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5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by yusaze: 7:14am On May 14, 2015
Firstly, I want you to know that the list in this article doesn’t provide concise knowledge regarding you taking a woman on a first date or how she would react to you. It is essential you bear in mind that she’s probably sleeping with another man especially if you’re not providing excellent service in the bedroom. More so, these signs are mostly based on how comfortable the girl in question is with you and can not be used to judge a girl you hardly know or have been on just a few dates with.
Furthermore, if you are the jealous type (or appear to be so), chances are she won’t be comfortable with sharing her innermost secrets with you as she is not sure what your reactions would be like of you find out that she’s been with someone else. In this way, her actions can be attributed to your behaviour rather than her love for another man’s penis.
Anyways, it all depends on whether you care enough about her and the relationship. If you’re not looking for a long term relationship or you just want to score her and move on. This might sound harsh but that is the reality of the times we find ourselves in even as there are numerous options available in the pool of dating. Added with a level of acceptance of female promiscuity especially by certain feminists then you can see why it is justified to know the truth about who else she’s sleeping with.
Have it at the back of your mind that some women are manipulative and astounding liars. Sometimes they do things just to throw you off and at other times, they are caught up within themselves and those signs may give a wrong impression.

1. The Phone Is Face Down
If you find out that her phone is placed far down whenever you’re with her, she’s probably hooking up with another dude. Why do you think a lady would have her phone face down whenever she’s with you? She’s obviously hiding something and what do you think she’d want to hide from the man she’s dating? Of course it’s an instant messaging notification, text message or call from a guy she’s with.

2. She Checks, But Does Not Respond To Certain Texts
Almost all girls engage in some form of teasing on their phones with their friends. They enjoy sending messages to each other and replying instantly. Notice when you’re with her, how she smiles and responds to her girlfriends messages. Now think of when she gets a notification and fails to respond to it. It’s obviously a guy. This sign is a bit tricky given the fact that girls will have lots of guys calling and texting them and as such difficult to assess. But if she’s always checking her messages and fails to respond to them, she’s probably doing so cause it’s from a person she doesn’t want you to know about.

3. Denying you the honeypot
Most girls won’t want you to give them cunnilingus when it’s less than a day that another guys penis was in there. Of course, there are times when they are just not in the mood for it or they’ve not had their baths in hours or she feels her period is almost here. Despite how conniving women may be, they have a subtle respect for their regular guys and wouldn’t want his mouth where another guy’s stick has been.
Also, when she suddenly starts giving you unexpected blowjobs which she previously didn’t, know that she feels guilty that she’s doing same to some other guy. If she refuses you sex at times, it could be she just recently made out with someone else on the same day. It’s most important to get girls to be free and open with you and I guarantee that you’d be shocked at what you discover. Some of them have no problems sleeping with more than one guy on the same day or making out with other girls as much as they do with you.

4. Her “Friend” Is neither male or female
When she starts telling you about a friend that she has plans with without explicitly stating if it’s a man or woman, chances are the so called friend is a dude. This one is self-explanatory. Girls that are more deceptive in nature would rather completely withhold information from you than lying about who the friend is.

5. The Surprise Shave
If you have had surprise sex with her and perhaps a couple of times when she wasn’t shaved and you discover her to be randomly shaved all of a sudden, she is probably looking forward to sex from someone else. This is even more true if she’s shaved on a day she’s not expected to see you.
Lastly, remember these signs are not perfect and they do not completely tell if she’s with someone else but are definitely things you should be on the lookout for. Nowadays, it is best to think she’s sleeping with some other guy until the time you’re proven wrong.

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by marshalcarter: 7:19am On May 14, 2015
Mtcheeeeeew


Rubbish

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by shakazuldadon: 7:20am On May 14, 2015
Lol
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by whillyamz98(m): 7:20am On May 14, 2015
Typing....
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by olaideeeedris(m): 7:21am On May 14, 2015
Really? I don't agree with you on any of these because:

1. A lady could keep her phone face down because you are with and would not want anybody to disturb.

2. A lady could decide not to respond to all text messages because naturally ladies don't reply all SMS except from 'special' friends and family.

3. Bros sex is not love and love is not sex. If na lie ask prostitutes. Any lady with this philosophy would deny YOU the 'honey pot' any day any time

4. A lady is free to have friends regardless of their sex but the friendship must be clearly defined and boundary clearly explicated

5. A lady could decide not to leave it bushy 'downstairs' because she might not be comfortable

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by anuma1(m): 7:21am On May 14, 2015
Girls are like 90 minutes football match. And
In football anything can happen.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by LustreChris(m): 7:21am On May 14, 2015
Naija ladies been sucking since 613BC...
mods do the needful... front page
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Greyworld: 7:28am On May 14, 2015
LustreChris:
Naija ladies been sucking since 613BC...
mods do the needful... front page

Tah! Which kind?
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Nobody: 7:29am On May 14, 2015
Oooooohhh.....same with men too... tongue
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by LustreChris(m): 7:29am On May 14, 2015
Greyworld:
Tah! Which kind?
kind of wah oh fella
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Decentdamsel(f): 7:30am On May 14, 2015
Am I the only one who thinks this list is thrash
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Shortyy(f): 7:33am On May 14, 2015
and what are the signs that you are not the only one HE's sleeping with?
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by TS2(m): 7:34am On May 14, 2015
I hear you but you failed to provide convincing arguments.

While these are valid, its not enough to suddenly conclude. If not you would just suspect every babe then.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Twaci(f): 7:36am On May 14, 2015
KashyBaby:
Oooooohhh.....same with men too... tongue
Very much true!
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by gudluckgreat(m): 7:39am On May 14, 2015
angry
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by okiezman(m): 7:40am On May 14, 2015
marshalcarter:
Mtcheeeeeew



Rubbish
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Nobody: 7:44am On May 14, 2015
I find these quite ridiculous.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by eightsin(m): 7:46am On May 14, 2015
I don't trust ladies!
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Godfullsam(m): 8:01am On May 14, 2015
With or wirhout all these signs, a cheating girl/ wife will cheat and the good ones will not cheat.
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by LewisO: 8:06am On May 14, 2015
Decentdamsel:
Am I the only one who thinks this list is thrash
Yes! You are the only one. angry

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Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by DaPhilosopher(m): 8:13am On May 14, 2015
lols!
I don't blv ur list tongue list
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Dicman: 8:16am On May 14, 2015
Ooohh I woke up thinkin’ like: “who is this butt-naked bitch next to me?”
They say what happens, it stays here, well I’m like this bitch better leave
Lord, she woke up, went back to sleep cause she slept with the man of her dream
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Dicman: 8:19am On May 14, 2015
she tell me I’m the one, and I tell her she the one
And all we gotta do is dial and chat she say the pussy ain’t free, I said: “wow, fine”
I pay her with a smile slime
Then I told her my coke ain’t free neither
She said that we’re even
I said: “now you’re talkin’ like a loud mime”
I’m up in naija, a million problem with dis hoes
I just lost half, don’t dwell on the past
My girl just said: “let’s go get married”, I laughed
Now I’m at a drive-through chapel in a cab
With my homies screamin’ out: don’t do it, reconsider”
I said: “Bleep it, my nigga, we up in naija !!
Re: 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One She’s Sleeping With by Nobody: 8:38am On May 14, 2015
That number five just dey make me dey laugh

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