Stillfire:
We need to stop blaming other people or society for the decisions these women make, for real.
The average Nigerian woman chooses to stay in a bad marriage. She would do anything to be a Mrs.
That is the average Nigerian woman's life goal . To be Mrs Somebody. Don't you see how they pray in churches? I must marry by force o.
Why won't you people's marriages turn out to be a disaster? If I were a guy I would run away from Nigerian women. You find out the societal pressure they talk about, it's Nigerian women that mostly put it on top themselves.
She made the choice to stay. A gun was not held to her head. Enough of these pathetic stories. Stop playing victim.
In this day and age, I will not pity any woman that stays in a bad marriage. I can help you look for the necessary authorities to report the husband to because I'm practical. That's all. You know what to do either you divorce or you die there.

Just perfect

Do what you will but don't come crying expecting a pity party

coogar:


i was told they seemed happy but then it could be fake. i was told she always flaunted him on her IG/twitter page.



i think the guy never wanted to marry her. she used the social media to her advantage. her fans nearly killed the dude when he hesitated just before the court wedding......he quickly changed his mind & they did the wedding out of the blue...



MBA!
the guy deserves better - toke is a twät! with her manicured nails & that shyte face she always carries around.

Oh yeah. She used social media to bully him into marrying her . Apparently thats the trend now with these pseudo celebs.
Lol. Toke has really 'washed' that guy. Although, his family may not have as much money as before, he still has that old money refinement to him. You can tell he isnt cut out for the naija celebrity crap.

andromida:


Whoa! i just can't get why a woman will want to marry a reluctant man.

Is it possible they are not married? Those pictures, the party moving in together. Person will just wear wedding dress and be forming married? Choi!

So a woman can commandeer a man into marrying her. Maje sef.

i dont understand myself.

Nothing is impossible with that fake girl.

damiso:


toke was a runs girl. With all the independent woman ish on her Vlogs and instagram?

Damiso, how she wan take meet someone like Maje Ayida if no be runs? *sips tea*

I've never watched those stupid vlogs and dont follow her on instagram.

Stillfire:
We need to stop blaming other people or society for the decisions these women make, for real.
The average Nigerian woman chooses to stay in a bad marriage. She would do anything to be a Mrs.
That is the average Nigerian woman's life goal . To be Mrs Somebody. Don't you see how they pray in churches? I must marry by force o.
Why won't you people's marriages turn out to be a disaster? If I were a guy I would run away from Nigerian women. You find out the societal pressure they talk about, it's Nigerian women that mostly put it on top themselves.
She made the choice to stay. A gun was not held to her head. Enough of these pathetic stories. Stop playing victim.
In this day and age, I will not pity any woman that stays in a bad marriage. I can help you look for the necessary authorities to report the husband to because I'm practical. That's all. You know what to do either you divorce or you die there.

Well said.

You dont want to read some of the comments on the blogs. Really heartbreaking.

ladygogo:


Oh yeah. She used social media to bully him into marrying her . Apparently thats the trend now with these pseudo celebs.
Lol. Toke has really 'washed' that guy. Although, his family may not have as much money as before, he still has that old money refinement to him. You can tell he isnt cut out for the naija celebrity crap.

how did they even find themselves?

damiso:

Ask google

google referred me back to you.....

cococandy:


Coogar do you have proof?
Anyway that's what some women get for being desperate about marriage.
When you say a woman's life should not revolve around marriage, some want to bite your head off.
Why won't they be treated like trash when all it takes to make one a person deserving of respect is marital status.

there's proof everywhere na......
twitterati went in smoke when it was reported the maje guy stood toke up at the registry.

coogar:


how did they even find themselves?

Runs tins.

I think the maje guy did his secondary school abroad sef. So therefore, they are not in the same socio-economic strata.

Peep this video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twFRVhmV364

I empathize with the Toke lady sha. 12years relationships down the drain. 8years affair under wraps. wow wow wow

500 shades of Human nature. You just never know.

ladygogo:



Runs tins.

