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New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by truthalways(m): 3:51pm On May 12, 2015
I recently noticed that our newly wedded ladies are retaining their fathers name after marriage. You hear names like Bisi Johnson-Adekunle, Evangeline Ojukwu-Chukwuma or Halima Haruna-Ciroma. Guys can you allow this and ladies why are you doing this? grin

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by yorubaboiy: 3:59pm On May 12, 2015
nibo....to ba fe je oruko baba e ko kuku duro sibe....loju temi iranu ni

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Hollamydey(f): 4:04pm On May 12, 2015
B4 nko, am still d daughter of my father. Besides am married 2 my husband nd nt sold 2 him so I still have d right 2 maintain by father's name nd dat of his, ko fa ija rara.....#my opinion

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by agarawu23(m): 4:04pm On May 12, 2015
yorubaboiy:
nibo....to ba fe je oruko baba e ko kuku duro sibe....loju temi iranu ni
iranu jatijati grin

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by agarawu23(m): 4:05pm On May 12, 2015
Hollamydey:
B4 nko, am still d daughter of my father. Besides am married 2 my husband nd nt sold 2 him so I still have d right 2 maintain by father's name nd dat of his, ko fa ija rara.....#my opinion
for sure , but your hubby name shld b first even if your dad na dangote

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by FLAWLES(f): 4:06pm On May 12, 2015
Like= DURU JOYCE OGECHI IKEABA.?

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by asumo12: 4:06pm On May 12, 2015
ABASHA ATI IRANU

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Hollamydey(f): 4:12pm On May 12, 2015
But that should nt be an issue 4 men since their name would still be included in our names
agarawu23:
for sure , but your hubby name shld b first even if your dad na dangote

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Sard(m): 4:13pm On May 12, 2015
I honestly don't think it's crazy. As long as she and her spouse agree on it, then it is fine. She should just include her husband's name, there's no need for her to completely remove her father's name.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by yorubaboiy: 4:13pm On May 12, 2015
Hollamydey:
B4 nko, am still d daughter of my father. Besides am married 2 my husband nd nt sold 2 him so I still have d right 2 maintain by father's name nd dat of his, ko fa ija rara.....#my opinion
iwo na gbo nkan to jade lenu e.......awon oyinbo gan,kosi bi baba won shey fe lowo to oruko oko ni won je....bawo wa ni ti yin se je ma.....

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by yorubaboiy: 4:15pm On May 12, 2015
Sard:
I honestly don't think it's crazy. As long as she and her spouse agree on it, then it is fine. She should just include her husband's name, there's no need for her to completely remove her father's name.
agree on kiniiiiiiiii?........nibo ni win tin shey iru e

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by agarawu23(m): 4:15pm On May 12, 2015
Hollamydey:
But that should nt be an issue 4 men since their name would still be included in our names
OK ma

nice hat though tongue
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Hollamydey(f): 4:16pm On May 12, 2015
Bi ose wu emi ni yen o, nigbati oje wipe ma fi oruko e kun oruko mi ko ye ariyanjiyan owaye. Sugbon iwa igberaga ti on be lara eyin okunrin ni o ma n je ki e lodi si iru nkan be
yorubaboiy:

iwo na gbo nkan to jade lenu e.......awon oyinbo gan,kosi bi baba won shey fe lowo to oruko oko ni won je....bawo wa ni ti yin se je ma.....

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Joeself1(m): 4:28pm On May 12, 2015
clap for them wink

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by yorubaboiy: 4:30pm On May 12, 2015
Hollamydey:
Bi ose wu emi ni yen o, nigbati oje wipe ma fi oruko e kun oruko mi ko ye ariyanjiyan owaye. Sugbon iwa igberaga ti on be lara eyin okunrin ni o ma n je ki e lodi si iru nkan be
sha ma gbadura ko ma lo fe iru mi......tori emi o nigba......nigba to ti je wipe emi lo fe ti ko de kin se baba ire...oruko mi ni ni iyawo temi gbudo je

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Sard(m): 4:39pm On May 12, 2015
yorubaboiy:
agree on kiniiiiiiiii?........nibo ni win tin shey iru e
Oga, We ain't equal. There are guys that are considerate and won't let things like this get between them and their lovers. Gbogbo wa o ri bakanna. Ko si big deal ninu e jare.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by yorubaboiy: 4:40pm On May 12, 2015
Sard:
Oga, We ain't equal. There are guys that are considerate and won't let things like this get between them and their lovers. Gbogbo wa o ri bakanna. Ko si big deal ninu e jare.
hmmm....opolo e pe....wa gbayi

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 4:42pm On May 12, 2015
I don't think that it's an issue to take husband's surname and keep maiden name. It won't change anything if you do and your marriage shouldn't suffer because of it.

Men likes to feel in power and important so they requires women to take on their name. I don't see women going around shouting "take my father's name" so why are the men shouting?

There are more important things to worry about than surname. It won't strengthen or kill your marriage. . Stupidity will!

A man told me that he left his wife because she didn't take his surname and felt she didn't love him so. People nowadays don't have a clue what marriage is and why it was created in the first place!

