WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband
is not wise.
The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home -
placing
embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -
lacks
wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
"women's
rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply
makes a fool of
herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace
through
bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man
should be
eager to run away from office to be at home, for that
should be
the safest and cosiest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It
simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such
equality to
turn around and become the de facto head of the
home and
oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If
you
destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an
empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he
assumes that
he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman
gently
wields her power and the head actually turns to
wherever the
neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends'
influence
and advice or even from the control of her mother
and father will
have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses
women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon
after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of
childbirth to let
go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their
looks, shape,
dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start
wondering
if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7
years younger.
Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should
love her the
way she is, but when looking for a wife, he saw
people like the
present YOU and ignored them and settled for the
former YOU.
Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go to
bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with
your marriage?
Love is not about looks - we know. But looks
enhances love and
marriage. There is a difference between someone
disfiguring
herself and the person being disfigured by an
accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be,
work on looking
like you were when he first saw you and began the
chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with
headache
or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious
comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than
your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need
to be
pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone
that has no
emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not
excite her
husband. Wives are usually complacent and
presumptuous. A wife
must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A
girlfriend is always
nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of
ways to wow
her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all
arguments,
does not call the man a "useless man", is not
careless about her
looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the
man, sends
the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your
husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?
LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I
DIDN’T JOIN
YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM
AND HE WILL SORT
YOU OUT.

DONT DO IT!!
that's the wisest advice

Local mothers breed local daughters!