I think the maje guy did his secondary school abroad sef. So therefore, they are not in the same socio-economic strata.

Peep this video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twFRVhmV364

he had his entire formal education in the UK. he actually worked in the banking industry for 10 years in london before moving to nigeria. its obvious why toke wants to "die there".

coogar:


he had his entire formal education in the UK. he actually worked in the banking industry for 10 years in london before moving to nigeria. its obvious why toke wants to "die there".

Yes na. Did you hear him say he did some horse-riding in boarding school? Very polished guy, but he is a fugk boy still

ladygogo:


Damiso, how she wan take meet someone like Maje Ayida if no be runs? *sips tea*

I've never watched those stupid vlogs and dont follow her on instagram.

not necessarily na. She fit meet am for ikoyi club (until recently you did not have to be very rich to be a member of ikoyi club)

I however get and know the 'die hard abi should we call it die there' mentality of some gals when they snag this old money ikoyi 'big boys'. It's just a bit puzzling that toke could be a runs gal with all her 'independent women preaching'

That Lagos social scene sha and all shades of fakeness. 'I must belong by fire or force.'I had an ex who was old Lagos money if you can call it that and one of the reasons I fleed was I cant cope or match up with social climbing it's not just in me. His mama and family nko the woman asked me my family history the first time we met.

Gosh.In a way I am kinda happy that I have left all that ish behind me.

coogar:

how did they even find themselves?
google referred me back to you.....
there's proof everywhere na......
twitterati went in smoke when it was reported the maje guy stood toke up at the registry.

Go check the Nigerian urban Dictionary why is it me you are asking na sebi its ladygogo that first called her a 'Runs gal' Ngbo ladygogo what and who is a runs gal?

damiso:



Go check the Nigerian urban Dictionary why is it me you are asking na sebi its ladygogo that first called her a 'Runs gal' Ngbo ladygogo what and who is a runs gal?

it has to come out of your mouth - you cannot escape this one. who is a runs girl? please answer in your "britico" accent.

Ewuro4:
I empathize with the Toke lady sha. 12years relationships down the drain. 8years affair under wraps. wow wow wow

500 shades of Human nature. You just never know.

I find it difficult to believe that toke didn't know about this side chick her hubby dated for 8yrs.

I even read somewhere don't know how true that their marriage was an 'open' one

damiso:



not necessarily na. She fit meet am for ikoyi club (until recently you did not have to be very rich to be a member of ikoyi club)

I however get and know the 'die hard abi should we call it die there' mentality of some gals when they snag this old money ikoyi 'big boys'. It's just a bit puzzling that toke could be a runs gal with all her 'independent women preaching'

That Lagos social scene sha and all shades of fakeness. 'I must belong by fire or force.'I had an ex who was old Lagos money if you can call it that and one of the reasons I fleed was I cant cope or match up with social climbing it's not just in me. His mama and family nko the woman asked me my family history the first time we met.

Gosh.In a way I am kinda happy that I have left all that ish behind me.

Runs girls dont go to ikoyi club? Thats exactly where they will find their customers, but the funny thing is these boys can spot a social climber from a mile.

Really? That must have been an experience.
I dont know how some women stay married to these men,very few of them are mentally ok.

ladygogo:


Yes na. Did you hear him say he did some horse-riding in boarding school? Very polished guy, but he is a fugk boy still

what's the meaning of a fugk boy? ladygogo, don't let T-dot spoil you.

coogar:


what's the meaning of a fugk boy? ladygogo, don't let T-dot spoil you.

Im not a t-dot girl o. i'm a good girl na. Anyway, fugk boys are boys you just fugg, you can't take home to your daddy, and are not marriage material.

Ewuro4:
I empathize with the Toke lady sha. 12years relationships down the drain. 8years affair under wraps. wow wow wow

500 shades of Human nature. You just never know.

