EfemenaXY:


Kindly point out the insults in my post ma'am.

I think what you'll find insulting is you taking people for a ride here. How come you know so much about the ins and outs of this couple's relationship and yet you claim you aren't the lady in question?

Ma'am ur post isn't insulting one bit, she just doesn't want to be told the truth.
OP, lemme tell u want you wanto hear, Marry him( but first ask the Bonny lady for advice)

Nonso23:


Yeah you are right.
but trolling is no fun if you keep saying the right things

Stop trolling

Nonso23:


It's a lot more interesting.I don't think I want to stop. It's too much fun
Besides I don't get to type epistles again

I liked you better when you typed epistles

ahnie:
Op,i bet you are the lady,please stop beating around the bricks.

DELTA PIKIN!! HOW FAR

Ayam fine.

Qualer:

DELTA PIKIN!! HOW FAR

and you?

Ok I understand how this confusing this can be, I have been in a similar situation,I still am as a Matter of facts.
I sort advice from my friends and sisters infact honestly it took me time to digest it, I had been dating my guy for a year plus, 1 day He took me to go see his Family, His older brother and wife, His Mom and younger brother, but before we got there, He took me to a restaurant and told me how He had a son when he just finished secondary school but that He was too young to marry and the girl was older than He was and bla bla bla but He and His Family took full responsibility for the child and He does till now, I felt heartbroken "a Son" not even a girl, God I thought of my own kids future if I eventually marry him,I swear I almost bursted with anger for him lying about it till then but for Love
I finally followed him to see his Family after much plea and His elder brother gave us a lecture telling me He understood my fears and that the Family will always stand by me if I had any difficulties I should speak up,then told him not to make the same mistake twice,
I won't lie after then I left him for close to 1/2 a year, I just needed time to think and be sure, now we're back together and I figured I can't loose a man who loves me as much as I love him just cus I'm being insecure, I trust He'll make the right decisions when we get married and my own kids come, I met his son and I see how He loves him and I'm Willing to love him as mine too, I pray God helps me in every challenge I face in future....