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The Top 3 Ways To Be A Romance Magnet For Valentine's Day by abasifo(m): 10:25pm On Feb 12, 2009 |
1. Look within. Take time to look at yourself within and ask yourself in what way you may be holding yourself back from reaching all the love you really want - whether you are in a relationship now or not. These ways of holding yourself back include not allowing the truly sexy you to emerge. This does not mean being obviously on the prowl for a man. It does mean being honest with yourself about your true desires and needs. It also means taking a good look at what gets in your way of loving and being loved. It could be that you allow things to hinder you. Our looks, for example, are very important when it comes to attracting love. We all instinctively know this, yet at times, some of us resist this truth, and there are good and logical reasons why we do. But look at it this way - if you applied for a job, would it be acceptable to arrive at the interview looking shabby? How do you shape up when it comes to applying for romance? Why do we expect men to accept us "the way we are" when we know good and well that if we knew we were going to run into THAT man from our past today in the market, we'd darn well remember where we put that mascara! 2. Check your baggage! Recently I had to rent a car since mine was in the shop. A handsome man from the car rental place drove me to my rental car, and for some odd reason, I mentioned the kind of books I write. This started a great conversation. He told me that the girl he liked had told him right from the start that she had been terribly hurt in the past, and she didn't want to go through that again. In fact, even her mother got on the phone and gave him the same speech. I asked him how old the woman was - she's 26!! (I smelled lots of hazards ahead for this guy, but he still liked the girl - miraculously. I sure hope he's just as crazy about her mom because obviously she will be very involved every step of the way!) Naturally, my first thought was that this girl made a big mistake by telling him how hurt she has been in the past - or rather, by telling him that right in the beginning of their relationship! She was bringing her baggage from the past and dumping it in an innocent guy's lap. No wonder he was already convinced that women like jerks. Check your bags - the past is over and done with. It has nothing to do with Mr. Right Now - unless YOU are consciously choosing a clone of Mr. Past! We hope not! 3. After you deal with those inner issues - and keep dealing with them as much as you need to - then look at the message you send to the world by the way you carry yourself. |
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