Not to sound like a prick or anything. But i need serious advice on how to break-up with my girl without her having ill-feelings. We've been dating for about 3years now. But i know i'm not going to marry her and i dont want to keep leading her on. She loves me like crazy. Please how do i do this?

Like Nike, Just do it

Bluediva, Jst do what? Well breakup is nt as easy as it sounds, Bluediva are u as hot as u sound, I would really love 2 meet you, Have yourselves a wonderful day, [color=#770077][/color]

please people give me serious advice. I need to make a decision quickly and soon.

Magadas:

Bluediva, Jst do what? Well breakup is nt as easy as it sounds, Bluediva are u as hot as u sound, I would really love 2 meet you, Have yourselves a wonderful day, [color=#770077][/color]

Well just break up !!
She won't kill him.
Yeah, i'm hot and married
U don't wanna be meeting a married woman now, do you

BlueDiva:

Well just break up !!
She won't kill him.
Yeah, i'm hot and married
U don't wanna be meeting a married woman now, do you

seriosly married or what, magadas na cool guy o

, b is not hot, just famouse, if u had are fame, you sure will be the point of reference for hot, so u don't have to be hotter than be b

and i wan join magadas say u seem hot


@poster , wear nike, better than keepin her at bay,

Well, NL guys sure know how to flatter
Well married, as in with kiddies

BlueDiva:

Like Nike, Just do it

I totally agree.

Just tell the poor girl the truth please i am begging you ! will you like it if someone leads you on like that ?

3yrs you don chop toto finish now u wan go try another one. hope the new lady is worth it?

@jacq, please if ur the one in her shoes, how will u like it to be told to you. She fit commit suicide or murder oh. Or both

I am glad that even in sin you have conscience. Brother, explain the situation to her, the pros and cons of continuing the relationship. I believe she will understand. You know, most ladies believe that when they continue to hang on , you will change your mind. I was in your situation sometime ago. After all efforts to persuade her to go, she refused. In fact, that was when her love tempo increased. I played along until my owner came.  I introduced my owner   to her and introduced her to my  owner as my ex. Even though she called me a heartless man, I felt convinced and without an iota of guilt that I was right. And that was it. Q.E.D
Anyway, this is just one of the possible solutions. I wish you the best.

thanks jamace, but i'm not sure i can do that. That was wicked oh. Didnt she pour u acid?

Anaxki,

Three years is clearly a long time. You have felt like this for quiet some time, but you chose to think that time may change and you may think differently of the situation, but the truth is you don't, and you haven't for a while now. Please don't prolong this any longer. You need to sit and talk to your girlfriend and be completely and truthfully honest with her. This will set both you and your girlfriend free, so that you both can find the right one for you. It's not as easy as it sounds, and it's not going to be for the both of you. You have spent a lengthy time together and shared memories, but to waste any more time in a relationship that's going nowhere is selfish, and judging by your comments to most of the responses from your thread, you don't seem to be a bad guy. Don't be harsh, like some of the respondents to your thread have suggested. Be really easy on her and walk away from this with dignity and being respectful to a woman you've spent a period of your life with. Good luck.

thanks jamace, but i'm not sure i can do that. That was wicked oh. Didnt she pour u acid?

She didn't. She knows I was right.

here is an easy way to break up with ur girlfriend without hurting her. get a lot of money, i mean big cash, call her up and give all of it to her, i mean pay her off. once she sees money she will happily leave u

frank3.16:

here is an easy way to break up with ur girlfriend without hurting her. get a lot of money, i mean big cash, call her up and give all of it to her, i mean pay her off. once she sees money she will happily leave u

Are u trying to sound funny or u actually meant that?

Tell her but when telling her be nice abt it,

Mk her feel those tym u two spend together were the best for u,

Just be diplomatic!

And think abt wht JJYOU said.

I hiss!!! Just tell her u're a ghost,n u died in d time of john d baptist,n since u've been alive here on earth,any girl dt goes out wit u 4 (how many yrs have u been goin out,ok 3 yrs) lik 3 n half yrs just dies mysteriously n trust me,b4 u finish d story,so don disappear,n i guarantee,u wont c her 'L' talkles her full leg near u,n she will deny u more dan 20 times outside,even more dan apostle paul did 'inshi allah' dt will b d end of d end

guy ,
just burst the babe
no long stories.
just tell her u had enuff of Vanilla and need strawberry flavour for a change.
she'd undstand
best of luck

my broda I feel you 100%, having been in such a position before, and I can say for a fact that it's a highly unenviable one to be in. Forget about all the other nonsensical posts and concentrate on the one by Vonny, which I believe is the best response so far.

Brace yourself for a possible outpouring of anger, tears, bitterness and an intense feeling of betrayal, all from her. However, DO NOT RETALIATE; simply be an emotional punching bag for her outbursts. It will help attenuate her sense of loss.

Good luck!!! (trust me you'll need it)