A feeling of been vulnerable or inferior in some way, or a sense of vulnerability or instability which threatens one's self-image or ego.
A lot of people today feel infidelity is the greatest weapon against a relationship but that in itself is not as fatal as insecurity.

It is insecurity that makes a lady wanna go over her man's phone in a bid to ensure he's not cheating.

It's insecurity that makes a guy wanna view his woman's entire call log.

A lot of people have ruined beautiful relationships because of insecurity. This is often as a result of past experiences & heart break but you must also understand that life itself is a risk.

It is often said that " a mother cannot vouch for the child @ her back only the one in her tummy.

Ladies allow him keep female friends and If you are uncomfortable talk to him.
Don't go screaming in the background every time you think he's talking to a lady.

Don't dress too revealing because you are trying to mark your territory.

Never publicly fight another lady because you have fears.

Respect your man even when you feel his other female friends are around.

Some ladies exhibit these traits without even knowing it.
You know your man is seeing his friends(girls) and you choose to call him every two mins.
You are together with his friends and you laff even when no one has said anything.
You kiss him over and over again in public because you want his friends to get jealous....

Nothing puts a woman off more than insecurity. It is ok to get jealous but when your insecurity takes a better part of you, you can kiss your man goodbye...