Toke doesn't need any pity whatsover, she's very desperate, who wouldn't know her man had a dish on the side for 8 years?

ladygogo:


Im not a t-dot girl o. i'm a good girl na. Anyway, fugk boys are boys you just fugg, you can take home to your daddy, and are not marriage material.

so it's all about his money?
do you think men like maje are preys to the ever desperate nigerian women?

coogar:


so it's all about his money?
do you think men like maje are preys to the ever desperate nigerian women?

Yes!

Stillfire:


Yes!

in other words, señora toke makinwa is a predator?

coogar:


it has to come out of your mouth - you cannot escape this one. who is a runs girl? please answer in your "britico" accent.

A runs girl is a girl who can 'Run' faster than the average girl abeg coogar leave me

ladygogo:


Runs girls dont go to ikoyi club? Thats exactly where they will find their customers, but the funny thing is these boys can spot a social climber from a mile.

Really? That must have been an experience.
I dont know how some women stay married to these men,very few of them are mentally ok.

It was o. she asked for my dad's name ,where he worked ,where my mother was from even trying to decode if she knew people who knew them(which she invariably did as most lagosians know each other). I could have put the mums issues to you wanting to know the background of who your child is dating. It's the bobo himself I had issues with. All i can say I don't se ju ara mi lo (I don't do pass myself) so if I had married him we would probably be having issues with trying to keep up with the joneses. Remembering that guy makes me laugh sometimes. If I had looked at all the trappings I would have probably been an 'Island big gal' by now Chei see me suffering in london

BUT I would have been suffering and smiling and probably using all my own money to keep an 'image'.

That said it works for some and sometimes that name and clout opens up doors and opportunities that might not have otherwise been opened. It was not just for me.

coogar:


so it's all about his money?
do you think men like maje are preys to the ever desperate nigerian women?

It's not always all about the money and the name. Sometimes, its about having a 'good time'.

Yes, but there are still very few Nigerian women that dont care about social climbing though.

damiso:


It was o. she asked for my dad's name ,where he worked ,where my mother was from even trying to decode if she knew people who knew them(which she invariably did as most lagosians know each other). I could have put the mums issues to you wanting to know the background of who your child is dating. It's the bobo himself I had issues with. All i can say I don't se ju ara mi lo (I don't do pass myself) so if I had married him we would probably be having issues with trying to keep up with the joneses. Remembering that guy makes me laugh sometimes. If I had looked at all the trappings I would have probably been an 'Island big gal' by now Chei see me suffering in london

BUT I would have been suffering and smiling and probably using all my own money to keep an 'image'.

That said it works for some and sometimes that name and clout opens up doors and opportunities that might not have otherwise been opened. It was not just for me.

Haba! What is it now? Its not like her son is marriage material sef.

Lol. Suffering and smiling o and probably have to be the one footing the bills, because a lot of these boys are lazy azzez living in their fathers shadow and not particularly independent.

Yeah, it does work for some.

Wendy80:

I find it difficult to believe that toke didn't know about this side chick her hubby dated for 8yrs.

I even read somewhere don't know how true that their marriage was an 'open' one

I only read little bout them online and you know how social media is. Her own side of the story on Bellnaija is different from what Im reading here.

If she indeed was aware of the so called side chick then that's the lowest of all lows.

freecocoa:
Toke doesn't need any pity whatsover, she's very desperate, who wouldn't know her man had a dish on the side for 8 years?

Some people don't.

Ewuro4:


I only read little bout them online and you know how social media is. Her own side of the story on Bellnaija is different from what Im reading here.

If she indeed was aware of the so called side chick then that's the lowest of all lows.



Some people don't.

The gist is getting 'messier' by d day sef. Toke for just let the Guy kuku go when the gist of their break up and how he stood her up @ the registry hit d social media sometime ago instead of this.

Ewuro4:


I only read little bout them online and you know how social media is. Her own side of the story on Bellnaija is different from what Im reading here.

If she indeed was aware of the so called side chick then that's the lowest of all lows.



Some people don't.

I'm sorry but only extremely dumb people wouldn't, especially in a serious relationship where you both see each other a lot.