you're being safe about it. It's ok to have an opinion but dont make generalizations...
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by AtheistD(m): 9:17am On May 12, 2015
brownjulie:
Well like I said earlier, the choice is us my dear virgin... Choose to wait and enjoy marital bliss and fulfillment choose NOT to wait and end up regretting for the end of ur days

Will you marry a male virgin?
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 9:40am On May 12, 2015
Lanadelrey:

No hun, most non-virgin females don't want to be virgins. Sex is natural and healthy and fun and should be enjoyed as long as you're being safe about it. It's ok to have an opinion but dont make generalizations...
. Most? Lol, its either you are being lied to, or you are lying to me... At least 80% of non virgins wish they waited... Sexual relationships is not worth it, compare to the joy of waiting...
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 9:46am On May 12, 2015
brownjulie:
. Most? Lol, its either you are being lied to, or you are lying to me... At least 80% of non virgins wish they waited... Sexual relationships is not worth it, compare to the joy of waiting...

what exactly is the joy of waiting boring amateur sex? and you would you like to marry a male virgin?
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 9:46am On May 12, 2015
AtheistD:


Will you marry a male virgin?
. Y not? Of cos I can.. Its not my fault that the world is turning into something else... Am sure in the nearest future people will think homosexuality as they do virginity now...
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 9:50am On May 12, 2015
brownjulie:
. Y not? Of cos I can.. Its not my fault that the world is turning into something else... Am sure in the nearest future people will think homosexuality as they do virginity now...

Waiting or not waiting is a personal choice not an obligation... I dont even want to marry a vrigin, i marry who ever i fall in love with even a porn star... I think you are just adding to much value to this virginity crap..

Girl is girl, virgin or prostitute... Their values remains the same..
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 9:56am On May 12, 2015
johnydon22:


what exactly is the joy of waiting boring amateur sex? and you would you like to marry a male virgin?
if marriage to you is all about enjoying sex, then I rest my case...
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 10:00am On May 12, 2015
brownjulie:
if marriage to you is all about enjoying sex, then I rest my case...

Marriage to me is all about, good kids, good and happy home, great sex and a nice life together with my partner. . . So how does a person's virginity status affect these?

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 10:07am On May 12, 2015
johnydon22:


Marriage to me is all about, good kids, good and happy home, great sex and a nice life together with my partner. . . So how does a person's virginity status affect these?
how many ladies will you end up sleeping with at the end of the day? How many of them will you Marry? What happens to those you didn't marry?
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by johnydon22(m): 10:11am On May 12, 2015
brownjulie:
how many ladies will you end up sleeping with at the end of the day? How many of them will you Marry? What happens to those you didn't marry?

What happens to me they dont marry. Same thing that happened to me.. We had sex because we wanted to... You end up marrying someone else and i end up marrying someone else too... What is there
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by brownjulie(f): 10:16am On May 12, 2015
johnydon22:


What happens to me they dont marry. Same thing that happened to me.. We had sex because we wanted to... You end up marrying someone else and i end up marrying someone else too... What is there
so what happens when you marry someone else and at 30 they are still single and broken and remember u were there first?
Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by Lanadelrey: 10:51am On May 12, 2015
brownjulie:
. Most? Lol, its either you are being lied to, or you are lying to me... At least 80% of non virgins wish they waited... Sexual relationships is not worth it, compare to the joy of waiting...
There is no joy in sexual frustration... Look, I've gone through your posts and can sense you're very religious and I'm not, so I won't try to talk you out of what u think u know as we have contrasting views. Most ladies don't want to be virgins and most men don't want to wait till their wedding night to fvck, I'm talking about ppl in touch with the times and reality. But to each their own #buhbuhbye

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Re: Dear Virgins.... Pls Wait by dafeous(m): 3:59am On May 13, 2015
Is better to give it to the one u love or if u are confused come and give to a warri boy like me.

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