I'v been dating this girl for 6yrs now and I'm 2yrs older than her.Early this year she told me that she wish 2marry this year.I askd her if there is som1 already because it won't be me since am not working neither am I ready which she knows very well.She said there is no one,that it can be som1 she had known b4,dat she doesn't av 2date som1 4many yrs b4 she can marry d person.After lik 3mnths I askd her if she will wait 4me dat I wish 2marry in 2-3yrs time,she said no.I advised her if she rily meant what she said and actualy want to marry dis year she shud breakup with me than waking up 1 day 2tel me am sorry am getting married.Well,we continued dating but since she had told me she won't wait 4me I decided 2av a backup.She later discovered I was seeing som1 else.This brought series of arguments n quarrels.I lata opened up 2her that I am not secured in d relatnship because 1 day she wil suprise me since had told me she won't be able to wait 4me n wanna marry this year.Now why is she calling me a cheat that I av a backup,was she expecting me 2wait till weneva her wish com true?.Please who is to be blamed here,opinions plz.

Your babe naim spoil show na. Bros your hands are clean.

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Wait for her till her wish comes true and she waved you goodbye

Guy, you dey fall hands.
Why wait for her to breakup with you?
Can't you do the breaking up

She practically asked you to put your life on hold for her

If you don't break up with her sharply, na koboko I go bring come flog u for there

.....it's not your fault bro. Gods speed!

u were supposed to break up with her.....u at fault bro

Oga! it's not your fault atallll. Did she really expect you to keep her company for the main time, knowing fully well she"ll leave anytime soon? The way some ladies think sef...

i'm having some trouble understanding why u're still in the relationship in the first place.

Oboi u Bleep up ooo!! Bt she loves u

What exactly is the reason why some people date?
Fun

She set a particular period she wants to get married yet the person she's dating isn't ready, who does that?

He in turn doesn't have the balls to decide on what he wants! Kids every where

Girls are nothing but trouble

yorubaboiy:
u were supposed to break up with her.....u at fault bro

She is d 1 dat want to marry,if she rily meant businez she shud av broken up inorder 4her 2meet som1 else.I tin she didn't want 2do it so dat d headline wont b dat she brokeup wit me,so I had 2play smart.

IamLEGEND1:
i'm having some trouble understanding why u're still in the relationship in the first place.

We av broken up because she askd me 2let go of d gal which I refused and she is stil standing her grounds on getin married dis year n said if its wrong wishin 2marry dis year.

Op ,i go fight you if you leave that spare tyer job

Na wa ooo

this kind story dey tire person, both of una no well lol. bros focus more on making money . leave women/ gals for now