A marriage can only survive on the altar of sincerity but, sadly you can’t get the truth from cheap people. It has been
observed that some ladies are liars, and in some instance greedy to a fault. If you are not true to yourself, then it would
be difficult for you to be true to the man who want to marry you.


This is the dilemma many ladies find themselves today. Our men always have their eyes on many ladies, and in Africa it
is not a crime to have more than one woman. For your man to discipline himself and be ready to stay with you sincerely,
you need to feed him with truth and confidence, always.


Below are some of the things I see affecting our young ladies:


1. Our ladies end up single or chased out by their husband due to too much media exposure

It is disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on her mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up and
focus on television to watch fake celebrity entertainment. Tell me, what else will dominate the mind-set of such ladies
aside how to live the fake lifestyles they see on social media and TV?



2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores

Because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to
excessive exposure to American media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way, our ladies are losing their
place in their husband’s heart. African family setting is unique and that is why previous African marriages last longer
and envious to the whites.


With this attitude, how do you expect an African man to desire to marry you who claim to be a modern lady when he
knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?



3. You Don’t Bring Value Into The Life Of The Man You Marry or Dating

Your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you
that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince
him that you are worth committing to.

Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope… be a good wife, respectful, stay away from
your mother or friends evil counsels, and above all be his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him
moral, mental and spiritual support.



4. Your Mother and Friends Run Your Life

How do you expect your husband or the man you are dating to trust you when you still allow your mum and clique of
friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not?

When will you wake up and face the fact that some of your so-called best friends may not want you to marry the best
man and that your own mother may just be destroying your life for her selfish reason?



5. Lack of Manners, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing

Your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’ looks will win you men; both the good and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and
manner are the things that will determine whether a man would marry you and, most importantly, keep you in his
house as a cherished wife.

Ladies, to achieve this, do away with being possessive, challenging your man, manipulating him for selfish purpose. A
decent man will love you, once you prove yourself worthy as a responsible lady.

Do not allow yourself to become a victim while trying to be too smart. Be humble, reap a good reward!


http://www.gossipafrik.com/2015/06/opinion-5-reasons-why-some-ladies-cant.html?m=1

2 and 5 are the major thingz that causes single parent, in addition they find it hard to ENDURE hardship.
Finally em lack patience.
GBAM!!!!

Like seriously?why are you exonerating the menfolks?give them their dosage#

No3 is actually the one am suffering now < bring value she refused, leave me where I am she refused instead she decides to take me back to where I do not want to be <