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by sagitarius(m): 4:47pm On May 12, 2015
If it's not agreed by both parties, then it's not right. These are some of the 'little' issues that can cause marital conflicts. If you're married, you've left your Father and Mother, then you and your spouse are now one. Stop all these modern-day trends in marriages.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 4:48pm On May 12, 2015
yorubaboiy:

sha ma gbadura ko ma lo fe iru mi......tori emi o nigba......nigba to ti je wipe emi lo fe ti ko de kin se baba ire...oruko mi ni ni iyawo temi gbudo je

Just because you give her a ring and say I do doesn't mean she has to take your surname upon marriage. There is no law in it both land and scriptural.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 4:51pm On May 12, 2015
sagitarius:
If it's not agreed by both parties, then it's not right. These are some of the 'little' issues that can cause marital conflicts. If you're married, you've left your Father and Mother, then you and your spouse are now one. Stop all these modern-day trends in marriages.

Where is it in the bible that say a woman must take the man's surname because she left her patwnt's home. There is no such thing as modern trend marriage. Marriage is marriage regardless of the season. If it is not a big deal for a woman to take the man's bame....then it shouldn't be a big deal for a man to take the woman's ,name. Simple.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by yorubaboiy: 4:51pm On May 12, 2015
MrsChima:


Just because you give her a ring and say I do doesn't mean she has to take your surname upon marriage. There is no law in it both land and scriptural.
hmmm......emi ma ti ronu yipada.....toto ni awon nkan ti ..Hollamydey so sha

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by donbenedict(m): 4:55pm On May 12, 2015
Hollamydey:
B4 nko, am still d daughter of my father. Besides am married 2 my husband nd nt sold 2 him so I still have d right 2 maintain by father's name nd dat of his, ko fa ija rara.....#my opinion
what do u tink d bride price was for? Ur bein sold sister. Deal wit it.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by donbenedict(m): 4:56pm On May 12, 2015
If I just catch my wife doin dat eh, she will tell me who paid her bride price and hw many husbands she has.. Nonsense

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 4:58pm On May 12, 2015
yorubaboiy:
hmmm......emi ma ti ronu yipada.....toto ni awon nkan ti ..Hollamydey so sha

It is okay not to believe in change but all change isn't bad or cancerous!

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 4:59pm On May 12, 2015
donbenedict:
If I just catch my wife doin dat eh, she will tell me who paid her bride price and hw many husbands she has.. Nonsense

So if she doesn't take your bride price..she doesn't have to take your surname?
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by sagitarius(m): 5:01pm On May 12, 2015
That's why I said it should be agreed by both parties madam. Why do children bear the man's name as their last name? Because He's the head of the Household (And this is biblical) The wife bears the name of the husband as his wife. If you're married, your name is changed from Miss (which ends with your Father's name) to Mrs (Which ends with ur hubby's name) as a change in status to bear that name of the Head now. Marriage is all about understanding and communication. If that will bring about problems, then the wife shouldn't insist on bearing her Father's name at the detriment of a Peaceful home.

MrsChima:


Where is it in the bible that say a woman must take the man's surname because she left her patwnt's home. There is no such thing as modern trend marriage. Marriage is marriage regardless of the season. If it is not a big deal for a woman to take the man's bame....then it shouldn't be a big deal for a man to take the woman's ,name. Simple.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by donbenedict(m): 5:01pm On May 12, 2015
MrsChima:


So if she doesn't take your bride price..she doesn't have to take your surname?
who is she? Am payn d bride price to her father as a sign of ownership..

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 5:03pm On May 12, 2015
donbenedict:
who is she? Am payn d bride price to her father as a sign of ownership..

if the father doesn't take the bride price..she doesn't have to take your surname?

How would you like to be sold like a cattle?

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 5:07pm On May 12, 2015
MrsChima:


Where is it in the bible that say a woman must take the man's surname because she left her patwnt's home. There is no such thing as modern trend marriage. Marriage is marriage regardless of the season. If it is not a big deal for a woman to take the man's bame....then it shouldn't be a big deal for a man to take the woman's ,name. Simple.
are you a feminist?

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 5:08pm On May 12, 2015
sagitarius:
That's why I said it should be agreed by both parties madam. Why do children bear the man's name as their last name? Because He's the head of the Household (And this is biblical) The wife bears the name of the husband as his wife. If you're married, your name is changed from Miss (which ends with your Father's name) to Mrs (Which ends with ur hubby's name) as a change in status to bear that name of the Head now. Marriage is all about understanding and communication. If that will bring about problems, then the wife shouldn't insist on bearing her Father's name at the detriment of a Peaceful home.


If a marriage suffer because of a surname then thar marriage is useless!

The bible says nothing about taking of a surname upon marriage....that is a man's idealogy. Jesus Christ is the head of the Christian family and you don't see men bearing the name of Christ as their surname so why expect women to do what men won't do themselves, Exactly.

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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by gloryl(f): 5:11pm On May 12, 2015
truthalways:
I recently noticed that our newly wedded ladies are retaining their fathers name after marriage. You hear names like Bisi Johnson-Adekunle, Evangeline Ojukwu-Chukwuma or Halima Haruna-Ciroma. Guys can you allow this and ladies why are you doing this? grin

well................ i haven't really given it a serious thought till i get to that bridge... undecided lipsrsealed

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