bukatyne:


Look around, you will surely see very good examples around.

Have a positive mindset

Okay Ma

SugaRush:


I bought this I bought that.
I am not sure you are a marriage material. Marriage is about giving, forging and forsaking. Once you start counting how much I spent on my spouse last week or last month, you can never have a happy marital life.

My 2 cents.

Marriage material!!!
If I'm not I guess no one is!!:-)
No I don't like to keep tabs on everything done or not done or paid for but when year after year goes by and I feel I am the only one giving emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually to the marriage, I don't need to keep track. Even my body knows it, and the exhaustion I feel does not lie.
So then what, I guess I just say, I'm done giving and giving and giving for now?
U said I'm not marriage material?.... Marriage should not be a selfish thing right? But where's the balance? I've given every last ounce of strength and will continue to do so (minus the money of course:-)
Would someone who is not marriage material hang on for years, fighting with tooth and nail to save it? Or would they run at the first sign of trouble and say marriage is too hard??

No need to explain yourself to anyone.
Someone that can't even do half of what you've done may still feel justified to judge you because they dont know what it means to be in your shoes.

You're online where everyone is perfect.

nowwhat:


Marriage material!!!
If I'm not I guess no one is!!:-)
No I don't like to keep tabs on everything done or not done or paid for but when year after year goes by and I feel I am the only one giving emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually to the marriage, I don't need to keep track. Even my body knows it, and the exhaustion I feel does not lie.
So then what, I guess I just say, I'm done giving and giving and giving for now?
U said I'm not marriage material?.... Marriage should not be a selfish thing right? But where's the balance? I've given every last ounce of strength and will continue to do so (minus the money of course:-)
Would someone who is not marriage material hang on for years, fighting with tooth and nail to save it? Or would they run at the first sign of trouble and say marriage is too hard??